“Can you show me a street kiss close?” said the student…
This is a bit of fun.
Was teaching a student on sunday, and I’d previously told him that I’d gotten a couple of street kisses before and he really wanted me to demo it.
It told him that it wasn’t an easy thing to do, but I’d try my best (i’m always up for a challenge). Also the last girl he tried to open had headphones on and he failed to make her stop, so this was a sticking point at the moment and also wanted me to demo stopping a girl with headphones on. And as luck would have it the next hot girl we saw had headphones on.
So in I go (direct as usual!)
She stops, and we get into a fun interaction.
I do a little bit of kino by highfiving her at a highpoint in the conversation and spinning her round, but apart from that I didn’t really escalate at all. I was just getting to know her and qualifying her a bit. But after a few minutes I wanna start seeing if there was any way I could get that kiss…
The battery in my phone is off, so I get her to save my number in her phone.
She says “What shall I save you as… Andy what?”
I tell her “Andy Good Kisser”
She agrees, with a smile, and saves my number.
Then I get a bit closer and tell her I have to go meet my friend, and it was awesome meeting her.
I tell her “Give me a kiss on the cheek”
She complies. It’s a soft kiss, near my lips. *green light*
I point to my other cheek.
Another soft kiss, near my lips. *green light*
As she pulls away from the third kiss, I stay close, then pulling her into me, kiss her.
I pull away with a smile, with strong eye contact, then go in for a second kiss.
Probably the best demo I’ve ever done ;D – I’ve gotta point out that this is only the 3rd of 4th time I’ve kissed a girl on the street like this – I’m not some kind of street kiss close pimp. This probably won’t happen again for a long time!
Good fun anyway :)
Andy Yosha
(http://www.puatraining.com/andyyosha)
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That’s fucking awesome! One day you will be able to demo this consistently.
Good stuff – though would be interested to hear some tips on approaching women with headphones on, as it seems like just about every girl around where I am is wearing them.
Andy. Dude… !
I have to say your honesty is truly inspiring. And plus I love what you say at the end:
“I’ve gotta point out that this is only the 3rd of 4th time I’ve kissed a girl on the street like this – I’m not some kind of street kiss close pimp. This probably won’t happen again for a long time!”
I think it’s so imprtant for students to realize these kind of realities of game in general, and how perseverance really pays off. Because, frankly, we must all be pretty tired of bombastic PUAs claiming to be sexual assasins left right and centre etc. Which, in turn, only raises the anxiety levels of aspiring students, ironic as that may sound to some.
Would love to see your video clips – where are they?!
:)
this is the shit.
yeh honesty all the way. its true that it does get tiring hearing these exaggerated stories of guys who make themselves seem like gods and come up with their annoying philsophical smart ass theories.
yup.
wow and plus
shes actually the first hot girl ive seen on this PUABLOG that the ‘MPUAs’ have gamed. usually the types the mpuas of puatraining go for are well…. um… welll….
you bastard! shes so hot.
god i cant believe this.
OMG Ive seen you out teaching with this girl.
shes actually been walking around with you as a wing girl
thankyou once again pua training for thinking we are all idiots
Andy,
You sir, are a genius of your artform. I salute you.
Can I please request a street http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=motor%20boat motorboat close demo?
Hey guys,
Thanks for the comments! :)
I’ve got another street kiss on video from last week… it’s sitting on my hard-drive at the moment, so it’ll be up on youtube as soon as I get my ass in gear and get it edited and uploaded.
I really hope Tim’s comment above is not true guys!!!
Hey guys, I don’t censor comments unless they are pure evil so I let Tim’s comment stand and instead address it. You will all see tons of proof on video soon. Tim, you are obiously trying to be funny or make mischief. When you leave a comment you have to use an email address, I just mailed your address and it bounced back so was fake.
As far as i’m aware, Andy games alone and I’ve never heard of him using a wing girl.
People can always say stuff like this but it’d be good to encourage PUAs like Andy to carry on furthering the arts. I’mn glad I didn’t doubt that game was real when I heard about it otherwise i’d still be a lonely guy living with his mother.
Andy ,you are a god ,keep up the good work .I tryed this with a girl and she just looked at me and walked away ,it was a three set and I walked up to her and told her she was the prettist girl I had ever seen ,where did I go wrong mate?
I never comment on these threads but thought this one was fantastic – makes me really look forward to coming on the residential course in a couple of weeks
Keep up the good work
either that or its his girlfriend then, ive seen him walking around with the girl in the vid ;-)
im new so maybe a bit hesitant but im not silly either.
Andy, that is pretty impressive. The girl took your number -did she call/text you back?
Gambler, Andy faking this and Dharam faking the competition winner and making him an instructor??Bad press
Hey guys,
Thanks again for the comments!
There’s a couple of people who aren’t sure if this is the real deal, but I’m sure I’ll turn you guys into believers with my in-field video footage i’ll be releasing soon :) (i’ll post them up here as soon as they’re up!)
Perfection:
Massive props for having the balls to go direct! That’s the first step – as for where to go from here, I would say download my PDF that’s on my trainer page and it will go through the approach bit by bit.
Regarding your specific opener, I think if you went up to a girl and said you thought she was the prettiest girl you’ve ever seen, it would very likely communicate that you are AWED by her beauty – i.e, you placed a huge amount of value on the fact that she is hot. This would communicate you aren’t used to girls that hot, and therefore you don’t have women that hot in your life currently.
Does that make sense?
It’s the difference between saying:
“hi there, I just saw you walk past and I thought you looked really pretty – if I didn’t say hello I’d kick myself later. I’m Andy.” (good)
or
“Hi! Oh my god you are SOOOOOOOO pretty. I’ve never seen anyone as pretty as you ever! I’m Andy!” (bad)
I’m exhagerating to make a point, but hopefully that kinda makes sense. Hope that helps :)
Dave:
We’ve swapped a few texts but I’ve been too busy to follow it up – lol, just realised the irony of that – I’m too busy to meet up with a girl, because I’m working on my career as a pick-up artist! haha.
yosha you havent answered the question ;-)
Heya Tim,
I can definitely say this, I’ve never seen that girl before in my life, and having seen Yosha first hand in Miami pull this off consistently I’m really not surprised that he managed to do this, He’s a very old student of mine, and has become an awesome instructor.
Trust me he isn’t avoiding the question, probably just trying to avoid the conflict.
Though Honestly If you’re new to this a better way to spend your time than questioning pua’s is to go out there and do it yourself to see just how easy it is.
I think Andy actually does regular free events in London from time to time, why not go and see it in person?
AFC Adam,
Hey Andy, excellent stuff, out of interest, what kind of success do you get with direct approaches in the day, percentage-wise? At the moment, I would say only about 20% of girls I approach directly in the day lead to numbers, are there any obvious tips you could give? My opener is ‘excuse me, just noticed you and thought, wow that girl is beautiful, I have to go and meet her, I’m Alex.
Cheers
Alex
Quality post man! I remember you saying these words to me in Miami and now I’d like to repeat them back to you… “Your game is effin TIGHT!”
Keep up the amazing posts and can’t wait to wing with you again. IMHO you’re honestly not only one of the best intstructors in this company but in this entire business.
ive seen him out with this girl ;-) but cool lets all stick up for our friends though. great work, great work
Hi Alex,
I don’t think it helps to compare yourself to other people all the time. We’re all on our own journeys so you should focus instead on how far you’ve come. If you can get numbers from 2 out of 10 girls, when going directly – think, could I do that last year?
Still focus on improving, take each set that doesn’t end in a number and think what you could have improved on. At what point do you think the girl lost interest? Discover your sticking points, then seek out advice to get them handled.
Hope that helps :)
Tim:
I’ll make a believer out of you yet! Just keep your eye on this blog ;)
its not that im a non-beliver, its that your story board was setup.
Andy,
I believe the K close in the day is possible and have no reason to doubt you, however from a student’s point of view looking at your pics on this post; the pics do look very staged, a bit like a professional photographer is on hand lining up the shots.
I am not knocking you, I am just saying why you may have got some negative comments.
Now the approach done by Dharam on his post “Dharam wants openers”
Is very believable and dose not look staged, and is very encouraging in showing that this pick up thing actually works.
Hey Gav,
The photo’s were taken by the residential student I was demoing for and I pulled them straight from his facebook album where he tagged me (I had no idea he was taking the photos at the time). I’ll let him know you think he’s a professional ;)
Whenever me & my boyfriend kiss and really get into it we always close our eyes. Is this normal?
She is stunning. Respect. I love how you articulated it to us. Was some real suave skills to get something that is seldom heard of.
Kissing is easy everywhere. Club are easier, yes. Street is harder, yes. Yosha appears to be able to do it quite well, which is an excellent skill. Continue. :)
In a club, my ”record” is around 30 seconds. It end up with a couple of dates and sex. I still remember her.
Kissing is one thing. Kissing a cute girl (done here) and kissing an intelligent, funny and wife material girl is more difficult. ;) That’s my objective.
I look forward to other posting here.
P.-S. Living in Russia since one year. That’s the shit! ;) I did the first steps toward a girl 1-2 times in the past year, versus them doing it around 50 times. Life is great dudes, enjoy it! :)
Awesome, keep going!
F***in spot on blog! 1 of the most believable blogs ive seen! you’re an honest guy and it comes across!
im just wondering who helped you when you started out in game, who was your trainer? esp the start of approaching through the anxiety.
Big up yourself Andy
p.s. wheres the video ;)
Thanks Crush!
There are alot of guys who helped me out at the beginning of my Journey. Yad was the main guy who kinda took me under his wing in the beginning, and since then it just came down to practice practice practice – with help from many different friends and trainers on the way who each had little nuggets of advice that was right for me at the time.
Regarding your approach anxiety though, it doesn’t matter what trainer you have at the start for this. Whether you’re being trained by the best guy in the world or a mate of yours who’s just a little bit better, only YOU can get past your approach anxiety. It’s your fear, and no trainer can get you past it. Only you can.
I say get PAST your approach anxiety, because it isn’t about getting rid of it, but acting inspite of it. Your approach anxiety is just another name for the fear of doing something a bit scary. The only way to reduce the fear of doing something unknown to you is to do it alot – to act inspite of the fear.
If you are always looking to vanquish the fear by doing anything other than actually approaching, then you are looking in the wrong place.
“maybe if I get a better trainer, he can get rid of my fear” – Afraid not. To be honest your mate is probably better for getting over approach anxiety as he can actually KICK YOU if you don’t approach, where as I can’t ;-) The threat of physical violence can be a powerful motivator!
Hope that helps,
Andy.
P.s – regarding my videos, I have 100s of videos on my harddrive… But me and Richard are working on a secret project that will house all of my videos…. but I’ve already said too much. Just watch this space ;-)
Holy Shit… Awsome Man.
Hey i want to ask some queries to gambler. how can i do that?