I know I promised a post on what game is all about, but I just had an incredible conversation with a girl I picked up that helps to truly show why it’s so important community guys become deprogrammed. I want you all to first really understand why this is important. However don’t take my word for it…take Michelle’s. I met Michelle through a friend of mine, she’s his sister, along with another PUA who actually is an instructor for another company. However I wont be using his name. At the end of the night I hooked up with Michelle and then it dawned on me now to ask her why. Here’s the convo we had over facebook…
Jarett
so when did you first realize you were attracted to me?
and why me and not the other PUA?
6:18pm Michelle
haha
O man
this is fun…
6:18pmJarett
;)
6:18pm Michelle
That PUA…
Was trying way too hard
He said stupid stuff
6:18pmJarett
lol
6:18pm Michelle
turned me off
Way too straight forward
without any actual backing to his words
6:18pmJarett
haha glad neither of us have been straight forward!
6:19pm Michelle
wasn’t feeling it….especially with that whole “hey kiddo” shit act. Lol
6:19pmJarett
haha
6:19pm Michelle
Yeah lets be brother and sister! Yay!
Lol
Nah he’s cool man…but i wasn’t feeling anything going on there
from the get go
6:19pmJarett
ok
and me?
6:19pm Michelle
Then you walked in
lol
The end
haha jk
6:20pmJarett
oh shut up! lol
6:21pm Michelle
Nah I knew right away you were better at this game. The other PUA immediately changes his posture and you were the “alfa male” in the room
Lol
Or so it seemed
6:21pmJarett
so i basically stayed comfortable with my body language while he tried to “act” alpha with his
?
6:22pm Michelle
Nah but yeah…you just played it cool…you didn’t interact with me and I didnt try either cause it was intimidating
And I felt no need
Cause i knew I’d get something by the end of the night
Lol
6:22pmJarett
lol ok
6:23pm Michelle
Haha nah I wasn’t sure how to read you but over all i thought you were playing a mind game by not talking to me…kinda making me feel like i have to come to you to prove my social worth (if that makes sense?) and i knew i would eventually open up after i got to the club
6:24pmJarett
so basically I didn’t invest in you at all at first and got you to start investing in me first
?
6:24pm Michelle
No…
Haha
6:25pmJarett
lol
6:25pm Michelle
the first part is right…but
I wasn’t going to at all cause it wasn’t working but i wanted to have fun and then gave up and wanted to have fun. Lol
I was out! At a club. I want fun
6:25pmJarett
lol
6:25pm Michelle
and the other PUA wasn’t working
haha
6:26pmJarett
yea but I saw you getting hit on by other guys
6:26pm Michelle
Whatever…they were ugly
Lol
6:26pmJarett
lol
6:26pm Michelle
kinda lame
and I liked your hair
Hahaha
6:26pmJarett
ah the blue hair strikes again!
6:26pm Michelle
dude…it wasn’t even BLUE then!
Hahaha
Yes I like the hair
6:26pmJarett
oh well then just that good I guess lol
6:27pm Michelle
i had seen it blue in pictures before
lol
I saw your pics a week before i met you…cause ima stalker
6:28pmJarett
oh really?
glad you checked me out lol
6:28pm Michelle
Haha
6:28pmJarett
i remember just when you came up by me near the end and I saw an open window. Bought you a drink and then had you leaning on the bar in front of me
once you began rubbing your butt on me that was all the window I needed lol
6:28pm Michelle
yup that did it
hahaha
i was like oooo yeah…
but then i turned around and thought…UGH! I need another drink!
LOLLOL kidddddinggg
6:29pmJarett
hey!!!
lol
6:30pm Michelle
Haha nah i liked what I saw and felt and everything else.
So congrats
haha
6:30pmJarett
thanks
one last thing
6:30pm Michelle
yeah whatever
:-)
yeah?
6:31pmJarett
did you feel that the other PUA came across more gamey or less normal then me? I ask just because we have very different styles so would like an honest answer
6:31pm Michelle
Ummm
6:32pm Michelle
Idk…you both are so different I cant judge you on the same scale haha…but he came across trying too hard…and I think the only reason I judged your game when i first saw you was cause I already knew you were a pua
but if i didnt…you woulnd’t have seemed like you were even playing anything. Not in my opinion
6:33pmJarett
thanks
Hope this helps,
Psych
(To read more about me visit my web page at www.puatraining.com/psych and to contact me for any one on one work or bootcamps email me at psych@puatraining.com)
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fascinating.
chat logs are always interesting.
yup
yeh most puas are a bit weird and fake and annoying and think they are being clever coz other guys kiss their arse
but still…
if a girl got gamed by a pua..
its like being tarnished with some disagreeableness i wouldnt want to be around her.
coz pua sounds pretty weird. ooo PUA ooo
there would be no chance in hell id ever hook up with a girl from my past thats for sure!
most PUA humour sucks serious balls. i cant believe anyone could possibly find them funny.
but i guess if one says something thats so utterly not-funny in the way most ‘typical’ MPUA types do in a super excited way then girls find that attractive and giggle intensely for some reason.
i used to spend my time worry about nonsensical issues relating to pua and trying to be too perfect but i find theres no way to really control all the variables that could go wrong because SOOOOO many things could go wrong that theres no use in worrying about things that cannot be controlled.
Do leader guys in the group act leaderish because they have the most self esteem?
because i dont really remember myself acting leaderish in the last 8/9 years or so.
i dont get it.
why is it that some ladz make it seem so easy to get chicks whilst its impossible for others???
ive been thinking of study NLP and such to help with my communication skills but i find from direct experience that its just random words and no concrete results. the ‘results’ are usually some accident which the NLP practioner labels as an outcome of his ‘hypnosis’.
but i think NLP and such is based on trickery and generally annoying other people.
i still dont get how you ‘Psych’ made your ‘transformation’ because ive done everything that could possibly be done and yet im still no better off and still dont have a social life and still cant really speak to women. i dont get it. maybe its a belief system thing.
Probably both oohing and ahing about how wonderful Obama is.. and how wonderful they are. I doubt the two egos could fit in the same room!
what? why dont you quit with your ambigious no one understands/cares talk K??????????????