Conversation with Michelle

I know I promised a post on what game is all about, but I just had an incredible conversation with a girl I picked up that helps to truly show why it’s so important community guys become deprogrammed.  I want you all to first really understand why this is important.  However don’t take my word for it…take Michelle’s.  I met Michelle through a friend of mine, she’s his sister, along with another PUA who actually is an instructor for another company.  However I wont be using his name.  At the end of the night I hooked up with Michelle and then it dawned on me now to ask her why.  Here’s the convo we had over facebook…

Jarett

so when did you first realize you were attracted to me?

and why me and not the other PUA?

6:18pm Michelle
haha
O man

this is fun…

6:18pmJarett

;) ;)

6:18pm Michelle

That PUA…

Was trying way too hard

He said stupid stuff

6:18pmJarett

lol

6:18pm Michelle

turned me off

Way too straight forward

without any actual backing to his words

6:18pmJarett

haha glad neither of us have been straight forward!

6:19pm Michelle

wasn’t feeling it….especially with that whole “hey kiddo” shit act. Lol

6:19pmJarett

haha

6:19pm Michelle

Yeah lets be brother and sister! Yay!

Lol

Nah he’s cool man…but i wasn’t feeling anything going on there

from the get go

6:19pmJarett

ok

and me?

6:19pm Michelle

Then you walked in

lol

The end

haha jk

6:20pmJarett

oh shut up! lol

6:21pm Michelle

Nah I knew right away you were better at this game. The other PUA immediately changes his posture and you were the “alfa male” in the room

Lol

Or so it seemed

6:21pmJarett

so i basically stayed comfortable with my body language while he tried to “act” alpha with his

?

6:22pm Michelle

Nah but yeah…you just played it cool…you didn’t interact with me and I didnt try either cause it was intimidating

And I felt no need

Cause i knew I’d get something by the end of the night

Lol

6:22pmJarett

lol ok

6:23pm Michelle

Haha nah I wasn’t sure how to read you but over all i thought you were playing a mind game by not talking to me…kinda making me feel like i have to come to you to prove my social worth (if that makes sense?) and i knew i would eventually open up after i got to the club

6:24pmJarett

so basically I didn’t invest in you at all at first and got you to start investing in me first

?

6:24pm Michelle

No…

Haha

6:25pmJarett

lol

6:25pm Michelle

the first part is right…but

I wasn’t going to at all cause it wasn’t working but i wanted to have fun and then gave up and wanted to have fun. Lol

I was out! At a club. I want fun

6:25pmJarett

lol

6:25pm Michelle

and the other PUA wasn’t working

haha

6:26pmJarett

yea but I saw you getting hit on by other guys

6:26pm Michelle

Whatever…they were ugly

Lol

6:26pmJarett

lol

6:26pm Michelle

kinda lame

and I liked your hair

Hahaha

6:26pmJarett

ah the blue hair strikes again!

6:26pm Michelle

dude…it wasn’t even BLUE then!

Hahaha

Yes I like the hair

6:26pmJarett

oh well then just that good I guess lol

6:27pm Michelle

i had seen it blue in pictures before

lol

I saw your pics a week before i met you…cause ima stalker

6:28pmJarett

oh really?

glad you checked me out lol

6:28pm Michelle

Haha

6:28pmJarett

i remember just when you came up by me near the end and I saw an open window. Bought you a drink and then had you leaning on the bar in front of me

once you began rubbing your butt on me that was all the window I needed lol

6:28pm Michelle

yup that did it

hahaha

i was like oooo yeah…

but then i turned around and thought…UGH! I need another drink!

LOLLOL kidddddinggg

6:29pmJarett

hey!!!

lol

6:30pm Michelle

Haha nah i liked what I saw and felt and everything else.

So congrats

haha

6:30pmJarett

thanks

one last thing

6:30pm Michelle

yeah whatever

:-) -)

yeah?

6:31pmJarett

did you feel that the other PUA came across more gamey or less normal then me? I ask just because we have very different styles so would like an honest answer

6:31pm Michelle

Ummm

6:32pm Michelle

Idk…you both are so different I cant judge you on the same scale haha…but he came across trying too hard…and I think the only reason I judged your game when i first saw you was cause I already knew you were a pua

but if i didnt…you woulnd’t have seemed like you were even playing anything. Not in my opinion

6:33pmJarett

thanks

 

Hope this helps,

Psych

(To read more about me visit my web page at www.puatraining.com/psych and to contact me for any one on one work or bootcamps email me at psych@puatraining.com)

The Deprograming Project: Avoiding the Strange Side of PUA's

I’m going to admit something to you all.  When I first got into this community I was weird…boy was I weird.

You’d see me with the black nails and eyeliner:

http://i26.photobucket.com/albums/c109/jlsstud13/m_ef2326b8ebe3209f93e2db2a39350732.jpg

If you were lucky maybe even with a pink boa:

http://i26.photobucket.com/albums/c109/jlsstud13/n18308413_33805560_7608.jpg

However simple peacocking was the least of my problems.  From being a social robot, only being able to talk about game and nothing else, having no social circle except for community guys, using a 10 hour routine stack, reading and fully memorizing every pick up method under the sun, and bouncing from strict step by step methodology to crazy and awkward “natural” game….I had some serious problems.  Thing is though this WASN’T me before the community.  I used to have friends, I used to have girlfriends even, most importantly though I used to be NORMAL.  However I wasn’t happy with my dating life so I had to dedicate my entire existence to pick up in the hopes of becoming something I’m not, and didn’t want to be, just for women.  Seems like a horrible pay off but at least I got the women right?

Now it’s time for the ultimate secret….I was an expert in every major method and practiced regularly but I couldn’t get a girl.  In fact my average close rate was probably one new girl every two months.  I could recite every major handbook word for word but the girls didn’t want to hear it.  I saw the blueprint to game but the girls never followed the script!  What made things even worse is that I LOOKED impressive but ultimately was a continuous failure.

Here’s another secret…see these women?:

http://i26.photobucket.com/albums/c109/jlsstud13/n33400331_32455679_475.jpg

http://i26.photobucket.com/albums/c109/jlsstud13/n577770087_3062468_6445.jpg

http://i26.photobucket.com/albums/c109/jlsstud13/n8100784_33796285_8123.jpg

I didn’t sleep with any of them.  Not one.  But I sure LOOK like the man right?

I used to think it was honestly just me.  I’d see everyone else getting results and doing well and it was my little secret that I wasn’t one of them.  Until I realized something….something big.  What if I was wrong about everyone else I was seeing and assuming they were getting results the way they assumed I was getting results?!!  Most wanted to deny it, many tried to hide it, but when I got down to the bottom of it I found out I was right…they were all EXACTLY like me.  What was the message?  This isn’t the right way, this isn’t working, it’s time to figure out the problem. And that’s exactly what I did.

Finally a year ago I worked out exactly what I was doing wrong.  I made myself normal, I dropped all canned lines and routines, I took game to a new healthy level not based on strict formats or chaotic and weird “natural” game.  Before I’d close a girl every 2 months…now it’s once a week, and my game still continues to grow!  Obviously something I did began working and now it honestly feels like I do NOTHING in set and it’s ridiculously easy.  When I made the realization it honestly felt like I was trying to figure out how to fly and land a turbo jet to suddenly realizing I just had to drive a car the whole time.  In order for this to happen though I literally had to deprogram myself from old community teachings.  Certain thought patterns and “high value” behaviors continually got in the way of my success. I’m not upset about the process though because everything paved the way for where I am now.  Once I realized how to deprogram myself I worried that it might just be me so I began doing it for friends and eventually even students.  The results I found…amazing. I mean seriously amazing.  This was it, I was on to something really big and now have a way to truly help once and for all everyone in this community.  I finally have a way to help guys become normal, get real results, and be themselves while having fun. Plus keeping things simpler and easier then ever before!

Welcome friends to Psych’s Deprograming Project.  You will fight and resist to keep the old ways, you will shake your head in disbelief at how complex you made things and how simple they are, you will have everything you know turned upside down (some students have even reported headaches from being deprogrammed since it was so mind blowing), but in the end you WILL see the results you’ve always wanted.  Each and every one of you.

Step 1 is having a new understanding on what game really is.  Good news?  It’s only 3 things.  Bad news? I’ll save that for next time…

Hope this helps,

Psych

(To read more about me visit my web page at www.puatraining.com/psych and to contact me for any one on one work or bootcamps email me at psych@puatraining.com)