I’m going to admit something to you all. When I first got into this community I was weird…boy was I weird.
You’d see me with the black nails and eyeliner:
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If you were lucky maybe even with a pink boa:
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However simple peacocking was the least of my problems. From being a social robot, only being able to talk about game and nothing else, having no social circle except for community guys, using a 10 hour routine stack, reading and fully memorizing every pick up method under the sun, and bouncing from strict step by step methodology to crazy and awkward “natural” game….I had some serious problems. Thing is though this WASN’T me before the community. I used to have friends, I used to have girlfriends even, most importantly though I used to be NORMAL. However I wasn’t happy with my dating life so I had to dedicate my entire existence to pick up in the hopes of becoming something I’m not, and didn’t want to be, just for women. Seems like a horrible pay off but at least I got the women right?
Now it’s time for the ultimate secret….I was an expert in every major method and practiced regularly but I couldn’t get a girl. In fact my average close rate was probably one new girl every two months. I could recite every major handbook word for word but the girls didn’t want to hear it. I saw the blueprint to game but the girls never followed the script! What made things even worse is that I LOOKED impressive but ultimately was a continuous failure.
Here’s another secret…see these women?:
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http://i26.photobucket.com/albums/c109/jlsstud13/n577770087_3062468_6445.jpg
http://i26.photobucket.com/albums/c109/jlsstud13/n8100784_33796285_8123.jpg
I didn’t sleep with any of them. Not one. But I sure LOOK like the man right?
I used to think it was honestly just me. I’d see everyone else getting results and doing well and it was my little secret that I wasn’t one of them. Until I realized something….something big. What if I was wrong about everyone else I was seeing and assuming they were getting results the way they assumed I was getting results?!! Most wanted to deny it, many tried to hide it, but when I got down to the bottom of it I found out I was right…they were all EXACTLY like me. What was the message? This isn’t the right way, this isn’t working, it’s time to figure out the problem. And that’s exactly what I did.
Finally a year ago I worked out exactly what I was doing wrong. I made myself normal, I dropped all canned lines and routines, I took game to a new healthy level not based on strict formats or chaotic and weird “natural” game. Before I’d close a girl every 2 months…now it’s once a week, and my game still continues to grow! Obviously something I did began working and now it honestly feels like I do NOTHING in set and it’s ridiculously easy. When I made the realization it honestly felt like I was trying to figure out how to fly and land a turbo jet to suddenly realizing I just had to drive a car the whole time. In order for this to happen though I literally had to deprogram myself from old community teachings. Certain thought patterns and “high value” behaviors continually got in the way of my success. I’m not upset about the process though because everything paved the way for where I am now. Once I realized how to deprogram myself I worried that it might just be me so I began doing it for friends and eventually even students. The results I found…amazing. I mean seriously amazing. This was it, I was on to something really big and now have a way to truly help once and for all everyone in this community. I finally have a way to help guys become normal, get real results, and be themselves while having fun. Plus keeping things simpler and easier then ever before!
Welcome friends to Psych’s Deprograming Project. You will fight and resist to keep the old ways, you will shake your head in disbelief at how complex you made things and how simple they are, you will have everything you know turned upside down (some students have even reported headaches from being deprogrammed since it was so mind blowing), but in the end you WILL see the results you’ve always wanted. Each and every one of you.
Step 1 is having a new understanding on what game really is. Good news? It’s only 3 things. Bad news? I’ll save that for next time…
Hope this helps,
Psych
(To read more about me visit my web page at www.puatraining.com/psych and to contact me for any one on one work or bootcamps email me at psych@puatraining.com)
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POW!
thats some serious sizzle.
this is some good shit.
fuck that mystery, style, LSS, weirdo PUA bs! its all about the natural flex.
i guess mystery and co do have their credits but i think they spread to much negative wrong ideas about game and dating. so it should eb taken in isolation possibly.
psych needs to write a book!
Hey Psych,
Why do you think the “programmed” version of you wasn’t getting good results? Could it be perhaps you were too robotic in applying those methods? Or do you think those methods are inherently misleading?
And by close, do you mean a number-close or a fuck-close?
Regards,
Anlam K.
stuff: haha thanks for the kind words bro!
AnalmK: I could do every method flawlessly as it was given so I know there wasn’t anything wrong with my delivery, such as being to robotic. However I don’t think they are inherently misleading either. Other methods have paved the way to my understanding of game now and for that I’ll always be grateful. The problem was that other methods weren’t ME. I’m not a super cool guy shooting value out of my ass. I’m a class clown who’s a bit dorky and a bit of a dreamer and thinker. I feel like a bragging douche when I try and tell DHV stories in order to impress, I feel dumb when I open a girl by telling her that “I like salad” for no reason,and I hate using canned routines that don’t allow my natural personality to show.
However I do like understanding the psychology of people, understanding social intelligence, finding ways to give value and make things fun. These are things I can get into. It’s your journey bro so you have to take the path that’s right for you. My only suggestion is find one that keeps you normal and not weird. Also by close I meant sleeping with a girl not getting a number.
you need to know the outergame stucture, kino escalation, qualification, lots and lots of little things to get yourself consistant.
But dont be repeating word for word someone else, start developing your own humour and vibing by just talking to girls. this will increase self esteem and your personality will develop which is fully sustainable in a relationship.
Two phases the second one takes more time but hey thats life ;-)
“My only suggestion is find one that keeps you normal and not weird.”
Haha… I’m naturally “weird” – so I sort of try to soften that aspect to myself – at least until the person has become a bit more familiar with me. If I just let loose, man, that’s just disaster :P… (And sometimes, when I am not concentrating, I will say things that are not best in talking to girls.)
And I do find some of the opener ideas that I have read in the blogosphere pretty good. Nonetheless, I usually stick to, i.e. at a cafe, the more pedesterian. “so what have you ordered?”
And if anyone’s interested, MTV has the MADE episode in which Psych also takes part online on their website. He is just as cool in person as in his blog posts.
http://www.mtv.com/videos/misc/337127/no-luck-with-the-ladies.jhtml#id=1603890
hahahahahaha. I’ll save it for next time.
Here’s a better link for my MTV appearance
http://www.mtv.com/videos/misc/337132/it-wont-work.jhtml#id=1603890
can you rip the vid and put it on youtube?
cant view outisde the us
I found reading things like MM about openers, routines plus all the technical lingo just ended up confusing me and making things far too difficult. i’d end up paralysed by the possibilities and end up doing nothing when i saw a pretty girl.
i found a book on seduction by robert greene far more useful. it didnt contain any routines or structures. it simply contained some character profiles and dealt with the psychology and emotions of seduction. these broader, more general themes have been far more useful to me, and far less confusing. they make you concentrate on the basics without overcomplicating things. In this article PSych you touch on excatly the same theme; I totally agree with it.
yeh definately. simple is better because there was this guy at a seminar talking usual rubbish about rubbish and enjoyed the limelight of being taken to be a ‘professional’ and an ‘expert’ and i just wanted to get a loudspeaker and go ‘GET TO THE GOD DAMN POINT OF ALL THIS SHIT FFS!!!!!’
im very curious about all this.
PS:
Screw you bastard!
If this really happened why would someone put you in a deprogramming project?