Comments on: The Need To Impress Mindset http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2009/06/the-need-to-impress-mindset/ The Most Active Pick Up Artist Seduction Blog on the Planet Tue, 07 Feb 2012 14:33:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: GDI http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2009/06/the-need-to-impress-mindset/#comment-5010 GDI Mon, 21 Dec 2009 15:21:25 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1746#comment-5010 law of attraction, really impresive :) law of attraction, really impresive :)

]]> By: Mo http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2009/06/the-need-to-impress-mindset/#comment-4215 Mo Sun, 30 Aug 2009 16:36:06 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1746#comment-4215 this is a short blog, but truly one of the most important I have ever read. Great stuff dude ;-) this is a short blog, but truly one of the most important I have ever read. Great stuff dude ;-)

]]> By: onder http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2009/06/the-need-to-impress-mindset/#comment-3839 onder Thu, 02 Jul 2009 21:27:05 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1746#comment-3839 This is a good mindset to have and one that i myself realised when out in field as well and explained why some interactions just didn't go beyond a number close... I realised that the girl gave her number purely as a reward for keeping her 'entertained' for the few minutes i spent talking to her, only to not return my calls when i went to follow up... The biggest problem about what you wrote though is how do you reverse the frame when a girl doesn't even know your value yet? It would work in the clubbing environment very effectively assuming you have lots of pre selection and social value, though how would this work in the day time on the street? You can assume high value, and talk as a high value guy but how will she be convinced when she doesn't know who you are to begin with? Being high value is a DHV in itself, though knowing how to display it is difficult... This is a good mindset to have and one that i myself realised when out in field as well and explained why some interactions just didn’t go beyond a number close… I realised that the girl gave her number purely as a reward for keeping her ‘entertained’ for the few minutes i spent talking to her, only to not return my calls when i went to follow up…

The biggest problem about what you wrote though is how do you reverse the frame when a girl doesn’t even know your value yet? It would work in the clubbing environment very effectively assuming you have lots of pre selection and social value, though how would this work in the day time on the street?

You can assume high value, and talk as a high value guy but how will she be convinced when she doesn’t know who you are to begin with? Being high value is a DHV in itself, though knowing how to display it is difficult…

]]> By: Preetham http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2009/06/the-need-to-impress-mindset/#comment-3830 Preetham Wed, 01 Jul 2009 11:40:35 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1746#comment-3830 The act of not trying to impress itself is a BIG DHV. The act of not trying to impress itself is a BIG DHV.

]]> By: diego http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2009/06/the-need-to-impress-mindset/#comment-3828 diego Tue, 30 Jun 2009 23:34:41 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1746#comment-3828 i agree with you totally psych. if you play hard to get and you dont try to impress the girl, the tables change. now, can you tell us some examples on how to do that? i am thinking in asking questions, but im not sure if its ok. for example, if we are in a bar, and she is a party girl, after talking for a few minutes i could ask: "if all the bars where closed, how would you have fun?" here she will try to impress me, to tell me that she can always have fun everywhere. then when she answers, i can make a push pull technique like: "ohh really? thats great! i love girls who do that! but its a shame that you are short." (of course i wont tell this to a short girl, just if she is pretty tall she will get the joke) im getting it right? or what other ideas do you have? i agree with you totally psych. if you play hard to get and you dont try to impress the girl, the tables change. now, can you tell us some examples on how to do that?
i am thinking in asking questions, but im not sure if its ok.
for example, if we are in a bar, and she is a party girl, after talking for a few minutes i could ask:
“if all the bars where closed, how would you have fun?”
here she will try to impress me, to tell me that she can always have fun everywhere.
then when she answers, i can make a push pull technique like:
“ohh really? thats great! i love girls who do that! but its a shame that you are short.”
(of course i wont tell this to a short girl, just if she is pretty tall she will get the joke)

im getting it right? or what other ideas do you have?

]]> By: Perfection http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2009/06/the-need-to-impress-mindset/#comment-3825 Perfection Mon, 29 Jun 2009 23:33:14 +0000 http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/?p=1746#comment-3825 Hiya Psych,very cleverly put,good way of thinking Hiya Psych,very cleverly put,good way of thinking

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