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Hey guys, Just put up an in-field video that I had on my camera, take a look guys and hope you enjoy. Stay kool and keep gaming. Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam ;-)Enjoyed this post? Then you're going to LOVE the material we've got waiting for you....here...
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Hey guys, Have a look at the video and give me some openers :-) Please note that I want all different kinds of openers, serious, funny, direct, indirect, etc. However, I will not use any that are derogatory to women, so be creative but be considerate guys. Stay kool and keep gaming. Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam ;-)Enjoyed this...
Posted on June 24, 2009 | Read more - Marriage Proposal K-Close by Dharam
Hey Guys, If you want to see the original AFCAdam video, it is just below, i’ve obviously got a way to go before I can recreate this, if you want me to go out and try it again, then add it an opener guys :-) Stay kool and keep gaming. Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam ;-)Enjoyed this post? Then you're...
Posted on July 23, 2009 | Read more
Spill the beans now Dharam: is this the hot steamy Foursome that culminates after Psychs’ Threesome post?
(if so I hope you washed cupid afterward before unleashing him on another unsuspecting ‘Pester Square’ set)
;)
the MPUADVD6 cover is fantastic. I wasnt feeling the text though nor the banner thing it is own but w/e its all about demographics and psychographics i guess.
Great approach and close, i envy your game how long have you been gaming to get this good Dharam.
Always ceased to amaze me!
Great stuff Dharam !! , always good watching you so motivating and good to learn from
Hey Dharam this is kool stuff, nice to see someone putting there money where there mouth is, true professional, keep it up. I read Matts blog on ‘YesMan’ which i thought was good, so maybe an opener related to YesMan where you say you just had to approach because you became a YesMan ;-).
A little too gimmicky for my tastes, not to mention you either have to bring out a whole bunch of little “cupids” or “let it all ride” on a single interaction. But I suppose he got the initial objectives met.
Curious if these girls if these girls ever showed up. If so, why wasn’t that recorded?
But overall, not too shabby…
wow! great pick up! haven’t seen this type of style before…good stuff. i need a cupid devil wing now lol
another great video dharam! its really helpful to see u out in field demonstrating everything and breaking the interaction down for people to understand.see u soon in cardiff.
Hey Dharam,
here I have a little challenge:
I am student and at the moment I am preparing for my exams, but I sometimes get distracted by the beautiful girls who also learn with me in the same library. Do you have any idea for a good opener or a pickup strategy?
The problem here is: Talking is not allowed in the library (but whispering) and the desks are all located in a row just in front of the window, one next to each other, so when ur sitting there u are looking out of the window.
Cheers,
Butterflycollector
Hi guys,
Thanks for all the responses, please do keep them coming, I enjoy reading them all :-D
MARK DAVID: No comment :-P
COOL: Thanks for the comment, nothing related to my blog post although I shall take it as positive :-)
BLACK_CAT: Thanks mate. I started on April 5th 2008, that was my first exposure to game.
MR.JIMMY: Thank you, and thank you for the opener on the last blog post, am making a video based on it, promise its coming soon!!
AARON SLOAN: Glad it helps and motivates.
RENATO: I like how you’ve linked the blogs, will definitely try this one out at some point, excellent stuff.
ADONIS: Haha your right, never girls give the wingman or you’ll have to get loads of these. We only had one, they text me ten minutes later and said ‘they’d given up on comedy and wanted to come back to Nandos for ‘coke float’ so got the Cupid back off them.
RAJ: This is just me having fun, no style in particular.
JAMIE: Happy the break down helps, see you in Cardiff for the daygame tour date there.
BUTTRFLYCOLECTR: Interesting comment mate,, got me going, wonder if I could film in a library…Hhmm, I’d definitely go functional if they were next to me, add value slowly (not so much through conversation, as it is a library). For example, I’d ask her to borrow a highlighter, and a smile says more then words, then I’d thank her buy bringing her back a cup of coffee, then maybe get talking as she is leaving say how poor the coffee is and say I should have definitely bought you back a starbucks, this isn’t a great thank you, then it is ok to talk, walk her out, say you need some air, getting stuffy in her and say bye at the door.
Thanks guys, keep them coming.
Stay kool and keep gaming.
Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam ;-)
All the vids and PUA materials i have seen are of you guys succeeding. I’d like to see a vid of you failing, not because i’m evil, but I want to see what happens, why, and how it affects you.
A lot of people (me) have a fear of failure, so I think people would find it interesting?
Thoughts?
I agree with olixonline… kinda
Its not that i have a fear of failure its that i fail all the time!
the most i get is IOIs. whoah! and im being literal when i say thats ALL i get.
no convos, dates, etc 2 n-closes in almost 2 years
and plus i got proper bad mental problems and suffer like all the time.
i think it might be because i live with my parents and i have a seriously negativity LOADED assocation to where i live. there is like ZERO positive associations to my environment in the sense that it relates to happiness.
as the saying goes. ‘natural confidence and alpha manliness is the result of never having any real problems’
i made that up by the way
the quote i made up
Thanx for this video Dharam
Just a question you always have something to say to the girls
how do you do that man! ^^ i got stuck pretty much time
Thanks the comments guys, please keep the openers coming.
OLIXONLINE: The fear of failure is normal, you know why…because your something called a human being. We have emotions, although what you should do is start to express this emotion in-set, for example, go up to a girl, tell her ‘you have a lot of fear coming up to her but you’re the kind of the guy that faces your fear so hi my name is…’ To stand there and say you know what, I have faults, I’m human, yet I’m here, is a huge display of confidence, very attractive. Try it out my friend and let us hear of your results on this blog or a future one :-)
COOL: Keep practising!! I have been where you are, I promise you I had such a long way to travel when I first started my journey, there were countless rejections, countless night bus rides home alone and countless moments when you have so much fear. BUT, push through it and practise, if I can get to a good level, anyone can! Eventually, I realised that all these ‘failures’ were actually opportunities to learn, every time things didn’t go smoothly in-set, I’d be learning something and eventually there were less and less opportunities to learn and more success ;-)
TEN: Thanks for the comment mate. Truth is there is no one technique I teach or I believe you can teach to have the ability of being a conversationalist. It takes practise, although one quick tip bro – Whenever you run out of things to say, whenever you feel it is hard to stay in-set, when ever it is easier to walk away, keep you’re a*se in set! You will learn by standing there and forcing yourself to build conversation then anywhere else. This is how I did it, just force yourself to stay in-set….add on a crazy, wacky opener and a smile and then things really take off ;-)
Hope it helps guys. Keep the comments coming.
Stay kool and keep gaming.
Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam ;-)
I great opener and prop that can be used to interact with the girls and catches there eyes. I would mind doing it myself with a puppet or elmo. Teach me how