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For those that don’t know the 4th of July is when us yanks celebrate our independance day from ::cough:: England ::cough:: by blowing up a small portion of our country with fireworks.  Since it’s a national holiday I knew it’d be a fun night…

This really starts however on July 3.  I’m out doing an Anxiety Removal Course and one of my friends “The 305″ introduces me to these two girls he met outside the club.  We bring them into our group and just party and work the rest of the night.  After the Anxiety Removal Course I figure it’s time to run my own game and I open my target for real now.

Since we’ve already been introduced (the best opener by far) it’s fairly easy to start off with.  I simply sit down and join them then begin joking around a bit.  I basically just find any ways to add value and continually leave and re-enter the set to build comfort and familiarity (a tactic taught to me by AFC Adam).  Once this is done I begin finding out the logistics and realize they’re here visiting from texas and will be in my hometown of Ft Lauderdale tomorrow.  However I want to really justify the number close to make it solid and also want to make sure I’m not just a ”club guy” and bounce them out of the club that night.  Here’s how it went down…

Psych: You do realize that once you come to south beach you never leave right?  There’s to many great things here!

HB: Hahaha I know!! We don’t want to go but we have to leave monday! (makes a sad face)

Psych:   So much you haven’t seen though!  I bet you guys haven’t even checked out our famous Jerry’s diner…

HB: What’s that?

Psych:  OMG see this is what I mean…I’m going to have to be your south beach guide now there’s no way around it.  Jerry’s diner is one of south beach’s most famous places.  It has incredible food and is open all night…also there’s a surprise there that makes it famous.

HB: What’s the surprise?!?!

Psych: You’ll have to wait and find out…I’m gonna head over there with some friends soon, come and join us.

HB: Yea we’re down!

Psych: Cool I have to say hi to some more people here but in case we get seperated what’s the best way to contact you?

HB: (gives me her number)

Later on we bounce to Jerry’s diner along with 3 of my wings.  The whole time we all just joke around constantly, keep things fun, and make tons of inside jokes.  There was nothing “gamey” about anything we did there.  It literally just showed the girls that my friends and I are cool, fun, and most important…normal.

The next day I give my girl a text…

Psych: Hey cutie great meeting you! You always so friendly to strangers? (credit AFC Adam)

HB: Hey! It was great meeting you as well! I am friendly to people who are friendly back give us a call if you are out in fort lauderdale!!

Psych: Good answer! Gonna be out tonight so we’ll meet up for sure

HB: You better! Haha

Psych: Lets pregame first though, I’ll pick you guys up.

HB: What time?

From here I just handled the logistics.  Thing is though another girl I’ve been debating to hook up with also invited me out for the fourth.  Apparantly she had a hook up to a good club, we’ll call her HB2.  I decided to change the pregame plans into after party plans (helps logistics even more lol) since we had to get to the club early.  I pick up HB along with her two friends and then meet up with HB2 and her friend.

While waiting for HB2 and her friend though I spot two model looking guys.  One is off talking to another girl and one is left alone.  HB’s friend goes up to talk to him “because he’s lonely” and my spidey sense begins tingling sensing danger.  I leave it alone for now though but then the other friend leaves his girl and comes over to join us.  They introduce themselves to the girls and totally ignore me…big no no.  Time to destroy some more naturals .  This was fairly easy enough I just whispered to my target “looks like he struck out with his girl and is ready for round 2, try and be nice though.”  She giggled and when HB2 came around I told HB’s friend (the one with the bf) that we had to go to get in…which consists leaving the guys.  I knew she’d be the most down to leave the guys since she has a bf and like a champ c%^k blocked her friends.  Sometimes the mother hens turn into your best friend!!!  The guys tried to argue but just ended up looking needy and we ditched them at the door.

Once inside we begin taking advantage of the open bar.  HB keeps feeding me drinks (IOI) and I bounce back and forth between HB’s group and HB2′s.  This starts to subtly create competition between the two girls which was amazing, no longer did I have to adopt a “be the prize mindset” I literally was the prize now.  Using women’s catty and competitive nature is an extremely powerful tool.  I began taking silly pictures with HB and also got her kissing my cheek to introduce a sexual frame.

Eventually though the music begins playing and HB2 begins grinding on me to steal me away.  Game on ladies!!! The next 20 minutes consisted of dividing my attention between the two and seeing what clever ways they’d try and get it back.  Usually it consisted of grinding on me when the other looked away, taking me to the bar for drinks, taking pictures with them, or random little games they came up with.  I truly feel the highest level of game is where you make it to be that the women game you.  However HB2 lives here and HB only has one more night…I choose HB!  I finally give her my full attention and we begin going to town on the dance floor (my dance floor game has become SICK now and I didn’t pull any punches).  Eventually enough sexual tension is built for the kiss and I go in.  Later I learn this was the moment she knew she’d be sleeping with me!

After this her friend with the BF began getting p^ssy but I quickly disarmed her and got it to where she’d leave and go back to her bf while I stay with the girls.  Don’t know how to break that part of game down just yet but I suppose it’s “Quick Logistical Management Game?” lol.  Then I bounced the two remaining girls to another room (at this point I ditched HB2 and her friend).  However a serious problem occured…I needed a wing!  Luckily one of the skilled guys from the miami lair was in the place “Hwood” so I texted him and he came through.  After bringing him into the set we literally went to town on both our girls.  When it comes to bouncing a girl from the club to my place for s&x I don’t like there to be any confusion at all.  At one point I had my girls leg wrapped around me while grabbing her ass and Hwood was feeling over his girls skirt.

Finally I just say “lets head out to that after party” and we all begin going to our cars.  Hwood takes his girl and I take mine.  However there’s some MORE logistical problems with my girl not wanting to go to her place because of the friend with the bf so I just say we’ll go to mine.  I call Hwood to let him know then head to my place.  Once there I literally throw the girl on my bed and begin escalating however I begin getting some weird form of LMR!!!

Now I’ve NEVER had LMR once it was this on so I was really shocked.  She even said something like “it’s not gonna be that easy…”  I’m almost lost for words here but I continue to escalate and keep getting the LMR.  Then I get “you have to earn it…”  Now most community guys here would royally mess up, hell a year ago I probably would have as well.  Now I know better though then to enter a dumb frame battle especially this late in the game so I just say “and how do I do that?”  She giggles and admits she doesn’t know.  This is when I figure out that it’s not so much LMR but that she wants it done a CERTAIN WAY.  Basically not just rushing into it but doing more foreplay.  So we begin to just fool around a bit and then she gets a phone call.  While on the phone I begin fingering her and making her squirm while not letting up.  Finally she tells her friend “I have to go!” and then I close the deal.

The next day we have the following text convo:

HB: Hey thanks for the ride home.  Sucks we had to say goodbye

Psych: No prob hun, just make sure we get to say hello again

HB: Of course! I had a great time with you come to Austin soon

Psych: Will do!

HB: Can you do me a huge favor and I’ll make it up to you? Find me a number to a cab

Psych: lol and how will you make it up to me?…

HB: I will do whatever you want haha (within reason)

Psych: hmmm naughty teacher outfit?

HB: Done! Let me know when you head to Texas and I’ll have it ready!

Psych: Deal (give her number)

HB: Thanks so much babe! What kind of teacher outfit would you like?

Psych: hmmm hair in bun, button down shirt with push up bra, glasses, and skirt…

HB: Ok done.  It will be waiting on you!

Hope this helps,

Psych

(To read more about me visit my web page at www.puatraining.com/psych and to contact me for any one on one work or bootcamps email me at psych@puatraining.com)

Ok guys it’s been a while….

Summer is upon us… suddenly the hidden beauties emerge from there hiding places and flock to watering holes to consume cider and wear bikini tops…

So what should we be wearing??

Summer day wear is a tough one there’s not too much you can do to create a strong impression in a hot climate..( save of course gettin your ass in the gym…DO IT)

First I’m going to outline some negatives then I will suggest a simple and easy summer look!!

No football shorts or any kind of umbro above the knee kinda JD sports type things!!

No sports shirts.. yes we all know you love Arsenal (insert favoured team and sport where neccesary) and we don’t care.. And No England football shirts!!! We lose all the time and our fans are heathens!!!

No socks with trainers!!! Wear ankle socks or just roll the sock down below the rim of your shoe!!

No surfwear… sorry Billabong, Rip curl fans etc…Surfers are some broke ass dudes!!!

No surfer brand sunglasses again sorry Oakley etc. Get yourself a pair of classic Rayban’s. Avaitors or 1950′s style classic.

No pedal pushers (long shorts).

No obvious high street brand T- Shirts. ie. Topman, River island Tee’s. They are cheap look cheap and every loser out there has the same ones!!t is fine to wear plain tee’s from such fine establshments but anything with a strong design or picture, print etc is a big no no!! Do you want to look like a student?? This is especially pertinent to all you students!!

Ok so there is some of the common mistakes guys make with summer wear.. Now here’s some suggestions…

Wear knee length plain coloured combat shorts (but not camoflague prints, there are a few camoflague prints which look cool but most of them are like sooooo two years ago!!). A plain blue or beige short with a plain white fitted V – Neck T’ shirt and sunglasses clipped on the V is a simple and cool look!! American Apparel does the best fitted T- Shirts but Topman is a pretty good and a cheaper alternative.

Plain plimsoles, i have metinoned vans before, trendy and cheap!!

Get your hippy on, Wear flip flops..HAVIANAS are the only acceptable brand.. There are nice leather style thong sandals too but to be sure go for the havianas (available at Office)!! You can wear flip flops with jeans, if it’s really hot roll your jeans up to your knees!! I am usually a fan of skinny or straight leg jeans but a pair of baggy baby blue jeans trailing to the ground at your ankle (and thus getting filthy), white flip flops and a white T- Shirt is cool aswell.

There are some nice above the knee length smart shorts available at Topman and FCUK , if you have ok legs (if your chubby or have boney legs don’t go there.. step away from the shorts!!) To be safe go for a plain blue or beige and wear with a fitted T’ shirt or a fitted short sleeve collar shirt!!

Deck shoes!! Blue and white deck shoes (socks not visible are smart and casual at the same time and show a certain English class and restrain!! And plus there only 35 quid from river island!!

Get a tan!! We have about 3 weeks of sun on this desolate rock enjoy it!! And if you have to work you can always cheat!! Fake tan by St Tropez is about 15 pounds for a tube (available at Boots, select the relevant skin tone). It is the ONLY good brand. The rest will have you looking like a Swedish pornstar!! Come on guys were living in a metra-sexual society now, wear the fake tan it will make you look healthy and more attractive!! That being said NEVER admit it!! NEVER… your Grandad is Italian or you went to Brighton at the weekend!!

Finally i already mentionned the gym!! It’s a bit late now for all you couch potatoes but next year is always around the corner!! If your in shape wear a vest!! But be honest are you really in shape??

Now go to the park… Happy hunting…