In this video I’m going to show you exactly how to approach a father and daughter set, with some interesting responses :)
httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KcGUxj5LI6E
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But hey, you told her she was cute and she walked off. Do you call that a result?????
Direct Approach:
I had a great deal of experience with this on a recent cruise I took. It’s very easy, open the father first. The girl will know what is going on; she will know with a glimpse of the eye what you are doing. Build some comfort with the father like getting directions or asking an opinion of the father. Ounce he is hooked you transfer to the daughter, sweep them away and invite him to the wedding.
Indirect Approach:
Keep an eye on where they are going, ounce they get where they are such as in line for coffee, waiting to be seated at a restaurant or checking out specific sites etc… Simple war strategies, divide and conquer, as soon as she ventures away from dad open her and move fast. If dad returns transfer to him, build comfort and a time constraint then get the hell out. Since I live in a vacation destination I see this all the time, and I have noticed that girls secretly don’t want to be around there parents, but they want disrespect them by talking to you if they are busy. They will get away from parents it is only a matter of time. Follow and strike fast.
Pierce
Hey Dharam, i SERIOUSLY think: That’s so brave of you man!
The Dad look kinda nonchalant, but the daughter seems embarrassed, little shy maybe, haha..
Love your posts and your friendly attitude! stay Kool and keep gaming!
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dude…respect… u got balls
To My Friendly Neighbor,
Your energy was upbeat and friendly! That set was definitely doable it just requires some minor tuning. You’re going to land it next attempt!. Approach with that same energy but make sure you don’t let them split apart. If you’ve got her attention an lost the dad’s just move your focus to dad and bring him in. Lead the set. Compliment the girl when they’re together as a set. Then move your attention to him, make sure to keno both. In a happy friendly way deliver a compliment to him that will make him feel good about himself. Create a Smile! In this situation you really have to Win the Set to Win the Girl!
Dharam! Your Happiness and Enthusiasm is Amazing! So is your Drive! It’s what we’re going to call the Triangle Of Greatness. Happiness, Passion, and Drive. The Recipe To A Great Life!
Your Friend,
Edmund
Props for trying! Didn’t succeed but thats not really relevant… and as nityi said. “u got balls”
Great job Dharam,
If its a mother and daughter I open and ask them if they are sisters. Of course they will say no, just bust on them a play along a little and then start qualifying the girl through her mom. “So is your daughter the ambitious type?” ” I like ambitious girls etc” I think you know what to do from there.
If its a Dad and girl you need to find out if the Dad is hostile or not. If hes not then do the same as the mom and just qualify through the dad. If hes hostle then you need to compliment him with something like “you can tell a lot about a girl by meeting her Dad, you seem like an xyz type of guy, I like that” Is your daughter like that?
Hope this helps. Love the videos Dharam!
Hmmm
things dont add up its like i wonder how one pulled all that of, wondering what that is though.
I have trouble escalating anyway and i wouldnt escalate a girl i have doubt about knowing how to escalate and plus i wouldnt want to do any escalations on the internet if i doubt i could keep the same character in real life. plus i dont have a social life and dont really know what im doing anyway. and plus i live a miserable boring life so theres no real motivation to escalate anyway. and plus my unresolved issues get in the way of escalating anyway.
i was experimenting with blogigng and i realised something that:
it is quite danting because one is putting their intellect on the line.
its quite revealing because what if people realise what im doing through it
But
people only learn from others sharing their secrets i guess
HMMMMMMMMMMMM
and what if i become a ‘seduction expert’ and then girls realise my reputation then on a date they might be expecting some super magical guy who is super unbelievably confident.
and plus let us forget i dont actually know what im talking about if i did write an amazing blog!
so need more experience.
also i noticed from NLP places everyone is paranoid and thinks the other person is communicating with them in some ‘hypnotic’ language when most of the time they are probably not.
also i noticed that. after a success comes failure and after failure comes success. curious.
but i dunno how true my previous comment is though
“He bleeds! He’s not a machine he is a man you see!”
This is the first approach i have seen you do which has not worked.
First of all, credit where it is due. You did the approach, it looked good from a body language point of view i think. You kept and cool and calm all the stuff you would expect a MPUA like yourself to do! Secondly, you did the approach with a dad. You showed bottle by approaching a set with a dad especially with a DIRECT opener! Good job he was not a big dude otherwise there might have been trouble maybe because of your sheer bottle to get in there! Phil Mitchell would be proud. Thirdly, you did not look fazed by it at all and used it as a great learning experience.
Just a question, i have noticed you in the past you stoop down quite a bit kind of like on one knee. Why do you do that? Is that to appear more approachable, friendly and less threatening? Is that something you recommend a taller bloke to do?
Thanks.
That was a nice attempt…
This is an area that i’m working on at the moment just to expand my comfort levels a little bit more… The way i do it is as follows:
Start off talking about something indirectly and situational and try and befriend the parent. Then transition and say something off the cuff like:
“I’m sorry but i keep getting distracted by your daughter, she is absolutely stunning”
Then transition and start talking about the daughter and escalating things further…
This will work because you will have befriended the parent by that point and will accept your comment and have a high possibility of pushing you into dating his/her daughter cos you will have demonstrated your giving and kind personality ;)
Good try though Man..
Onder,
im going to plan to move out whilst my parents are on holiday! time for new beginnings….
im curious…
in the future i will probably have alot of options..
but realistically i dont see how its possible to like close every single one ALL the way without either jealously or resentment stirring. and relationships are naturally complicated enough (from what i observe?). plus isnt it risky for women to be ‘loose’ in the dating arena?
and i dont see how so called ‘multi-relationships’ works unless one is into orgies and swinger events.
just a few ponderings…
but im inexperienced so what do i know!
i want to learn how to be comfortable blogging and stuff because at the mo i find it so uncomfortable!!
i noticed the more i am able to absord and realise the ‘cold’ hard facts of reality, the more comfortable i am.
but what do i know?
Hi Guys,
First and foremost, thank you for all the responses on this blog, I will have a new one out shortly so be ready ;-)
TOBY: The moment anyone approaches, I call it a result, as when you approach, you are doing something :-)
PIERCE: Sounds like some solid feedback, will keep it in mind next time I see a parent/daughter set and put it in to practice.
RYAN: My favourite comment, thank you so much…Unfortunately, no events planned in Singapore mate.
NITYI: Cheers bro.
EDMUND: You are spot on here, ‘The recipe to a great life’ Game for me is more then approaching women, but being happy and living a fulfilling life.
OLIXONLINE: Cheers bro.
CHAOSMAN: Yeah mother/daughter sets totally different animal to father/daughter sets & must find out if the father is hostile first for safety reasons :-S
CURIOUS: Mate stop wondering, start doing :-)
ROGER: As opposed to focusing on game and escalation, improve your life, make it a happy and complete one, a woman should not define the level of happiness in your life, she only enhances it, your foundation must be solid or you’ll become dependent on one woman.
BILL: Learn as long as we’re here.
DUKE: I luv this comment, you took the time to leave your honest thoughts and as always I will reciprocate. First I must say thanks for the kind words, they are very much appreciated. The stooping down is just me being me, I don’t plan it, although I believe true confidence is being yourself, and I guess I am a guy that stoops. I think for taller guys, maybe just keep slight distance initially to build comfort, add a smile and your sorted bro ;-)
ONDER: Ah treat the set like a mix set, opening the guy first, interesting thoughts man, thanks.
WHO AM I: Well done.
THE SOUL OF ONE: Multiple relationships, experience it to understand it, much easier then you think. Go and practice mate, get some experience ;-)
OK: Kool, keep getting comfortable I guess.
Keep them comments coming guys, I will respond to them all
Stay kool and keep gaming.
Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam ;-)
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