Hey guys,
I recently released my e-book, which you can get free on: http://www.puatraining.com/files/brochures/nice-guy-game.pdf
One of the topics I spoke about was social circle building and the many advantages of building a healthy social circle. However, a Platinum Residential student asked me this week about some of the best ways to go about including as many female friends as possible, he said he found it very useful and as such I thought i’d post a quick tip on what I found to be the most powerful weapon: A Wing-Woman ;-)
I have found that the best way to go about acquiring a Wing-Woman is when going out to sarge, attempt to close all women, including the ones with boyfriends, as such you are building your social circle and making new female friends. However, this doesn’t necessarily lead to a Wing-Woman, but what will is going out with these girls as friends and asking there opinion on how to approach other girls in the club, then take there opinion and use it, actually go approach using there suggestions, when you finish the approach go back to your female friend and she will naturally want to know how it went. Then suggest may be she could help you in your next set, this will make approaching much more fun and lead to much better results giving you tonnes of pre-selection ;-)
The first time I truly realised the power of Wing-Woman was when I was at a friends 21st birthday party and I brought another female friend as my guest. I had just begun teaching pick-up was telling her about it, then she said to me as I am not teaching tonight, do I have a target of my own at the party? Naturally I did and pointed to the birthday girl’s cousin, she was looking absolutely stunning that night, and I wanted to go over and say hi, although what stopped me was that being so close to the birthday girl she was constantly centre of attention and it was hard to get near her, let alone speak to her on her own. I asked my female friend on how I could get close to her, and she, having had a few glasses of wine, turns to me and says ’Let me show you real game ;-)’ My friend had noticed my target go to the bathroom and she purposefully went herself behind her, next thing I see, is both girls walking towards me laughing and joking, then my friend re-introduces me to my target saying something like ‘This is my best mate, his amazing, you two would get on great, remember we were talking about good clubs in London, he knows the best’ My friend had just handed me my target on a plate!! The next morning, after I said goodbye to my target, I called my friend and thanked her and asked what she did, she said nothing more then discuss makeeup tips in the toilets with my target, then just got talking about how she knew the birthday girl, who she was there with and then she naturally told her who she was there with, me, and how great I am ;-)
Here is a quick vid to show you guys a social circle close and to continue my regular openers challenge, please keep sending in openers guys, I hope you enjoy :-)
I hope you guys have enjoyed reading this post and watching this video, if you guys have more tips on social circle building or a better way to get Wing-Woman, please do add it as a comment below as i’d luv to read it.
Stay kool and keep gaming.
Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam ;-)
