A SECRET WEAPON: The Wing-Girl ;-)
Hey guys,
I recently released my e-book, which you can get free on: http://www.puatraining.com/files/brochures/nice-guy-game.pdf
One of the topics I spoke about was social circle building and the many advantages of building a healthy social circle. However, a Platinum Residential student asked me this week about some of the best ways to go about including as many female friends as possible, he said he found it very useful and as such I thought i’d post a quick tip on what I found to be the most powerful weapon: A Wing-Woman ;-)
I have found that the best way to go about acquiring a Wing-Woman is when going out to sarge, attempt to close all women, including the ones with boyfriends, as such you are building your social circle and making new female friends. However, this doesn’t necessarily lead to a Wing-Woman, but what will is going out with these girls as friends and asking there opinion on how to approach other girls in the club, then take there opinion and use it, actually go approach using there suggestions, when you finish the approach go back to your female friend and she will naturally want to know how it went. Then suggest may be she could help you in your next set, this will make approaching much more fun and lead to much better results giving you tonnes of pre-selection ;-)
The first time I truly realised the power of Wing-Woman was when I was at a friends 21st birthday party and I brought another female friend as my guest. I had just begun teaching pick-up was telling her about it, then she said to me as I am not teaching tonight, do I have a target of my own at the party? Naturally I did and pointed to the birthday girl’s cousin, she was looking absolutely stunning that night, and I wanted to go over and say hi, although what stopped me was that being so close to the birthday girl she was constantly centre of attention and it was hard to get near her, let alone speak to her on her own. I asked my female friend on how I could get close to her, and she, having had a few glasses of wine, turns to me and says ’Let me show you real game ;-)’ My friend had noticed my target go to the bathroom and she purposefully went herself behind her, next thing I see, is both girls walking towards me laughing and joking, then my friend re-introduces me to my target saying something like ‘This is my best mate, his amazing, you two would get on great, remember we were talking about good clubs in London, he knows the best’ My friend had just handed me my target on a plate!! The next morning, after I said goodbye to my target, I called my friend and thanked her and asked what she did, she said nothing more then discuss makeeup tips in the toilets with my target, then just got talking about how she knew the birthday girl, who she was there with and then she naturally told her who she was there with, me, and how great I am ;-)
Here is a quick vid to show you guys a social circle close and to continue my regular openers challenge, please keep sending in openers guys, I hope you enjoy :-)
I hope you guys have enjoyed reading this post and watching this video, if you guys have more tips on social circle building or a better way to get Wing-Woman, please do add it as a comment below as i’d luv to read it.
Stay kool and keep gaming.
Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam ;-)
Can’t wait to suggest this to my friends. Consider that “Yesman” stolen.
wow ! what a detailing of every point. I think its really such a nice weapon to make relationship with one girl to other girl. I will try to follow this tips.
Invaluable post there, Dharam!
This is something Im aiming to acheive more of in my own life – a circle of female friends, as opposed to just male friends all the time. Your timing of this entry couldn’t have been better :)
Reminds me of Adam Lyons stating (on the Ultimate Natural Game DVD) that female wings are MUCH more beneficial than male wings. And your story on how you got with the hot cousin at the party totally sums it up to a T.
I may even try my hand at entourage game next week at a hot new bar venue in Brighton.
Good work, buddy ;)
still cannot comprehend how it will work since this is clearly a labyrinth. i thought i was about to have it locked in the past but then found out i didnt. i dont understand how this could be ‘it’. suddenly out of no where randomly. whats the difference.
so i am sceptical.
that was a good confident approach which showed in body language and voice tone/speed/volume. Building up my social circle of friends is something i very much need to work on myself! I liked the way you were cool calm and collected when she said she had a bf i.e. unreactive
However, there were alot of people in the way during the clip which made it difficult to fully taken in as much of that interaction as possible. It would help if it were a bit closer next time though understandably this can be difficult.
Good stuff.
The approach wasn’t bad to be fair…your body language was good. But in the cold light of day that was only a number close, which will likely flake. Getting number closes does not in my humble opinion make anyone a PUA…otherwise I would classify myself as one…and I’m not delusional enough to think I am
This dharam fella ain’t a PUA…more like wannabe PUA / Big time AFC
That was solid and she looked hot! Persistence after the 2min time frame was big. This often throws me still. Persistence is key. Also, she locked herself in – crossed legs massive indication that she isn’t looking to move. Forget PUA that was smooth and casual. Asking for a miss call is basically giving confirmation of a solid close. Still being able to close after the boyfriend being mentioned is great – its such a big dismissal but indeed why can’t we just hang out with girls who have boyfriends – it’s normal and sociable. I like.
@AJ solid you say mate?? Your out of your mind…Solid is when she is all over you locking lips with you and ready to take it to the next level. This close was AVERAGE AT BEST, and more than likely this will flake. If your objective is just to meet girls and get into the friend zone, well then you don’t need wannabe PUA’s like dharam to tell me how to do that
I like it. Its simple, smooth and solid. Article is about getting girls to being wing girls for you and the video shows how to number close girls (even girls with boyfriends) for this job.
Going out with a wing girl is a powerful idea. I been out with girl friends of mine and found that other girls will find some reason to come and talk to the girls i am with to find out about me.
The article was about getting girls to be wings, though I saw no evidence of that in that you tube video. In theory it’s a great idea, but dharam’s video would have made alot more sense if he actually demonstrated that concept, instead of showing us some throwaway interaction with some girl in L square, who will more than likely flake on him. Honestly how can anyone say the title of this blog post and the you tube clip have any correlation?!?!?
Hi Guys,
FITNESS JOHN: You Thief :-P Would luv to how it works out when you use it. Thanks.
SELL MY CAR: Thank you for the comment dude, again let us know how it goes
MARK DAVID: Very pro-active attitude mate. Thanks and good lucks.
POTATO: Please clarify with your point a bit more mate as to why your sceptical, and I will try to address it the best I can
MSCHUMACHER: Thanks and will definitely try and get a clearer video next time, as you can understand it is difficult in these situations.
DICK BURGER: You are spot on, getting phone numbers doesn’t make anyone a PUA, the technical definition per wikipidiea is a man who is ‘highly skilled in seducing women’ My style of ‘Nice Guy Game’ is from a perspective of a guy that enjoys closing women to go on dates, build-up one’s social circle and then seducing in a very under-the radar manner, it is my style. However, this is a weekly openers challenge, as such please leave a comment stating what you would like to see used in the next video & why and if it is more fitting and appropriate then that which other people send in, I will go out and try it for you :-)
DELROY LYNDELL: Everyone is entitled to there own opinion :-)
AJ: The comments are much appreciated, I luv the analysis, I think it actually adds value for those viewing this blog as there is a further break-down. Thanks.
KICKS: Haha so you clearly know the power of going out with female friends, nothing more need be said ;-)
T-BOB: The video was a demonstration of a friend close, something I haven’t done before in a blog. Please leave a comment as to how you feel the correlation could be better between the post and video, as in what should be in this video to demonstrate a wing-girl power, let me know and will see what can do
Thanks guys.
As for whether she was a flake, well as AJ said she told me to call her, whilst in-set, it is unlikely it would flake after this. However, honestly I cannot say, as I tell the girls I am filming post approach and get there consent.
Stay kool and keep gaming.
Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam ;-)
I am looking forward for your new post. Please update your site.
The approach wasn’t bad to be fair…your body language was good. But in the cold light of day that was only a number close, which will likely flake. thanks for this nice update.
Dharam you make some good points..definately building up social circle is a plus..that is what i like you dont seem to have your life revolving soley around pick up, it is just a part of your life. Oh and also the girl will only stay in the friend zone if YOU choose for that to be ..come on peeps lets not be the effect but the cause ;)
this is a awesome approach! Dharam is a PUA, as he shows us in this vid and all his others! looking forward to more vids, cheers
HEY,WHAT A TITLE.VIDEO IS VERY AMAZING,REALLY YOU HAVE A ARTISTIC MIND.THANKS FOR SHARING THE POST.
i find it hilarious how..
if you question the ‘gurus’ about their theories and concepts
they are the first to go sour and defensive. and that happy sunshine presentation goes out the window.
i went to this NLP thing and i questioned the guy doing it about NLP and how it ‘works’. he didnt like that!
so because i have brain problems as soon as my brain problem symptoms started showing up they were the first to capitalise on it and squawk on endlessly about it.
one could say was that technique? but by their body language and emotional outbursts i think it was emotionally charged defensive response.
from people who’ve never cured any real problems in their lives i find that rather disagreeable.
but of course,
if one has a happy sunshine presence about them and is generally high-functioning one can get away with many manipulations. because of their status within the tribal pack.
when people get emotional they tend to be more honest.