Check out this video on state control and look out for the next parts covering approach anxiety and beliefs.
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Awesome, needed this! :D
I just replay the Blondie song “Rapture” over and over in my head and I’m in the state!
When I put on a nice shirt, gel my hear and listen to my favorite music before I go out that puts me in a perfect state and then after a pint and a shot of Sambuca I arrive in my Paradise state and It’s like all my approach anxiety and other shit just vanish.
I’m useless at creating anchors though, when I wank I always feel like I can have any girl, not exactly paradise state but hey maybe wanking is a powerful anchor for me, I’m on a train I see a hot bird sitting across and hey out come the kleenex! haha :)
Good luck with the Weekend lads!!
I find this skeptical.
I only get in good states in particular contexts after i go through the suffering phase and become desensitised to the process which im confident about.
and how can you be unquestionable confident about doing something one doesnt have a spectacle experience in. thus bad/fear experience would make one more aware of the process which ones need to learn.
over simplified or am i being skeptical?
also
gambler might be complying to bens expectations of ‘feeling’ something or ‘imagining’ something. because saying no would be rather socially awkward.
plus he is anchored within a context which is different from the club.
allow doing IMPROV infront of PUA people.
actually this weekend looks interesting.
Great vid Rich! You should post a demo of your bootcamp, I’d like to see u in action.
Excellent, Thanks for posting Richard. Also, its really nice to see what a normal guy you seem Richard.
First time here. Its a awesome video. thanks or sharing it.
That was a very helpful video. It goods to see there are some other aussies in PUA.
AH, i am troubled with misgrievences…
i am uncertain which women i shall surrender mine heart to
destiny will answer.
This question is not really related to pickup, but lets say I anchor everytime I smoke. Can I eventually get the same feeling without smoking?
Tom, you would have to imagine what it feels like when you smoke and when you really start to imagine so much that you can almost taste the tobacco it is then when you create the anchor.
This is my first time posting but a long time following.
Great little taste of anchoring demonstrated by Ben. There is a vary strong connection beween mind and body and one effects the other in astonishing ways. I have found anchoring to very effective for myself and others although please remember guys this way just a taster and not the full version. I am sure if this was one of Ben’s clients this technique would have been more dynamic.
State change can also be achieved though altherations in body language, afirmations, cognitive restructuring and all can be beautifully reinforced and accentuated by future pacing.
Last thing, Ben I though you were a very confident and congruent especially in your verbal communication. Well done mate.
im not sure if i should go to a PUAT bootcamp. ive been to seduction bootcamps before. and i should think it will be just a hard streneous and probably will make a difference but not major. and i dunno if i would be better off doing 1 on 1s casually. plus it costs alot.
Hey guys… thanks for the comments, glad so many of you found this useful….. OB1 thanks for the feedback. We’ve got some more great video coming with some other nlp techniques explained and demonstrated.
@NLP Ben– We are waiting for those. Thanks for let stay here. Its very interesting blog.
Great vid. and nice interview.
nevertheless,
this sounds all great but..
2+ years of doing self improvement courses and coachign hasnt actually given me tangible results in terms of dating and such.
still hasnt seen evidence of a real transformation really.
just improvements from high function well adjusted people who claim to have made trnasformations.
im curious..
how is it that some people have endless sex and never end up having children ‘on purpose’ or ‘by accident’
yet some people have sex witht heir partner and have a pregnancy within like a 3 months of them being together.
but the thing is no one ever says if it was intentional or not.
and i wouldnt want a hysectomy or w/e its called.
I think PUArtistry has had it’s day. Girls with actual brains are wise to it, plus it doesnt adapt well to sudden changes in situations, it’s too rigid and linear. There are definitely techniques you can take away with you, but I think it’s more about the man than the system. Plus gambler got laughed off Dragon’s Den lol!
Is that hypnotism?
hypnosis is a bit retarded
i swear it comes from attributed phenomenonon to ‘hypnosis’ when it could have been a range of different things.
and plus people dont really think about what they say. 99 percent is intuitive but because people are expecting some complex formulated hypnosis they attribute unintentional things to their expection.
and plus all successful case studies are from people who are like:
1. YEH I USED TO BE SO SHY!! when they already had a well functioning social life family life and emotional life and ‘improved’. about everyone i ask has said they used to be ’shy’ when i thoroughly doubt this. it means differfent things. some confident people with lots of friends and a well adjusted high functioning functionality say they are shy.
2. people who didnt actually change but like changed theirf fashion sense and call that a ‘transformation’.
im X10 times more interested in curing my suffering than i am in sex or women.
not going to this.
i guess i will go to this.
i dont get it.
there are alot of gurus about self help and stuff.
but do they actually really practice what they preach? i mean if they spend all their time thinking about these issues then they must do it for a reason??
i say some pretty impressive profound things yet my life is shit cause im fucked up.
i got university
i cant sleep
what next genius?
Let me guess whats going to happen.
first it will be like YEH WE ARE GOING TO GO INTO ALTERED STATES LOLZ
then there will be endless rambling about shit. and about people who dont have real problems getting there not-problems problems solved as use for inspiration.
then we will be led into believe we will go into some magical state.
then as a finale there will be some really smart use of language and some sentence thats supposed to change everyone.
then we are left to do the exact same thing as before and nothing actually happens!
and if NLP really was that great.
how come people like richard bandler cant hypnotize themselves to be billionaires or something. or to win an oscar.
Hey dude, it’s not NLP, it’s public speaking, presenting and improv. Maybe you should get all the facts before posting a load of bullshit messages one after another.
and also
i bet there will be demonstrations where people will be ‘hypnotised’ out of their ‘phobias’
when it fact what will happen is:
1. there will be an attributing of hypnosis to some subjective response.
2. out of compliance the subject will say that he agrees that that hypnotic suggestion ‘worked’
3. the puas in the audience will be liek durrrr no wayz! lolz!
then with phobias
4. the operator will choose someone who naturally looks normal well adjusted communicative expressive and with a stupid look on his face indicating he is a typical pua.
5. the operator will suggest the subject that he has a phobia which he doesnt actually have or labels some minor nonsensical fear as a ‘phobia’ which he precedes to ‘remove’ through artful use of language which no one actually underfstands (not even the operator)
6. the subject is cured and goes back beaming in delight.
7. everyone has little smiles and smirks.
the end.
i thought it was storytelling and some other stuff.
this event better not suck and actually change something for the better. i am yet to be impressed with NLP.
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