Hey people I hope we are well:-) One if the things I specialize in is MLTR’s (Multiple Long Term Relationships) and I would love to share with you guys how I achieve this.
Honesty + Comfort +Morals
There are three sections and stages that I apply to successfully date multiple girls and each stage is used to help solidify an open bond. My definition of what I class a multiple long term relationship is someone who has more than one open relationship at one time. At one time I think any more than four regular relationships becomes too much maintenance. I may sleep with other girls who I extract from clubs or after a day two but I try and keep it at a base set of four.
Honesty
This is my number policy without a doubt. I believe in being honest for a few reasons but the main is not hurting anyone. Deception and lies always ends in hurt and trouble. Being open and free with your words and actually telling the truth and having abundance is a DHV (demonstration of higher value) in its self. If you lie once you need to defend the lie with another lie and it becomes a whole story and it becomes hard to remember what is real and what a lie is. For example if you open with “I am not from London can you recommend somewhere good to go at night” but you live in London you are then going to have to lie about where you live. If you frame any conversation well it can have a positive outcome or work to your favour. The way I word my situation would be something a little like this. “You seem like a really cool person and I really enjoy spending time with you and I want to carry on seeing you but I am not ready to settle down to an exclusive relationship. You seem like the kind of girl who wants to enjoy her life so if that’s the case we should carry on seeing each other.” I am never shy of saying I am seeing other girls although I won’t constantly go on about it as this may seem like I am rubbing their nose in it. I won’t talk about sex with the other girls but I won’t lie if they ask.
Comfort
Comfort is one of my most powerful tools in my tool box. Without comfort you cannot do anything. In my opinion the art of being nonthreatening is building comfort. So let’s be honest you need comfort before you start anything. So in a manner of speaking comfort is stage one so before you move to stage two you need comfort. There many ways to build comfort, like being confidant, non- threatening, holding eye contact, kino, and building rapport. I like building rapport through texting and phone calls. I build so much comfort through conversation on the phone and through text. I make it feel like we are a couple just through the phone. By the time we meet for a day two its’ game on. I will escalate all the time we are together as we have so much comfort before we have even met. I will build the sexual tension so high with her that she cannot resist but have sex with me. Just before I sleep with her I let her know exactly where she stands. When I say that I mean I tell them that I am not ready for commitment.
Morals
This is the shortest section but by no means is it the least important it is just as important as the rest. Morals are so important to protect yourself and the girls you are seeing. Morals for me help prevent girls falling too much for me as well. I will tell you my top three morals and I suggest if you want MLTR’s that you sit down and work five out for yourselves.
1. Never sleep or game a taken women
2. If a girl starts falling for me I will finish it
3. Be honest
This is basically the template I use for multiple relationships. There is obviously more work to at the beginning like getting their number for one. I recommend that you see each one of the girls once a week to keep them hooked but not more so they get too hooked. I hope this helps as much as possible guys. Any questions or opinions please write a reply as really love hearing your guys opinions:-)
Wow this awesome stuff, I can now see where I have been going wrong. I should have been honest from the begining rather than after the f close. BRILLIANT. Keep up the good work, love your posts and look forward to the next.
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yeh multiple relationships as if..
more like multiple whoring more like.
i bet your 4 girlfriends have like 50 boyfriends each.
to be honest..
the way pua’s describe themselves are blatently self-affirmations to help them with their own game rather than an accurate description of what they actually do and have achieved. i bet.
Solid advice. I know from speaking to others who run multiple relationships that honesty and openness are important. One question.. why does it matter if you’re gaming a ‘taken’ woman?
You have make nice strategy for multiple long relationship. I will apply it my life.
Come on guys whats the point in posting negative stuff when you’re clearly here reading it.
I think this sounds like great advice, Can’t wait till I’m at the level I can actually put this in to practice! It’s pretty advanced :o
Cheers Darren, keep em coming
AJ everyone has different moral standards. In this case I think it’s also a safe bet in order to protect yourself. You don’t want to hook up with a psycho marines women that has no problem knocking on your door with an AR15 in hand, catch my drift? Morally speaking I wouldn’t sleep with a women who isn’t capable of making good decisions. This is good for both myself and the women. You must create your own standard for what’s right an wrong. Great Post Loaded with Gems of Sincerity.
Good post Dazza!
You got some good stuff here which is definetly useful to help improve my game and take it to the next level. Good to hear you with a set of morals to which i believe is so so so so important too! As what goes around comes around! Good stuff keep it up! :-)
Good stuff, but now you have to write posts about text game, phone game and building sexual tension, preferably with examples :)
Awesome stuff? Hardly this is basic common sense and moral code any decent human being should live by. Unfortunately living in London I have noticed most folks have no moral compass whatsoever
cmon folks open your eyes!!!!
to be honest if i had a one night stand i ‘wasnt feeling’ then id just get a floppy anyway.
one has to question peoples descriptions of their sexual prowess. men tend to exaggerate.
Solid advice man. I would like to be hones. thanks for this nice post and tips. I will apply these in my life.
hahaha….does this honesty and all stuff really works??
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sometimes i think i would enjoy my life more if i found more plesasant experiences in everyday life. which i dont actually have at all. and i think ive aged a bit for my age coz i got grey hairs and look way older.
This is great, now I see how it’s supposed to work. Too bad I signed up for 2 exclusive rlationships already. Well I guess I’ll start with honesty on these 2 and hope for the best.
This is my personal seduction affirmation list. It’s mostly to help me be successful with women but also has a lot to do with having self-esteem, confidence and a healthy psychological state of being. Feel free to use it and share it with others. It took me a long time to build this list and I have found it extremely helpful. Using these affirmations has forever changed my life and I’m sure it will change yours too!
Everything in your life has to do with your psychological state of being. You are your thoughts and your thoughts are you. Change your mind and you change the world. Your external reality is nothing more than a reflection of your internal reality. Do not look out there, look within. Work on your inner self and inner world first then everything else will change for the better.
Perception is Reality. How you perceive the exterior world determines what your experience of it will be. These affirmations may seem outrageous because they are. Embrace them absolutely and completely, trust me on this one! The human mind cannot tell the difference between what is real and imagined. Being “delusional” is how you get good at life.
Beliefs of Naturals – My Reality
Read 3 times before bed and in the morning(do it for a for month) Record in the second person. Play recording on a loop continuously at a low volume(whisper). Play recording during the day and at night while sleeping.
1. Being with me is the best possible choice for any woman.
2. Women love men and especially love me.
3. I love life!
4. I am God. I am Perfect. This is my universe!
5. I am fearless, courageous and bold!!!
6. I read incredibly fast!
7. Women love sex and want sex from me.
8. My intelligence, creativity and potential is infinite!
9. I am exceptionally social and outgoing.
10. I am completely focused, organised and use my time with the utmost efficiency.
11. Women are nurtures and pleaser’s who want to nurture and please me.
12. I am an infinitely self-assured, confident, sexual and dominant male.
13. Everyday in every way I am better and better!!!
14. I have complete control over my life, mind and psychological state of being.
15. I am the greatest genius this world has ever seen.
16. I heal instantly!
17. I am successful, confident and achieve my goals. I exude infinite sex, power, confidence, happiness and self-love all the time.
18. I can be, do and have anything I want to in this world, my possibilities are endless!!!
19. I love myself! I am complete, fulfilled and completely happy!!!
20. I am growing more beautiful and luminous day by day.
21. Everybody loves me and all women want me! I make friends easily.
23. I access all the knowledge in the universe.
25. I am completely irresistible to women!
26. Regardless of how she is reacting to me she is getting aroused.
27. I see the underlying truth in all things.
28. I am an adventurer! I travel the world!
29. Regardless of how she is reacting to me I am the prize she is trying to win over!
30. I am a multi-millionaire and master seducer!
31. I love what I do and am richly rewarded, creatively and financially.
32. I have a perfect photographic memory! I recall everything easily.
33. Since she wants to have sex with me, the power is in my court to decide whether she lives up to my standards and expectations. I get to decide if we have sex.
34. I create my own reality!
35. Today I love my body fully, deeply and joyfully.
37. Today I open my mind to the endless opportunities surrounding me.
38. Prosperity surrounds me, prosperity fills me, prosperity flows to me and through me.
39. I have sex with super hot, confident, loving, caring and intelligent women with genius IQ’s all the time!
40. I think positively every day, all the time.
41. I attract amazing people.
43. My body is now trained to burn fat and build muscle day by day.
44. I have a six pack of abdominal muscles.
46. I am filled with the light of love, peace, happiness, power, success and joy every day, all the time.
47. I am aggressive, direct and powerful with the women I desire. I radiate a confidence, self-control and charm that women find irresistibly attractive.
48. My mind is focused on what I desire and I go for it congruently and powerfully.
49. I take immediate advantage of my opportunities with women. I swiftly establish incredible rapport, gather the information I need, then close with aggression, power and finesse.
50. I radiate a natural, easy self-acceptance that women find irresistibly attractive.
51. I am mastering the responses, attitudes, behaviours, insights and timing that bring me irresistible power with the women I desire.
52. I am now approaching women that I am attracted to.
53. I am able to pick up and attract any women I desire.
54. I am a strong, powerful, aggressive, dominant, alpha male, leader and conqueror!!!
55. I am smooth, charming, interesting and fascinating!!!
56. I have a perfectly sculptured muscle ripped body.
57. I am super hot and sexy, all women want me!
58. Abundance is my natural state of being!
59. Money comes to me easily and continuously from multiple sources!
61. My IQ and intelligence increases daily rapidly!!!
62. I have clear beautiful skin!
63. I have lucid dreams and recall all my dreams with complete clarity!
65. All things are now working together for good in my life.
67. I rule the world! I am brilliant and perfect in every possible way!
68. I succeed in everything I do!
69. I have sex with one thousand super hot women!
70. I am now enjoying everything I do and feel happy just being alive.
71. Sex with super hot women comes to me easily and effortlessly.
72. All things are now working together for good in my life.
73. I have the infinite creative power of God within me.
74. I am a Bad Boy, Player, Natural and Ladies Man!
75. I am a Sexy Beast! Everywhere I go women want to fuck me!
76. I have sex with supermodels daily.
77. Supermodels have an incredible desire to fuck me wherever I go!
78. I attract whatever I desire.
79. I am the most desirable man in the world. I am God’s gift to women.
80. Supermodels and incredibly hot women proactively, persistently and aggressively seek me out to fuck me.
81. Beautiful women are extremely persistent with me for sex.
82. What I believe is reality. Women experience me as extremely intoxicating, exciting and addictive.
83. I am a catch and out of her league, any woman that’s with me is very fortunate to have my attention.
84. Beautiful women are extremely attracted to me on a deeply subconscious level.
85. Women are perverted creatures who are always trying to fuck me.
86. Every morning I wake up in bed with twenty supermodels.
Attitude of the The Prize
You got to be a bit self-centered, a jerk and an asshole. The difference between nice guys and Alpha males: Nice guys place a woman on a pedestal, Alpha males place themselves on a pedestal. Just be Alpha and dominant. Chicks dig 50 Cent not Steve Urkel. Alpha males love themselves more than they ever could any woman on this planet. Always remember that you are more important than any woman on this planet regardless of how physically attractive she may be. You have high value and she has very low value. You are the Prize she is trying to win over. Perceive the world the same way Brad Pitt does, every high valued quality woman wants you but they’re just not good enough. Every woman on the planet wants you so why settle for the first thing that comes along? Your attitude should be:
“I am a catch.”
“I am out of your league.”
When I became self-centered, that’s how I got good with women. Always talk down to hot women!
Behave around hot women and talk to them as though they have very low value. Perceive her as a fat ugly chick. Talk to her and carry yourself around her the same way you would to a fat ugly chick. You are a catch, she should be trying to win over your approval!
Know that there are only ever two steps to follow to figure out anything in life.
1. Ask yourself “What works?”
2. Become that!
I thank you humbly for sharing your wisodm JJWY