Comments on: Removing Limiting Beliefs and replacing with empowering ones, NLP Ben interview Part 2

By: Bastian

Bastian — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 23:21:51 +0000

I guess it depends on your seduction style. I’m pretty straight forward and direct and honesty is a key part of my game. I would never lie to a woman and usually they highly appreciate it.

You’ll develop your own style only in the field. Don’t try to get everything settled before you encounter the issue in the real world. Have fun in the first place and learn along the way

Enjoy! :)

Bastian

By: Troy

Troy — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 23:14:57 +0000

Thanks
I appreciate your response. I know exit strategy sounds harsh. But I have seen
the Harsh reality of men being accused of things they did not do. Buyers Remorse
from Woman. Dating multiple woman and having the skills to do so Is great.
Given all these skills. Opening, Establishing Higher Value, and so forth I see all the tools here to learn to Pick up woman. I just don’t see any dialogue or skill set or advice regarding This. Non of the tools I see here Have anything Embeded such as. ‘ I don’t want a long term relationship” or” I am not
looking for a girlfriend”, Or I am Sleeping with other woman”. I do like your ” Society should respect casual sex” I just I would like to see somthing more about this. Woman get jealous and mad, even under the best circumstances when they find you the man they just had sex with Is sleeping with other women and does not offer another date its a recipe for disaster, I hear what you are saying about being clear. But PUA are not always being clear its not part of the seduction.
Thanks
Troy

By: Bastian

Bastian — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 18:45:33 +0000

Yo, Troy,

exit strategy sounds really bad. Sounds like you have to escape something and if you see women as something to escape from and get rid of after you’ve slept with them Pick Up is not for you. Try to get really interested in the other person and no matter how short your interaction is, give it your passion and your heart.

Relating to your question: Get everything straight from the beginning, so she’s knows exactly what’S going on all the time. Sure it’s not a good idea to tell her “Hey, I’m just interested in a ONS and never wanna see you again after”, but tell her a story about women’s sexuality and that you think society should respect their need for casual sex more than we see it today.” and smoothly build up that frame.

But again, try to find people you love to be around in the first place, if you’re having sex or just playing chess. ;-)

cheers,

Bastian

By: Troy

Troy — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 16:41:35 +0000

Hello This is my first post, I am a 48 year old man I am a guitar player singer songwriter and Private eye for the last few months I have made to develop some game after coming to the conclusions this area of my LIFE has well SUCKED. So I am a student. When I was younger I was able to attract more women. BUT HERE IS MY Question and sorry it may not reflect the topic above, BUT I SEE nothing written about a Effective or Graceful EXIT STRATEGY from any of the popular PUA’s and believe me working in Criminal defense as I do, picking woman that you know may not want a long term relationship with can be dangerous HELL HATH NO FURRY. So I hope someone can post something about after a successful pickup or one night stand how to call it quits and move on with out the all of the FALL OUT thanks Troy

By: Camera

Camera — Sat, 26 Dec 2009 16:06:31 +0000

Pick one aspect of your life, e.g. your health, your competence, your prosperity or relationships, and think back to when you were a child. What messages about this subject did you hear from adults at that time that are still playing on your subconscious tape recorder? Messages like: “Men can’t be trusted.” “Money doesn’t grow on trees.” “You’re not smart enough to succeed in business.”

By: Keith

Keith — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 20:28:31 +0000

@Bastian, thanks a lot mate. You have no idea how helpful and inspiring your words are to me! Thanks!

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personalised gifts — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 06:03:23 +0000

It is it also a limiting belief, or a real physical problem?

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UK Promotional Items — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 06:02:36 +0000

That video is soul saving. Hope you guys bring more on that issue.

By: Bastian

Bastian — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 12:21:34 +0000

@ Keith: Did you know that only 30% of all women can hav orgasms while having sex? So if you have a 10 cm dick, having sex is maybe not the most amazing experience for her, but as long as you know how to use your hands and your mouth you can give her more satisfaction than a guy with 20 cm but without any skills.

@Justin: Go, check out Richard Bandler’s “Guide to Tranceformations”

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hair loss — Fri, 04 Dec 2009 05:33:15 +0000

There is lots of research to prove that puppies DO learn a lot from both mom and littermates. There is more to it than just that, but that’s the nutshell version.