Sexual Escalation
Hey all :-)
I was thinking about what I could cover for this blog and something that kept coming up and that was a common problem is a lot of guys end up getting themselves into the friend zone or they become the gay best friend. If this is a common problem you find yourself getting into then it isn’t all bad as we know where you are getting stuck. To get into the friend zone you need to be good at all the first steps of the ladder towards our end goal which is sex. We just need to be able to now push it to the next level and sexually escalate. So here we go here are my tips on sexual escalation.
Sexually escalation should start from the beginning of the interaction keeping in mind it is an escalation of events rather than hey I am Darren and I am touching your pussy. We need to build this all up slowly and smoothly. We start with the opener and kino the target. This first bit of kino will be in a none-threatening area where people are used to being touched for example the arm. This first bit of kino should be short and hardly recognizable. As the interaction goes on we increase the kino gradually increasing. If she starts to pull away or looks uncomfortable just take a step back and build more comfort. As we increase kino we should be able to get away with hugging, holding hands and placing the hand on the tops of her legs. When we get to the top of the ladder and we are ready to go for the kiss we can push their hair away from their ears as we talk to them gently in their ear. Women are very sensitive around the ears and when touched gently, breathed in or gently spoke in women can get very aroused. This is a good method to use before going for the K-close. If she allows you that close to her face she is comfortable with you enough to probably go for the K-close.
When you feel it is time to go for the first kiss don’t pussy foot around the area you need to go for it. May main way of getting K-closes is holding strong eye contact throughout the interaction. When holding the eye you need to look away sometimes or you will look like a vampire who wants to suck her blood. Guys who stare to long can come across needy and sexually frustrated. Hold the eye contact and move your eyes to her lips as she talks. When holding eye contact and talking to her move in and out gently as if you are going to go for the kiss then move back and carry on talking. I find this the most effective method out of all the methods I have used to the point of girls actually jumping in for the kiss with me. If a girl rejects are first attempt for a kiss don’t panic, don’t even acknowledge it happened. Just carry on talking build more comfort and go for it again. Women like to test us in as many ways possible and this is one way. When we go for the kiss we need to slow our words down and talk more gently as well otherwise it will seem out of character.
Verbalizing sex is also very powerful as when we talk about sex with women she will start to picture doing it on us. Good ways of starting a sexual conversation are asking a girl her biggest fantasies or her biggest turn on’s. When I discuss sex I will talk about it with a cheeky smile and will even tilt my head to make me look more non-threatening.
Top Five Tips
1. Escalation starts from the beginning so start Kinoing straight away
2. If anything feels uncomfortable take a step back and build more comfort
3. Hold eye contact
4. Don’t be afraid to talk about sex
5. Lead
I hope this may be of some help for some of you guys with some of your sticking points. This is a brief summary as sexual escalation is such a massive subject. In the near future I will be posting some videos on specific sub topics to do with sexual escalation.
Any questions or things to add please don’t hesitate to leave a comment. Till next time, thanks guys.
Keep the faith
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This is a brilliant blog Darren. Simple and sounds easy to use. Can’t wait to try these tips out
John
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Max
i can accept anything that happens. it happens. in the game… theres fantasy and theres reality.
This is a problem I always get stuck with GAY BEST FRIEND.
This is exactly what I need. This is gold dust
How early can I talk about sex?
Can’t wait to read more of your blogs :-)
the curious thing is
its all about voice tone
if one is in a bad mood and scratches his nose
someone thinks i am insulting them
mmmm i agree with yeh
also, the problem with transformation
is that if someone has a neurotic or psychotic? problem and starts becoming more normal. other people start becoming disturbed in a way which is similar to the problem person’s symptoms. and usually if one is fucked one is ostracised from any social group and which further compounds the disorder.
thus, ‘pick-up’ naturally favors people who have it together anyway.
hmmm mr sexy clearly has a psychiatry orientation to this pick up thing.
but yeh, one thing one learns is how to work around social politics and ENDLESS misunderstandings.
and as one gains more status theres more critics who read into things MMM.
and its easy to become obsessed with women.
if one doesnt have anythibng better to do.
and is empty within…
LOL SOMEONES GETTING PWNED.
i definately need something better to do with my life to be honest. coz its so empty and meaningless.
and when one feels empty it feels alot easier to get crushed. by minor things. really. or at least if theres no positive :-D! anchor to anything.
WTF?? Wonders….
Anyway, I think that is a great blog Darren.
I used to get stuck in the friend-zone quite a lot but I learnt the power of showing sexual intent from the beginning and although I still mess it up sometime (gotta sort out my “rapist-look-in-the-eye” apparently)my success rate has increased big times. It seems, however that the process you described could help me and a lot of other ppl to look less threatening.
Keep it up dude and keep us gaming!!
Alexnokid
I have already been scammed on the internet so I’m particularly sensitive on that matter.
Nice tips. These this are really useful. i am also a patient and will try these tips……
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Great point. Sexual escalation is so crucial to making sure that relationship doesn’t end up in the “just friends” category.
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Let’s give it to Roissy. He’s a local, and he offers this irresistible bonus misogyny at the end of his post: “Cum in her mouth and hold it closed until she swallows it. Also known as: Pair bonding.”
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great post Dazza!!
Tip 2 seems wrong to me…..Men are at a stage of being uncomfortable with women when they enter the community….thats why they enter it! So telling them to not do something if it doesnt feel comfortable doesnt leave much for them to do….Just a thought, write back if possible Darren.
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