Archive for December, 2009

Hey guys, hope all is well! Something I just wanted to chat about real quick is your being. Its something I have been real interested in because its about who you are. If you always choose to be 2^nd best, then that’s what you’ll be.

See guys there is a lot of power we possess within ourselves. Deep down we understand this but for some reason choose to deny it and generally fear can be the catalyst for this. Whether it is fear of failing, fear of rejection or even fear of success! As humans we sometimes like to look for something to place the blame on for example “women are all ‘b**ches because one approach didn’t go well”. Trust me when I say, I am not trying to take away any important relevance to experiences that we go through in life because some experiences can be really tough and crappy at times. Though as individuals we have to take the responsibility on how we are going to react to that given experience. A good way for example maybe during a real tough and crappy time I like to try and find that nugget of gold in that given experience because for me that keeps me grounded and positive. Again it may sound easy but if you actually try doing it, it is another story but is not unattainable.

You know I feel that the lives that we live we have a massive say in how it goes and I choose to believe certain things happen for reasons, reasons that we may never discover for long periods of time but it is not so much the reason that is important in that given moment but how we choose to react to the process of that important experience. And that is where I believe the inner power lies, CHOICE and what we do with it. Its like in the Matrix where Neo is given the choice to take the red or blue pill; an experience that has been added to his life for a reason and where his next choice will significantly change the course, the process of where his life will go next. Or where in the train station where he chooses to not run but stay and fight Agent Smith because that was the beginning of where he started to believe he was the ‘One‘. He began to accept who he truly was a powerful being and nothing less. Its like George Bernard Shaw said:

‘There are those who see the world as it is, and ask why? And there are those who see the world as it could be and ask why not? Today as you and I have shared ourselves with one another on this amazing journey I finish with asking you to see and accept your greatest potential of you, life and the world and to ask, why not?

Now I’m ask you, what are you waiting for?

Ashley Shaw

Peace, Love and Joy

Hi Guys,

I recently put a blog post up about a Free Annual Christmas Event that I run. There were loads of replies and unfortunately only a small percentage of replies received were able to claim a place.

As such I am running a Free Webinar for anyone that is interested – It is being held on 23^rd December 2009 11pm and will be a Full Two Hour Q&A session Free!!

Register via the following link:

https://www1.gotomeeting.com/register/403467089

See you all there ;-)

Stay kool and keep gaming.

Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam ;-)

Hey guys, hope everyone is well!

Just a quick one here. I’ve noticed that as the holidays are fast approaching, everyone’s mood seems to be up lifted. People seem to be doing things they don’t usually do, you know, like always smiling at people, greeting one another, basically just freely expressing themselves more. It‘s brilliant! Everyone is just (vibeing) off each other. If your going out during the holidays and hitting the clubs try to bring your own unique vibe to that atmosphere and definitely to the dance floor J , if you get a chance. The dance floor is full of different vibes; and having a great and unique vibe can be vital when attracting girls because it sets you apart. As opposed to them catching your eye it will be the other way round, you’ll be stroking their curiosity to the point where they’ll force ioi’s and open you.

People often think they have to have a thing in order to be a thing and so sit still and wait until that time comes, which sometimes doesn’t happen. For a second lets try it the other way around. If you had a great and unique vibe what would it be like? Is it smooth, sexy, confident, true etc. Have a think about it, what would it be like? And then what would you do, what would be your actions, your image because of that vibe? Once you’ve visualised it and then allowed yourself to experience it, then you’ll be it. Then there you will have it, you own great and unique vibe.

Why not display it?

Ashley Shaw

Peace, Love and Joy