Are You Raising Eyebrows When You Approach?

Andy Yosha
Author: Andy Yosha
Andy Yosha is the founder of Daygame.com, a dating advice website that specialises in teaching men how to meet women during the day. You can see his PUATraining profile here, or email him on andy@daygame.com

I thought I’d write a short article on raised eyebrows.

Naturally.

But I don’t mean are some over-English middle-classers scoffing over their Daily Mail (all English references!) at your (nothing but short of) heroic attempt to pick up a beautiful girl in the street. Those eyebrow mutinies have no effect on the seasoned Daygamer!

No, I’m referring to another kind of eyebrow retreat – the kind that can have a dramatic effect on your ability to impress the fairer sex during the day. It’s your eyebrows.

What.

The Fuck.

Are you talking about Andy?

Read on patient Daygamer.

I was teaching a student today and I noticed that every time he opened a hot girl he was RAISING his eyebrows to that of a surprised expression.

I asked him to ‘demo’ on me, and when he did his eyebrows had cunningly stepped back in line. Too late for the eyebrows though – I’d already seen their mischief and it was time to straighten them out.

The student was actually surprised to hear, that when he approached hot girls he was looking surprised.

I’ll tell you what I told him.

From where I was standing, the perception of this guy’s value was VERY different when he had a relaxed expression on his face (no eyebrow drifting) to when he approach with ’surprised eyebrows’. Where before he looked relaxed, and UNAFFECTED emotionally by the high value person infront of them, now he looked like he was ‘really really very very sorry to both her’.

Raising your eyebrows when you approach is such a subtle thing, but it goes in the same naughty box as raising your voice tonality, laughing and smiling too much, and carrying her shopping for her. All of these things communicate that you REALLY want her to like you so are willing to supplicate and change your behaviour from your normal persona in order to try and win her favour.

Here’s the equation:

Raised eyebrows = “Please like me”.

“Please like me” = “You are much higher value than me, so I really really really really want you to like me, as my sense of self is solely reliant on people like you thinking well of me. God forbid you DON’T like me, as this would mean that I suck balls and don’t deserver to live, your majesty.”

So make sure you keep your eyebrows in check. A sharp spanking should do the trick, or if they still try and show you up a sharp death threat (with your beard trimmer) should put the issue to bed.

To conclude, just remember that one of the defining traits of a high value person is CONSISTENCY in their behaviour, no matter who they are interacting with. When you meet are approaching a beautiful woman, do with your eyebrows what you would do when approaching any one of your best friends.

Unless your best friends always greet you by jumping out from behind a wall and screaming “AAARRRRGGHHH!”

In that case, just do what you would do if you were friends with normal people.

Andy Yosha
(http://www.puatraining.com/andyyosha)

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10 Responses to “Are You Raising Eyebrows When You Approach?”

  1. Underdog says:

    Ill tell you something thats worse, squinting your eyes when talking to people.

  2. Delroy says:

    Hey Yosha whats your view on Mid-week game compared to the weekends ( fri/sat nights)…Also any good places you can recomend in central ldn?

  3. Andy Yosha says:

    Hi Delroy,

    Great places are the usual central london haunts: Leicester Square, Oxford Street – I really like covent garden, in particular a street called Neil Street which is opposite Covent Garden station.

    And I think daygame is easier in the week in central london as it’s not so crazy busy. It’s hard to move at the weekends! If you only have weeekends free to game I wouldn’t recommend covent garden – maybe try oxford street, or places along the river like westminster or embankment.

    Hope that helps!

  4. Leicester Square, Oxford Street – I really like coven garden, in particular a street called Neil Street which is opposite Co vent Garden station.

  5. PUA Lingo says:

    Great picture ;)

  6. used tires says:

    That’s so true you make a great point, in the end what I can conclude from this is that its best to be natural, but natural in the way that you are with your normal friends.

    Till then,

    Jean

  7. Chromus says:

    yeh, Yosha, I already noticed that mistake in me, before. Though, smart of you to find this out and teach people about it.

  8. Chromus says:

    just tried asking stuff without raising eyebrows… seems impossible… the solution i found was to turn my head a little bit to te right, so it looks like if i’m evaluating the person with my question, instead of needing an answer. If there is any other solution, pls, let us know.
    ty for answering ;)

  9. hahah great article.

  10. I wish you to a good start.

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