Hi Guys,
Today I am discussing a topic very close to me, as I use to always be that guy who was stuck in the Friends Zone, now if any of you guys have been there you know how frustrating it can be. Getting out of it was something that I learned pretty late on in game, as it is a different situation to every cold approach i’d ever done. However, once I cracked it, I felt like I had taken the red pill and been unlocked from the Matrix -- I adopted it as my style and live in the friends zone -- and primarily this is for two reasons:
1) It makes each set easier when you are simply aiming to make new friends; thus building up your social circle -- and not hitting on every girl you see.
2) I know exactly how to get out of the Friends Zone……..
And that is what this video is about -- Interested?? Well I hope this helps -- Enjoy :-)
Stay kool and keep gaming.
Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam ;-)
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Really enjoyed this video , this is gunna help me in a situation I am currently and not to get in it again – in looking forward to part 2.
Thanks Dharam :-D
Good stuff Dharam, this is one area im still working on, but really insightful for the community, as many struggle with this part in game. Nice one!
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hey dharam! another great informative video clearly explaining a problem that is common for a lot of men,i think there are a lot of men who build a level of comfort but dont escalate and end up in the friends zone.i agree it is not the best way to tell her verbally as this puts a lot of pressure on her and she probably wont want to loose u as a friend either u will probably get the lets just be friends response.stay cool and keep gaming.lol
great video – very informative. i liked the summary of the key points at the end.
another awsome vid, very interesting its so true but sometimes you need a video like this to make you relize. there is no simple way of getting out of the friendship zone however kezia’s video on this was awsome as well but you have to be careful with that. girls always want what they cant have.
Great vid. This is why I don’t agree with some PUA gurus who stress so much about not getting stuck in the friend zone. Sure, you should escalate with the women you’re interested in, but there’s nothing wrong with having lots of female friends, and you can always take the relationship to different level later.
That’s one of the best feelings you can give a girl. And if she hasn’t considered you boyfriend material by then, she sure should if she catches on to that.
Your officially my one-man band pr machine :-P
Give her compliments and don’t let your eyes rest on anyone but her. Make her feel like she’s the only girl in the room. That’s one of the best feelings you can give a girl. And if she hasn’t considered you boyfriend material by then, she sure should if she catches on to that.
How it is possible dear to improve such inner qualities and enhancement of the factual bases.
I like how the first five comments happened immediatly after each other. commenting on your own posts gambler?
Hi Guys,
Thanks for all the comments, as always they’re appreciated :-)
AARON SLOAN: Glad you enjoyed it, definitely look out for part II ;-)
GUS: Mate haven’t heard from you since the Residential week, luv the kiss at the end you joker. Hope your well.
JAMIE: Thanks for the comment mate, very well broken down and I will go in to more depth in part II – Stay kool and keep gaming yourself. Lol.
MSCHUMACHER: Will endeavour to do more summaries as totally agree.
MARTYN: Thanks friend, the kind words are very much appreciated.
PUA LINGO: Everyone has their own style, mine definitely involves living a life with a lot of female friends in my social circle and the ability to convert friends to girlfriends. Thanks mate.
WEBSITE MAINTENANCE: Indeed it is one of the best feelings – Not the best, but one of the best ;-)
CHILD PSYCOLOGIST SYDNEY: Great comment, luv it.
PERSONALISED GIFTS: I don’t understand your comment unfortunately.
DAVE: The reason for the quick responses is that I sometimes put as my facebook status new blogs I’ve done, so usually people do see straight away if they’re online and comment. Gambler has no reason to post on his own blogs, lets focus more on the content offered and not on conspiracy theories. Lol. However, if you have a constructive comment about the content then it is always much appreciated mate (Oh and check out Gambler’s own content on Stealth Attraction – It was really kool stuff ;-)
Thanks for the comments guys.
Stay kool and keep gaming.
Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam ;-)
This is a great topic. I recently bought the home system and, in a short time, I’ve experienced exponentially increasing results. My question involves something that happened to me recently, the opposite of friend to lover: lover to friend, sort of. A girl had actually been nagging me to go out, and, once I got a vibe from her that first date sex was possible, I met her up at a bar. We of course went home and hooked up (she was really kinky). We hooked up again a few nights later at her place after watching a movie, but she was a bit distant then. I emailed her yesterday to do something this weekend, and she replied that she thought I was a “really great guy” but “wasn’t ready to date anyone right now.” I was shocked, actually. I don’t really like this girl, but for some reason it’s a bit of an ego slasher. I thought I had a great casual thing lined up, but got the pink slip. Any thoughts?
Thanks for this real meaning of LOL. Its very nice way to describe it. I am very much impressed with this post.
Very nice creativity. Good job. Try to follow your suggestions.
she cheated and shes on my top in my myspace but shes one of my best friends and i dont know what to do since he told me to take her off my top but im a lil mad at her for cheating but i dont what i should do.
Lot of pressure on her and she probably wont want to loose u as a friend either u will probably get the lets just be friends response.stay cool and keep gaming.lol
Hi man,
can you please put up a day game video, try hitting on an asian girl with a cheesy bollywood dialogue
Great video Dharam.
i dont get how this works to be honest.
but i am curious never the less.
Very good blog. I have been interested in seduction and pick-up ever since I first discovered Ross Jeffries my freshman year in college. I think one of the keys to not getting stuck in the friend zone is to add a level of attraction into ALL your relationships. That way being sexy is just something that comes natural to you. A lot of girls are already good at doing this – you know – the ones that seem to “flirt” with everyone.
im confused!
but i think i may know whats what.
I’ve no idea whether this means anything to anyone (other than you), and even if it does, it’s only an interpretation ~ which is likely one of many possible interpretations.
Don’t look too much into it, its nothing huge, just random. Unless you start seeing all their names every single day at the exact same time as you saw the names the other day, then you should look into it. Just like the whole 1:11 theory…
this is a nice way to make more girlfriends. first make them friends after that offer them to be girlfriends…
great stuff buddy, really helped me out as I have first hand experience of this, hope to see you soon
What a fantastic video, I definitely got alot of insight after watching this first part, and its really gotten my mind thinking of how I need to change what it is I am doing to get a girlfriend. I guess my biggest fear overall has always been that fear of losing the friendship, but its just a risk I will have to accept.
Going to watch the 2nd part now :D
Till then,
Jean