Have you found another method to break out of the friendzone? Or have a story about it to share for others to give you examples on?
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Great video, I’ll be linking to this.
The one adjustment I would make is that I dont see it totally as needing a balancing act between friendship/comfort and player/attraction. I think these are two different skill sets and while you do need to bring both to the table, they both can come in differing amounts and still be successful. The difference between creating average comfort and average attraction is balanced, but quite different from creating high comfort and high attraction, or low comfort and low attraction.
I make my case more fully here http://www.marriedmansexlife.com/2010/01/little-more-on-alpha-and-beta-male.html
What you are saying is very true, but it might be a bit abstract and impractical for most guys to use. Can you give examples of rapport breaking routines that will work in this situation?
Hello,
really great video.
best regards
Wow! If that’s not a powerful reason to learn to disagree with and challenge a woman from the start, I don’t know what is.
Basically, if you agree with a woman all of the time and laugh at all of her jokes, you are cornering yourself as a friend.
Good stuff… I’m definitely going to write about this on my own blog.
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Hi!
I have a problem regarding the friend zone. I have this girl who I am really falling in love with… we’ve known eachother for about a year, and have had the same best friends whom we hang out with alot for the last 6 months. She and I have many little things only we joke about, flirting etc.. And especially the last month. But I cannot figure out if she is interested, or just being a friend. And because we are so close, and have the same friends, it would be embarassing to ask her out or something if se wouldn’t go.
We never do anything alone though, It is just with our friends. The last time we were out, we danced kinda sexy, and if this had been any other girl, we would have been making out a long time ago.. But since I’m falling in love with her, I dont dare to go for the kiss, in case I blow it. I even slept in her bed that night. (there were 5 other friends sleeping in the living room next door though). nothing happened.
Should I ask her out, try to get her alone? How? And for dinner, for drink? What?
Hope someone can help ;)
Frustrated norwegian guy…
LMAO. Dude… everybody knows that you’re totally into this girl. She knows, she’s just waiting for you to make your move. Your friends all cleared out and slept in the living room and left you and her alone in the bed together and nothing happened?!?!?!??!
She’s into you. Just decide on a place to have a date, call her up and tell her when and where the date will be. But tell her she should only come if shes willing to make out on the date. Then get off the phone. :-)
ahh yes, the great friends zone….
that shit is worse than herpes, really, you can’t get rid of it…
I never really get stuck in friends zone. Im too much of an asshole…
I’m either an inconsiderate asshole she has no intention of sleeping with or a sweet asshole who she wants to sleep with. Maybe, just maybe, if shes lucky I’ll become her friend.
It sounds like she’s into you. I think you should just be confident in yourself and ask her out. Girls don’t really flirt with guys that they aren’t at least a little bit attracted to.
If she turns you down and you remain interested, you can always date some other girls ( I recommend more than one at a time, if possible ). Be sure to ask your love interest for some dating advice.
This might make her a little jealous (which can change a girl’s mind about a guy), and you will show her that you have some sexual prowess as well.
My two cent’s :)
this is great mannnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
keep it up
not only it teaches how to break outta the friendship zone
it also talks about the general relationship guys and girls have between them
Yo great video, although i kinda figured most of it out by myself (or at least the IDEA).
Only thing is im in the midst of working it right now. I had attraction, then swiftly moved my way almost all the way to LJBF. Im now displaying signs of a high value guy infront of her without seeming im trying to impress. Only thing is im a terrible flirt so its not really going anywhere. I dont feel comfortable that she would feel comfortable of me touching her. How can i start it off without making it weird? High fives? Start off a conversation by patting on the shoulder and work from there? Like i dont want to lose her cuz shes a friend but a potential prom date <<<< REAL GOAL. so i gotta move fast, guys any tips?
HI dear Adam!
i view your video and realy like it. i want to ask u a question
and i want u realy answer to my question!when u know that u are i
comfort zone and when u are not?
cheers Dero