‘If you can conceive it you can attain it. If you believe it you can receive.’
Some powerful and inspiring words from a great man T.D Jakes.
You are all here in this world, for many different reasons but the fact that you are here, trying, allowing yourself to grow and develop means, that it can all happen. If you haven’t made a choice then don’t expect anything different but if you have then expect everything and anything.
Sometimes people are afraid of showing their true selves in many different situations and circumstances because of what unconstructive criticism they may receive from others. Let me tell you this guys if it is destructive and without love, then it is not for you to receive. You have to understand guys there is only one reason why someone would want to cut you down because they have a problem with you being up. There maybe many different motives, intentions etc because of jealousy, fear, envy, insecurity of their own etc. But at the end of the day it is their problem which they are trying to make yours. Don’t accept it!
Instead let yourself shine, be all that you can be and more. Why not? Try it, see how it goes for you. One of the best ways I have found for you to do this is to let yourself go…be free and tap into those divine powers you have within you; from God, universe or what other name you may choose.
So how do you tap into those divine powers? By understanding the vital function of them all; LOVE. Love gives all and requires nothing. So love yourself to the max and whatever you don’t need or are not happy about accept it or change it and then brush it off. From my experience when you love yourself your able to spread and give it to everyone’s lives you touch. Hence leaving someone better than you found them, adding some form of value to them.
Loving yourself what does that mean exactly? it can mean whatever you want it to mean. Everyone is different but we all understand and feel that love comprises of care, compassion and patience. It also means for me to enjoy life to the fullest. Believing in myself, having faith, being focused, being resilient and so much more and so much less because at the end of the day it is all love. We sometimes seem to have it for others but not ourselves. And when you don’t for yourself, you make it very difficult for others.
So what do you love about yourself?
Ashley Shaw
Peace, Love and Joy
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how does one define love, jealously, envy etc. These terms dont actually represent anything concrete but are rather subjective labels to construct an idea of experience.
ITS ALL ABOUT THE CYBERNETIC SYSTEMS. if one didnt grow up normally then one is screwed for like forever. people dont really change that much.
love is a subjective trance word to engage in a soppy altered romantic state but doesnt actually describe anything concrete.
its all about mammalian political calculations in order to influence a cybernetic loop which gradually spins into a heated up mating process which in turn leads to a pair bond experience in a way that complements tribal systems regulations and expectations.
‘If you can conceive it you can attain it. If you believe it you can receive.’
That is not the case. By believing you can get something one creates a life pattern system where the believe that you can get it becomes the driving force for a system for a belief where you can get it rather than actually getting it because one doesnt have the experience actually getting it.
Reality is actually really boring and all people basically do is blabber to each other all day and induce altered states in one another. and thats like it basically.
well if thats what reality is to you and your happy, then good for you.
For me it means positive self-talk and affirmations, taking good care of myself, and not being hard on myself even if things don’t go exactly the way I want them to.
Personally, it’s taking that one step closer to your ideal every day. Building habits, taking action, experiencing new things, and being grateful for it all along the way.
Well put Ashley and David. I have been following this blog and other PUA type guides for a while and when I first started, it was in the pursuit of females. It was a shallow lustful pursuit that had very little care or understanding for the feelings of myself and others. I thought it was a very black and white strategic game of saying the right thing at the right time and then capitalizing on the emotional responses I created. This is what I took from my first experiences with PUA via VH1. God that sounds even more shallow than I’d like to admit but honesty is the first step.
But now its about more, at least to me.
It seems as though all emotions are split into two categories; Fear and Love. Jealousy, greed, anger, envy, loneliness, paranoia. All these emotions stem from fear. They are the emotions that keep me inside my mind and inside my house. They cause me to slander others, to hold prejudice against neighbors and keep me from achieving the things i really want in life. These emotions are not emotions I would like cast onto myself. There for I have tried not to cast them on to others cast them onto others.
But Love. Love is amazing. I remember my first kiss. Amazing. When ever I laugh. Amazing. Where its given to me, given from me, or I am making it, I can’t help but to feel like a million bucks! Like there is no need to think, no need to check the time, just keep in the moment, continually giving and receiving love too and from others. Bravery, happiness, caring, sharing, optimism, great-fullness, hopefulness. All these just make everyday better. They allow me to say “Yes!” to things I’ve never done before and help me interact with strangers AND the people in my life I truly love, like I haven’t ever.
I has taken me some time just to realize all this and it will take more time for me to live it. Being the young man I am, I am optimistic for the future. I believe that if I have the strength to stick to the fundamental belief of Love, I will grow into the confident, attractive and wise man I am hopeful to become.
I wish to spread love to all of the PUA’s here for doing a noble job. I hope to come to have the chance to meet you all some day, whether its on this continent or on yours. I am truly thankful I stumbled upon this website. This modest blog is changing at least one persons life.
Cheers and Love.
Hendric
Reality is actually really boring and all people basically do is blabber to each other all day and induce altered states in one another. and thats like it basically.
It means positive self-talk and affirmations, taking good care of myself, and not being hard on myself even if things don’t go exactly the way I want them to.
The most important factor in your life if you want to achieve success in any sphere is self-motivation. Some even consider self-motivation more important that self-esteem, and perhaps rightly so. And the reason is that if you want to improve yourself, your self-esteem, and your life in anyway, then you need to have the desire to do it. You need to motivate yourself, because lack of self motivation at such times can be potentially damaging and further complicate your life. Self motivation coupled with a strong sense of determination can help you move mountains and find water in deserts!