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Note From Rich:
Guys, enjoy the videos and let me (and kezia) know what you think :-)
Also, Kezia’s new book has just been released and it’s available now on Amazon!
Do yourself a favour and pick up a copy of it.
It’s got my highest recommendation.
Also, everyone who grabs it in the next week will be getting a special surprise from me and Kezia!
Looking forward to read the book!
Let me know when you’ll be in NYC next time brother. Used to be an event coordinator/promoter around the city. Would love to show you the city’s hidden gems ;)
Great advice, I always called it ‘the wall’ :)
Awesome!, I´ve seen these videos on youtube and they are pure gold! Kezia really knows what she´s talking about. I´m also interested in how this is related to Adam Lyons technique of Negative attraction, because i´m sure a HB with a bitch shield could be confused with a HB to whom you need to aproach with negative attraction, and negative attraction is even harder i think. I´ve never had the oportunity to use it yet, but i´ll keep my eyes open.
Cool great stuff
This is very helpful in getting past any test a woman will throw at me. Thanks Rich.
-Chris (Sidewinder)
Get with the times, make these videos iPod, iPhone and iPad friendly..
With a smile as I orbit: “Two can play that game, but I’m not a game player.”
A little bit of biting back, but not much. Explains that you know what’s going on, but you’re above it. Start talking to one of her friends before she opens her mouth again, she’ll have to interrupt you, which is rude, and you get to point that out… Be ‘aggressive’ by making her step in it and simply be the civilized level-headed guy who points it out.
“How do you convince people you’re not rude and uncivilized when you act like that?” If you’ve had enough and just don’t care anymore… It actually works. I’ve had several come right out and say “Fine, I give up!” and become a completely different person instantly.
Some people like to be playful with it, but they’re rewarding the behavior. Don’t be overtly hostile, but don’t be nice until she drops it. That’s how you’d treat your kid sister, right?
Anyone with kids knows how to handle this stuff! The foundation of all the flack women throw, is immaturity. some are just juvenile. Some are putting up the act to see if you are immature too. Call it by other names if you like, immaturity is the core of it all. Learn to deal with bratty little kids, and being a PUA is easy.
Hi , I’m from Spain, Kezia I really loved these videos, after that I want to marry you, but only if you buy me a drink first ^_^
Thaks for this great stuff
Hasta la Vista
Hehe
I love fiery bitchy women, in israel it’s almost all you get.
so hard at practice easier on the battlefield
very easy to score abroad
to my method
usually if a girl gives a defensive bitch shield (most do here)
i look at her and say, is that the best BADASS FACE (BAF) you got ?
then i give her my BAF, and she cracks up
sometimes i practice her BAF with her, or she’ll call her friend to see my BAF, ofc then you have the dancing monkey routine, where i have to make sure they jump though my hoops to do my BAF again and so on.
works 99% of the time :)
-VincentDM
great videos clips- i am an older guy who doesn always like game playing and it took me a long time to recognizee bitch shields for what they are – now am older experienced i choose when i want to play and have fun with it in a respectful way – could have done with some inside knowledge in my younger days tho
Interesting stuff! I’m 53, divorced, and I don’t play the game anymore, but I do love watching people and you can tell when a guy has the right stuff to get through the Bitch Shield! I wish I had this knowledge when I was young and single!
Keep justifying and enabling mentally ill female behavior and beliefs. What you end up with is a relationship with a female with mentally ill behavior and beliefs. You will deserve what you end up with.
Only female mosquitoes suck blood.
Females will not mentally evolve to be capable of true adult caring, kindness, personal integrity, relationship integrity until males stop justifying and enabling sick female games.
Males that need a mommy or are being dragged around by their penis. Approving of the delusional sisterhood pack mentality is not doing the female gender or the male gender a favor. A female to approve of is a female that stands up against mentally ill female pack behavior and games. Mentally evolved females are the future. Will not happen until mind controlled males unhook their bungee cords from the female subgender. Males, wake up, become aware, stand your ground. Stop being mind controlled wimps.
BKdigi i dont really understand what you’re on about.
but if what you’re saying is that being a bitch is a delusional/mental issue for females.
i have to assist you in understanding why they do it.
Being NICE is a multi pronged problem:
1) A girl who is too nice will probably delude a guy into thinking he has a chance with her – which he doesnt allways have upfront.
2) The girl who is UNINTERESTED in a guy (due to external looks) will be BITCHY to make him go away.
-However, due to her becoming HARD TO HANDLE, a guy who breaks through this gets much more respect and attraction from her (even if he doesn’t look good in her opinion).
-i.e. if she didn’t have BitchShield and tests, there was very little for him to overcome and therefor would not be able to catapult her attraction levels.
Ofcourse some girls do it bcz they ARE BITCHES thats what she was on about I think, and try to make a spectacle of you infront of their GFs or group, those girls are just Bitches i would not even take their number, just fuckem in the bathroom.
you see when you break her bitch shield you have to move instantly into heavily sexed up DIRECT GAME, look her in the eye and show her who’s boss, and she gets so horny so quick she’s putty in your hands.
The WORSE and MORE of a BITCH she was with you, the more of an attaction level you trigger by BREAKING through it.
good luck,
VinctenDM
I always thought it was me. Knowing about the “Bitch Shield” is very useful; I want to learn more.
Common sense information that most guys don’t fully understand. Great videos.
Yeah! This is great! I saw the full dvd at home!
Very informative and well delivered!!! These brief videos explain important information and tactics to deal with, and overcome natural defences built into the female psychee which every man must know in order to interact with fine women!! I never understood why women were always so impossible until the secrects of the “bitch shield” were revealed. Thanks JIM
. . . ANYWAYZZZ ! ! !
Nice!
I got few insights out of it, which will make great blog posts. Let me share them with you.
The awareness thing is probably the most powerful skill one can develop. When you are aware of the dynamics and the rhythm of the conversation you will notice who leads it (or tries to lead it) and when trying to change the subject, the pace or anything. And then you can call it on them (jokingly) or simply ignore it. It becomes a lot more easier rather than waiting for specific trigger (i.e. if she says X, say Y).
The problem with the opinion openers I see is typically – the guys don’t use their own, thus they don’t have that inner reason to ask that question. It’s pretty easy to get distracted from that point. If however you are interested in the opinion or whatever is the purpose of the conversation, having that goal in mind will drive it through the “obstacles”.
I remember when started I used some ready ones and it was a disaster. Then I switched to ones that actually interested me in what people had to say and it all went smooth and natural.
The approval thingies is also cool (you agree with them in some way before resuming), actually it helps to beat the shield everyone have. (I’ve used it on my bosses but don’t tell anyone). However here lies thin border of what you are going to “agree with” in order to get it going.
Another thing that showed up when watching it – how the guys react (with the example of the drinks that the alpha lady made)when feeling insecurity/danger – they go into OVERRIDE mode, trying to apply gimmicky techniques to compensate. Usually it doesn’t work. It doesn’t feeling natural at all.
@ Justin – Having little bratty sister does miracles man :D But only if you learn something from that. Unfortunately I didn’t had any.
@ VinceDM – man, this “badass face” is golden :D Fits my style as a glove. Thanks for sharing mate :D
Man, it’s 10:08 am I learned so much cool stuff so far today. Life is awesome! Thanks guys and take care!
Kezia always has great advice, and the way she explains situations it is nice and easy There is not to much planning you need to do in order to put those techniques into use. Thank you Kezia and Gambler your pioneering ways are becoming a huge part of my life.
THANKS,
Steven
Every time I watch your videos i have an impression that the person is talking to nobody. That there is only a video recorder and you are faking that there are people in the room sitting and listening.
If you approach confident and direct, tell the girl you are attracted and want to get to know her in that context then you get less bitch shields. 1. She knows you’re strong so there’s no need to test you. 2. If she’s had a bad day, you may have just changed that. She will be flattered and even if she’s not interested she will reject politely. 3. She knows you are a straight to the point kind of guy who doesn’t want to waste time and will probably not hang around like a mosquito.
I dissaprove of bitch shields as a first reaction to an approach (unless a girl has politely said no already then fair enough). I don’t want a bitch no matter what she looks like. If she’s pretending to be a bitch then she’s an idiot and I don’t want an idiot. I don’t reward rudeness or bitchy behaviour by continuing my intereaction. Allowing someone to disrespect of humiliate you by continuing the interaction or trying to pacify it just to get laid shows you have low self respect and low standards. Don’t be upset because she’s failed your high standards so why care what shit she gives you? If she’s just shy, or it’s a bit of banter then that’s ok but no outright nasty rudeness please.
If I approach a girl honestly and she throws some bitch shield at me it’s rude and she is a bitch as far as i’m concerned she’s lost out. I just stop talking to her. It’s not worth ploughing and there’s usually a better girl round the corner.
I agree a lot with Kdigi. Maybe i’m a bit uptight? Who knows? Just my opinion.
However, if you want to be a player and shag all those hot bitches then Kezia has given some great advice on how to beat them at their own games:-)
Incidentally, some advice for girls: I have observed that if a girl rejects a guy politely, he is far more likely to accept it and move on. If she puts up a bitch shield, the typical PUA thinks it’s a test and will plough for the rest of the night! Also, guys don’t want to lose so will keep going until they can win.
This is really great stuff. I remember when I did the bootcamp my trainer bangin on at me to just ignore the bitch shield and plow on but not really getting it (I just wasn’t convinced it was worth it). The fine detail that Kezia is able to go into here has made a big difference to my understanding this issue. Of course now the crucial step is to go out and actually use it – think I’ll have a second look at the vid, lol! M.
Great stuff, Keiza. Getting the book via Amazon great Price, should arrive next week!!! She’s a brillant teacher and when I meet her on the bootcamp she was a really caring women and genuine towards us. Can’t wait to bumb into her again!!! With Strength and Honour
Very good stuff thanks for sharing. Bought the book, just waiting for the postman to hurry up and deliver it :)
WOW loved it! Kezia you are amazing! Gambler great job! you guys gives us so much motivation:)
Hey,
Great stuff as always with PUA Training.
I’m looking forward the new book,
Yoann
Absolutely amazing content, great advice straight from a beautiful woman’s mouth. Thanks Kezia and Gambler!
Rich and Kezia…THANKS!!
I loved all the videos but the second part really helped me alot…
Keep up the fantastic work guys!
this is fantastic, why couldn’t i have seen this two years earlyer. theres this realy bitchy girl i know and while i don’t want to pull her it would have been nice to stop her from being a bitch for at least five mins. thankyou so much this could be the best peice of advice i’ve got so far.
This is entertaining. Entertaining in a I am smiling and laughing kind of way. The correct way for sheep to approach a wolf bitch.
Hey! Shouldn’t a female trainer at PUATraining be at least a 7 or an 8?
;)
I find it hilarious that i have never read the book or listned to theses things. I actually happned to of learned this on my own. I have dated victoria secret models, DUB magazine, Lowrider Magazine,etc etc I also got hit on by Jessica Burciaga, Good luck though Gentelmen.
STAY SEXY
Love it! Cute too…
So if shes playing the defensive bitch, do we just move on to a new set? what techniques are there to break the defensive
J Lacy is an AFC
If you reward a bad behaviour it is going to keep coming. It makes no sense. If you tell a girl that you love it when she is bitchy she will continue to act bitchy because she likes to get validation from you. I like the rest. The key is unreactiveness + self amusement.
Hey Ned
I had to set you straight
in general REWARDING BAD behavior is a way to make it resurface. But in this case, it’s an NLP trick to make her loose her automatic bahavior.
this is in a nutshell neg theory
only NEG theory works on negativity. Usually if someone is
bitchy you have a few actions to take:
1. Be bitchy beck – will not work – low social currency [who are you to tell her off]
2. go away – mission accomplished
3. Act with her like she’s your bratty sister – great for some girls at this point
4. Be supportive – i.e. express that – “I do this too, i am also high class guy, and need a bitch shield too” – thats my machanism, and it works – but you must have experience with BitchShields and next time you open a girl, 1 min into the ocnversation turn on a BitchShield and see how she immediately tries to validate herself. – it’s too funny.
good luck
VDM
pure magic. cheers.
AFC HAHAHAHA I just got married to an amazingly beautiful woman this just entertains me and my wife, Id consider you the AFC Andrew, Good luck though buddy have fun sleeping alone at night. Let me know if you need any help though ill be here for you son ;)
Damn, Kezia is a baller
Kezia, great stuff, you are a great speaker. I just ordered you book!!
These videos are great. Thanks for providing valuable information.
Kezia, thanks for sharing. I believe i can learn a lot from you.
Very nice! Great video really found it useful and will do my best to make sure to keep it real.
I don’t think women are like that. I think it’s just Kezia who is like that.
Kezia is an obnoxious dumb bitch.
Gambler, can’t you hire a girl who matches your level of intelligence?
Why is it that most of the girls with bitch shields are ugly ass chavs that aren’t even worth approaching?
Did the first one…and I’m loving these…where was this stuff when I was 15…??…16..??
OUTSTANDING VIDEO
I think the major take home advice is to not take the bitch shield attack personally.
As a doctor I encounter angry people everyday and if I lose my cool-I am no use to them and it ruins my whole day. Remaining unaffected is not a sign of lower status it is a sign of higher status that people respond to.
The best way I find is to remain upbeat, positive, friendly and reasonable. It is almost impossible for the person to maintain vindictive -if you act like that and they are often very apologetic.
Good luck everyone!
Leo
I’m in love, Kezia is f**king HOT
what a outstanding book, charm school for the boys that is being taught to us the right way, not hollywood falsehood.
thank you very much.
I always imagine Morgan Freeman could tare through a bitch shield in seconds. He has that wise, alpha personality. Also the doctor on the soap opera Eastenders that the character Ronnie Mitchell dated for a short while.
Think Hank moody in californication
Now there’s an ALPHA male.
alpha males and alpha females are animals on the discovery channel. I would like to propose everyone take the frontal lobe mental evolutionary jump and self evolve their own brain though I know many homo sapiens are not mentally ready to become human beings yet. Guess the human beings will have to wait for the homo sapien animals to reach the mental evolution aware, awake, conscious of life besides their own biological animal programming stage.
Spoke to a kindergerden teacher today
She said kids even in kindergarden create cliques.
so homosapience and homo erectus together with human beings, we’re all basically animals that growl grunt and create cliques, recognize body language and look to procreate .
sorry to say
You do not have to be abitch to test a man.
There is no excuse to be a bitch.
I have to admit I failed a shit test – the hottest girl in the club came straight up to me and told me to “fuck off.” It totally threw me at the time and I wasn’t expecting it. I didn’t leave, but it did change my state and she totally tooled me. Afterwards I tried to think about what she was trying to do, and until now have just realised what I should have done, I’ll never make this mistake again.
Reminds me of this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cbk980jV7Ao
Fantastic. I’ve heard almost all the responses she talks about so I know she is coming right from the heart of the subject. Many times I’ve been blown off by these standard ‘bitch’ responses, and sometimes i’ve broken through them by maintaining a strong frame. Kezia has obviously chatted with lots of mates to get as complete info as possible on bitch lines, and this idea of offering approval to disarm-as in letting the woman believe she has qualified HERSELF-is a top tactic.
Yes, like most guys on this site I’ve ordered the book too!
Lol, her mannerisms are the epitome of rich’s. The girl version. Rich no offense, but if i made out with keiza its be like kissing you bro. Not bout it. Lol Shes got great skills to be more on topic
I’m in love
sexy
Awesome. Classic verbal akido. You don’t resist the bitchiness or succumb to it, but instead you redirect the energy, i.e. reframe the conversation. Having a woman teach this stuff makes it more potent and credible.
BKdigi, I’d recommend you read “The Naked Ape” by Desmond Morris. As long as you have a physical body, you’re going to be part animal, no matter how much you fancy yourself above it all.
We all have primitive biological wiring going back eons to our tribal days. If you approach a pack of women who don’t know you, their tribal brains would view you, a stranger, as a potential threat or a disruption to their clan. Are you there to offer something of value or just take from them?
And on a basic level women need to test if you’re man enough to handle their mood swings, which are guaranteed when children come into the picture.
She’s jaw looks like someone pulled his cock off very hard while was sucking it.
or how about not going after a woman with a ‘bitch shield’?
plenty of nice women around london.
Marvellous advice, it’s just that Kezia is too beautiful for me to get all the points in one round. So I have to keep watching over and over again… OK! :)
so all in all shes basically just saying to be sarcastic and use reverse psychology on girls who give a bitch shield