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realeasing a new product gambler? let me guess kezia has a book coming out… same crap different day
This is the hallmark of the downfall of humanity as we know it. Comparing human interaction with Cocoa Cola ads. We are fucked.
Someone else with a product to hawk…yawn yawn – we already know this stuff- its called pua101 ..or stating the bloody obvious…
General word of advice – there are tons of free guides and help on the web- don’t pay for same old re-cyled material.
woww she is amazing… the things i would have done to her… god damn it
Hey Keiza,
Great stuff, ore sould I say great Marketing
This is very informative and at the same time embarrassing for me because me being a young successful, tall, black man. This is VERY truth.
But my question is; So do women want mean guys? And how does a guy act mean toward a guy since women don’t like nice guys?
I am just coming out of relationship with a beautiful young lady who I tried so hard to make like me and tried to “steal” her attention from other guys. i.e. I would buy her gifts and pay for everything anytime we went out (fool).
She slowly lost interest in me and ALL my efforts were in vain being who I am. I need to know how not to be me. I need to know how to be mean or whatever it is you claim is attractive to women.
Oh, after about 3 month of not speaking with this lady, she sent me one text message that said “Hi, this is (her name) I hope you don’t think I abandon you, how are you?”
I never responded… but is this the window I need to know how to reinvent myself? Can I ever go at this lady a second time and change her mind on how she feels about me (which was, that im just a nice guy)?
I’m at a loss for words.
Game exists because women think they know something.
So why is it they get nailed and thrown away, and only date assholes?
Because the women who play these games aren’t worth anything else.
@haha:
You either have no idea what marketing is or you’re just being negative (maybe even AFC).. Look up marketing in Wikipedia.
@Justin: I agree with everything except “[they] aren’t worth anything else.”
Women play these games without even knowing it. The mind games that women talk about _certain_ women playing is different than this game. It’s comparable to the job market. You can’t just send in a CV that says well I have all the degrees required for the job so hire me. So does like 1000 other guys and girls. It’s the same thing. You have to make yourself stand out.
Oh actually I think your “why is it they get nailed and thrown away, and only date assholes” should be a statement and not a question, because I learned pretty quick. Women date assholes because they have the qualities in a man that they want in a guy, and the guy hides the fact that he’s an asshole. They don’t want a guy to be a “nice guy” until they become their boyfriend, then they want the guy to treat them nice. When a girl says “Why aren’t there any nice guys around?” She’s not talking about what Kezia is talking about as the nice guy, she means literally guys that are nice. but when she’s out looking for a guy, a guy who pretends he’s in the relationship already and showers her with flowers, gifts, dinner, drinks etc. and agrees with everything she says that’s not what gets the girl.
and then by nice guy, they want them to not be jealous, not be controlling, surprise them with gifts, etc. but not to become what Kezia described above as never challenging her, always complacent etc. Watch a TV show where an assistant is sucking up the her boss CONSTANTLY. She has an opinion and is gonna tell the boss something, and then before she can get to it, he offered his opinion on the very same thing, and then she just says “Oh that’s exactly what I was gonna tell you!”
That is EXACTLY what Kezia is talking about, and I dunno about you, but when I watch a character in a show do that I’m always like “You idiot! Why don’t you just tell him the truth? Why are you acting like such a tool?” Apply this to yourself when talking with women :)
Wow…she is so boring to listen to. If she spoke any slower I would pass out. She is Bland, Forgetable and Boring.
This ‘advice’ can be found for free all over the place. The seduction community used to be private and a treasure now ‘experts’ abound and publish all this stuff as their own. Maybe they should be original and come out with something new (but there’s not because it’s all human nature and has existed forever) instead of repackaging Eric’s stuff and calling it their own.
Profound! wish I had known this is in my younger days :)
What can you do when you actually ARE boring?
I can’t possibly act interesting as all the things that interest me are perceived as boring. I’m a real nerd.
I don’t like sports, adventurous activities or anything outdoors anyway, I don’t know fancy clubs and hate going there.
How can I become that alpha man who takes the lead? Would I have to pretend and do all these activities against my liking?
Rejean, your comment made me laugh outloud bro.
This video is retarded. Do we really need to hear a girl tell us why nice guys don’t make a move? (and why does she need 8 minutes to sum up what I can say in less than a minute?) I know exactly why i didn’t make a move and it’s more complicated than this girl can even imagine and the cause usually can be linked back to our social conditioning of watching love movies or hearing about failed relationships with jerks and not wanting to be “that guy”. But thankfully just learn about the 5 attraction triggers in women and you’ll be alright.
I have to admit i didn’t think much of what she was about to talk about on the subject but it’s true what she is saying is the absolute The TRUTH in my opinion it’s like something was right in front of me but i couldn’t actually see it… i don’t have to be a machine doing all this negging and other tactic’s to pick up women. All i have to do is be REAL cheers for that Kenzia i appreciate what your saying.
@Fred, then you need to change yourself. You need David Deangelo (Man Transformation is for you), Alex Allman, AMP … those kind of guys. Deeper stuff, not techniques. You’ll probably never be the hip hop guy that goes to the clubs, although you never know. But even of you’re no the guy mainstream media tells you you should be, you can still develop and become a fulfilled, interesting, happy … and attractive man. If i were to give a fellow geek a word of advice, i would say look for the ways to overcome the believes society gives you, that you can’t be interesting and attractive person as a geek.
The video is profound and at the same time boring, recycled garbage.
I think u guys take it too hard on game too much.. Y u man ever need too impress women.. For what?? Turn e table around n make them impress u instead.. If they bitch.. Tell them too fuck off.. Simple as tat..
This was great info. Loved your story about the guy who was boring lol.
Did he improve at all after this? Did he finally sack up?
Girl, you really have a long road to learn how to talk and be at least a speaker. All I wanted to say was: I describe you bland, forgettable, replaceable and (boring this was from Paul), now you just go home and kill yourself!!! Probably you gonna do that cause you have one reason more. Cheers to you Richard, I know you keep that only to FUCK and for social prove.
@e,
Right now you have been presented with a unique opportunity,
“A SECOND CHANCE” I don’t know enough about this woman you’re attracted to but if you want her to be your one thing you need to do is improve your inner game. One way to do this is question yourself constantly this is how you’ll learn. Things to ask yourself are do I really want this woman, is she really worth it, can I get this woman if I know how.
You allowed her to steal your power “big mistake” but you made an impact on her obviously that’s why she came back to you. One thing she see’s in you is convience you bolster her self esteem and she dosen’t have alot of it. You don’t have to be mean you can be good it’s ok, just stop being nice don’t buy her anything, gifts, food, drinks. If there is something in your life you like to do do it even if it’s video games, you can send her a text I hope you didn’t respond already!! You may blow your second chance but I want you to do one thing for yourself here put her in the “FRIEND ZONE” one way to do this is usually at the beginning of a relationship but you have a history already. So how to do this tactfully would be send her a text usually after a week when she sent you the text cause she’s been wondering about you. So make her wonder more. You can say something like:
“HI I’VE BEEN VERY BUSY LATELY I DIDN”T HAVE TIME TO GET BACK TO YOU, BEEN HAVING TOO MUCH FUN, TALK TO YOU LATER MAYBE IF I HAVE TIME… ” by saying this you just got your power back, she will want to know why you’re so busy and why you are having so much fun, you just became a mystery to her and now she’s intrigued, she wants to know why you aren’t kissing her ass like you used to, why you don’t need her, and why you aren’t trying to include her in your fun. I hope this helps but it’s not everything if you want to learn more check out David Deangelo’s 77 Laws of Women, and Becoming Mr. Right…
And whatever you do don’t stop being a man keep your pants, and just love and respect yourself, When she text’s you again and she probably will don’t respond right away, wait awhile.
Don’t chase her, woman hate that, if she waits to respond to you message that I suggest you send then don’t get nervous she needs time to process what you said, she send the text only cause you haven’t kicked her out your life and moved on, she will believe there is a chance with you, and that’s where you want her under your control not you under her’s.
Through out, the exspance of Verbal communication. Be your-Self is what I herd. I as soooo, meny other’s do not do (chuckle’s) what wemon exspect. Don’t get me wrong, I’ll listen, I’ll even give a peice of wisdom if wanted.
What pissed me off the most about this video was she went into this whole diatribe about how being the “nice guy” is a bad thing but didn’t give any solutions. I guess this is the same old tired marketing tactic of baiting. It’s a lot like shows ending in a cliffhanger — no conclusion. Yes, great, we know how bad being the “nice guy” is for picking up chicks — so what the hell are we supposed to do? Couldn’t share with us that little bit of advice? Are you that cheap to have to not reveal it until we buy the book? Fucking bullshit.
By the way, some of you guys probably aren’t getting laid because of your very obvious lack of communication. My god, I could write better than half of you when I was in the 3rd grade. Learn to how to write a sentence that doesn’t make my eyes hurt!
One more thing: On the topic of “nice guy”, Kezia seems to be explaining the “nice guy” as a fake persona. Some of us are actually nice though, even though we aren’t complete ass-kissers like she described in the video. BIG difference. A “nice guy” is a complacent, meek, ass-kissing tool who’s too afraid to be himself, while a nice guy is a guy who is just genuinely nice. I like to think of myself as the latter, and if the girl likes assholes well then that’s a major turn-off for me. She can be miserable for all I care.
well…i guess that a good guy doesn´t repel women…but it might repels a “Bitch”…ehehe…just kidding you´re great…come and work for me…we will make a Million in a year…each…Hotels…Restaurants…Real State Businesses…New Marketing Systems…just applied for Patent…great for women that likes to rule the area…quite a challenge…don´t forget…i´m Portuguese…hasta la vista Sugar…Carlos
why you put a lesbian krezia to teach dating
Quote “Wow…she is so boring to listen to. If she spoke any slower I would pass out. She is Bland, Forgetable and Boring.”
I absolutely dont agree with that statement. She developed a quite balanced peronality and this is how she speaks. So many Trainers out there make just a big SHOW claiming they have THE truth. Its refreshing that she just teaches with that calm voice. No bullshitting, no peacocking, like so many people out there. Actually her WHOLE apearrance is somehow peackocking anyway, hahaha. So she doesn’t have to peacock, because she locks geourgeous anyway, ;o).
to Legio Arcanus
Thanks for reading and taking time to answer my concern even though you dont know me. I dont usually do blogs (actually, this is the first) and i just needed some really good non-bias info and I appreciates all comments, concerns, and criticisms. However, I am still pondering if she really deserves a second chance with me. Call me old school, but there is a small part of me that Honestly believes that there are still a few great women who will want, appreciate and even fall for a gentleman. I’ll ponder this for a few days and even pick up the book you made mention to, then if I do respond, I’ll let you know how it turns out. I havent responded to her text Yet for that reason and plus because there is a part of me that things if I do i would be de-valuing myself as a man and I just dont want to be manipulated/played by this lady as well because its possible that that is what she is looking for too.
Cheers.
Guys, get over it! Some of you are so used to listening to guys giving you advice, that you cannot stand a woman helping you.
Kezia’s advice is good. I love to hear from a woman’s perspective, I feel she is sincere and if you guys think she is boring, you probably have spent to much time in forums chatting with guys and getting the latest pick up lines. Get out and talk to girls!
Great job Kezia, and Richard, your interview with Alex Coulson was fantastic.
WHAT!?
I could have swore that bland and replaceable was attractive
To e,
Your right I don’t know you, I only know what you said, if you don’t want to give this lady a second chance then don’t, revel in the idea that you won, what I mean by this is that you have gotten the last word by not responding to her and you seem mature enough not to seek revenge and at this point you could, I’m pleased to see that you won’t allow yourself to get played and if you keep that attitude you’ll be fine, you got your power back from this lady. I’m sure you have no problem picking up ladies that’s why I made the suggestion for the relationship DVD’s I believe your ready for a serious relationship. Keep in mind she does have a low self – esteem and it makes her feel better to play men it leaves her feeling in control,I also believe that she may have been played that’s why she back chasing you, people with low self – esteem using at times in their life act like the bad person and manipulate others and at times when faced with a bad person more stronger then themselves end up being the one’s that get played. I agree with you, you should move on, she’s broken and in need of fixing don’t try to fix her, only she can fix her self,I always try to speak the truth based on the facts available to me. If you decide to have anything to do with this lady again just be friends, don’t do anymore than that. Once you have the right tools you’ll have the sucessful future with a lady of your choosing. Good Luck !!
Cheers
@e I would get in touch with her. I don’t feel you’re de-valuing yourself as long as you change and don’t go back to the way you were …depends
How long had you gone out previously and were you sleeping with her or were you trying to sleep with her?
or did you want her to be your girlfriend or wife perhaps someday?
Case in point…I got contacted by the ex girlfriend after a 3 month split… the sex is as hot and frequent as when we first met.
I never, repeat never buy dinner, gifts even drinks until I have slept with a women…..they have to earn it.
If they want to be “friends first” then they can pay their own way. Many women look at guys as a free ride.
Don’t let women manipulate you or play you or let them behave poorly.
And to make it worse if you buy gifts, flowers etc.
you condone, reward and reinforce that bad behavior.
Think about that…. they behave badly and get flowers or gifts…so they think if I behave like a bitch he will buy me something
If she’s playing or manipulating you or being a bitch explain that you wont tolerate that behavior and when she is ready to act like an adult get back to you and dont contact her again…it’s a game whoever contacts first loses power…just move on
If she thinks you’re going to pick up where you left off with gifts and dinner etc…don’t wuss out
if she does’ t like it…tough…. move on…and don’t keep going back hoping it will change… they get one chance
Again if the sex is hot, I’ll make exceptions… but only if they contact me…(I might contact them after a month or three…once)
If I contact them and don’t get a reply or get a maybe or I’ll let you know or some other flimsy reason and if I don’t hear back in a day or two max…. I make other plans and I never, repeat never, contact them to ask them out again or ask what happened or why they didn’t get back to me.. move on…. there are lots of attractive women
If she questions you about what you’ve been doing…just don’t answer or be very vague…it’s none of her business what you’re doing and who you’re doing it with…remember you weren’t together …she has no right to ask.
Hope this helps
She is a disgrace and why anyone would listen to her let alone buy anything from her. What an oxygen thief! I can’t believe RJ is going to use this dipshit! She is very annoying in every sense of the word especially her squinting when she is trying to think, u can here the tumblers…..lol.
Maybe we could sum it up with this..”Sex is like credit…some get it …some don’t”! I think this whole dating thing has become too complicated.
Enjoyed the vid. It was good to hear from the female perspective. Ignore the knockers. One thing I observed about the PUA scene are the horde of naysayers and knockers. Put a bunch of guys together and you usually see this happen.
Yes, That’s it! She just nailed it!..Big time for a lot of guys,”I had that same shit going on in my head,”And my personality is not like that..As a matter of fact, this story has created a fucking monster!
I liked.
What the FUCK! Is she even talking to an audience?? Why is she holding a speech like this in front of nobody? Come on Gambler community. Posting a set-up like this is EMBARRASSING!!!!
What she describes as a ‘nice guy’ is in reality an energy blockage. She is saying to open the flow of personality energy, because to do anything else won’t make a lasting impression on anyone. In other words, the personality of a waiter in a fine restaurant isn’t going to be memorable.
A tad heavy on the eyelids, though.
There are some really bitter, way too critical, angry morons commenting on here, so let me give you a little test:
How many of you are dating someone as attractive as Kezia, or better?
How many of you are teaching others what has worked for you, like how you are dating 9s and 10s?
If not, and I strongly suspect that most critics above if not all are in this category, then simply STFU, since it’s obvious that not only are you mentally and intellectually deficient, you’re not even teachable.
I don’t get the haters – except for the one guy who said comparing human interaction to coca-cola ads was a bad thing – that criticism I get.
But besides that, she’s very beautiful and what she’s talking about makes sense; so what’s the hate for? Maybe people are jealous they aren’t making money off of pick up or having any fun.
I’m late getting this….but this is abolutely GREAT !!…I giggled thru the whole thing cause it’s so true……I’m still laughing…….this little video clip is a diamond….a gem…..can’t exagerate this
I too got the impression that she is in fact, not addressing an audience but just pretending to, which is kinda sad really. Richard, your marketing strategies are getting a little too transparent buddy ;)
But the hate for the info in this video is rather unfair. We are all here because at some point we came onto the internet looking for advice on how to up our pussy count. Sure, this is VERY old news to those of us that have been using PUA advice to get laid for years, it’s the first thing you learn. But there will no doubt be noobies to the idea of ‘game’ that have seen this and learned something, and it was free.
Her book (or whoever wrote it) is no doubt just a new way to use a hot bit of ass to repackage and resell the same info, but that’s fine with me, I just don’t need to buy it ;).
Very interesting,i liked it.SHe’s very straightforward and honest. I love that british accent.
Kezia is so hot. I think I’m in love.
She has good advice too, much better than most trainers.
Thanks Richard for this, having a stunning woman like Kezia teaching men such detailed advice is great
Lewis
This is just out of curiosity. Your male friend who goes all shy and turns into ‘Mr Bland’ around women he’s trying to meet, but around you is full of personality. You said he was ‘like a brother’ to you though. As he’s NOT Mr Bland around you, how come you see him ‘like a brother’ i.e. not much attraction, or is that just cause you’ve known him since you were five and it would feel a little odd to go out with him now?
Guys, honestly these people came up with something useful to tell you all for free. Why being so negative? Well, if any of you think or act as “nice guys” read your own comments and see how really “nice” you all are underneath. You’re horrible, not nice at all. I see it time and time over, losers whether men or women deserve only 1 thing in life: That is to be losers. God forbids anybody do anything nice to them, they will bite the hand off. They act “nice” only to get something from others. These people do marketing and just because they do marketing doesn’t mean they want something from you. Marketing is a fair game, nobody owns you anything to give you all for free. If they do that, say thanks! Honestly, if you don’t like it, go do your own research and figure it all out yourself.
“be yourself”?
shocking…gamblers stuff has gone seriously downhill.
actually…most of his “original” stuff was pretty crap aswell.i say “original” because lets face it…most of it was taken from other people.
and mr.x…stfu.
To all the complainers: get out and meet women for real! If you don’t like the free training, go back to your pick up forums where you can impress other newbies with your “skills”.
Funny… you actually wasting your time with this??? When all you have to do is Embrace your Nature? unless your 3rd alien shit.LOL. in nature their are Prey & Predators the question is Which ARE you???. The sad part is you let a girl tell you this???whaaaaahahaha! eat my dust guys!
Now that I thought about it I have to agree 100%, we are afraid to make an impact on that person. In fact we are afraid to make any kind of impact on anything at all. May be we should shut up and actually go out trying to make an impact on everybody we meet. May be it will help. May be it makes sense for us to have any kind of informed or uninformed opinion and stick to it and keep making impacts on everybody with it. That makes sense.
10/10 Being a nice guy is the easy way out and a curse.
Don’t you think it’s interesting how a male pua posting improbable field reports is put on a pedestal yet a beautiful woman telling it how it is is critisized ? Kezia, I’ve done a residential course with puat and I raise my hat to you.
haha – It actually works the other way around. We base advertising strategies on the principles of human nature and interaction.
LMFAO at her and gambler trying to sell this bullshit on Dragons Den…the dragons laughed them out of the studio!
what ages does this refer to??
because a woman over 30 dousnt act like that!!
im i wrong?
WAY TO MUCH EYE MAKEUP, SAW HER IN REAL LIFE NOT ATTRACTIVE AT ALL VERY PLAIN LOOKING AND WAY TO SKINNY. TOTALLY BIG HEADED AND THINKS SHE IS WORTH MORE THEN SHE IS! SHE LIKES TO THINK SHE IS PRETTIER THEN SHE IS, SMARTER THEN SHE IS AND MORE SUCCESSFUL THEN SHE IS. A TOTAL EGOTISTICAL BORE.
I think she is very sexy, yep I agree she is very skinny, but she is in a 9 out of 10 in my opinion.
She just needs to put on a couple of pounds.
Great video, thanks gambler for sharing this with us
I would say some of her advice is good common sense although spoken harshly and showing a limited understanding of the real reasons why guys turn in to “Nice Guy Mode” when dating or chatting to women. How Kezia speaks and presents does not seem to come over as being genuine or from the heart, but a text book response like a car manual explaining what you need to do with what tools, but missing out that most people may not have all the tools to do the job in the first place.
Tools such as confidence, believing that you are the best, being confident, lowered approach anxiety, being able to see and think around and beyond negative vicious circles that have built up for years and years in the minds of guys rejected time and again. What about all the other anxieties and fears perceived, real or imaginary that need to be broken.
Kezia takes a lot for granted and portrays a character, that is very shallow minded, arrogant, egotistical, her sexiness is just a put on show along with all the make up, which makes her seem more attractive than she really is. This appeals to most guys as we are all used to seeing the majority of girls in the media that look like her and behave in a similar way. I believe she has a foul personality and cannot stay still or stop playing with her hair, when lecturing with a very poor style.
Well it’s all about priorities,would you even want woman like this,that has arrogance written all over her face?I believe as few others said,that something like Inner Game is really it.I had some much deeper problems like drug addiction and so and those programs really got my on a good path and now I truly work on improvement of myself and I try to do my personal best in all aspects of life.Women use to bother me and many times you don’t even realize,that they aren’t even worth it.When you grow as a person you don’t even look at those club types of women,you want someone who has more then just that.
The other I asked my friend who is good looking gal if she was rejected.She said about twice in her life and it was one of the very worst things in her life.Guys are rejected all the time and that’s where all those inner nightmares coming from.When you reject girl(let’s say she is 6-8)she will turn around and stab you in the back,ha ha.If she didn’t live it she can’t give you advice,not that she’s giving any anyway.
You know,while they are young,some women(just about 99% of good looking ones)do what they do and when older they would kill for a nice good men,ha ha.My dad, 60 years old bachelor has so many women,that are lonely and he doesn’t know where to go first.They cook for him,wash his clothes and i don’t know what.And he is just a normal man,all his life worked with his hands.I guess,when you meet good looking woman and she’s going to like you as you are,then you have a worthy girl.If you need to put up a mask,do animal screaming or show something shiny, thank you but no thank you.
When I look at the videos I actually find Kazia quite intimidating. Maybe she is a little nervous and that’s what comes through as intimidating in the presentation. It’s like a lot of emotions are flowing and she aggressively tries to take control of the situation.
I don’t mind the way she’s dressed up, she’s cute and everything, but when I look at her I can’t help but wonder; what is her purpose? Why is she doing this? What is it that she wants to get out of this?
This is just my reflection of it. Maybe this is not a very flattering post but I’m ready give her credit for doing a good job and think that she eventually will grow into a more relaxed and comfortable lecturer in the future.
Truer words were never spoken.
A woman who “gets it”. Quite aside from looks, that’s attractive by itself.
In the past, I still slipped back into nice guy mode. Rarely did it not come back to haunt.
:P
Fortunately, I am not stuck there.
same thing over and over again
the book cover sucks to be honest
also even though nice guys may be blandand forgettable
i dont find kezia is my type anyway even if she did want me. so its a matter of choice and preferance.
i think puatraining gives men the wrong impression about dating and is overly serious in terms of ITS DEFINATELY GOT TO BE LIKE THIS OR ELS!
actually i got the book now and it looks pretty good.
LOVING the back cover. ^^’
actually kezia is right.
i enjoy kezia’s breasts.
but i find kezia unique in her edgyness.
but i reckon if i got down to fucking her i would get a floppy if we live in the real world.
i am a monogamous chap whose looking for his one and only baby-mama who i will stay with even when she gets old and fat
plus i bet 99% of gamblers lays are from prostitutes. hardly an achievement.
awwwwright, I luk to tell you sumthing. Hate the accent. yuk.