Hi guys, apologies for the wait, however I have been very busy working on some projects that you will really benefit from.
I did manage to find 15 minutes to record a quick guide on some simple dance steps for guys that find it a little harder to be free and expressive on the dance floor, or for those that want a low key way to get the right kind of attention.
As always, there is no replacement for just going out and making sure that you are having the most fun on the dance floor, but this should help you find a rhythm, get used to the attention and get you results instantly!
It really is that easy guys, just try them out in front of the mirror for 10 minutes then you will have everything you need to effortlessly become the highest value guy on the dance floor. Just remember to have fun and SMILE!
I will make a video detailing the basics on forcing IOI’s as soon as possible, until then, have a go at these steps until you are comfortable with them, make your own variations, then go and dominate the dance floor!
Any questions or stories just let me know below
Thank you Stephen for this amazing video! Looking forward for the next parts
wow that was the worst thing i’ve ever seen. Guys that dance like try hard homeboys don’t get girls buddy. Try some cool shit like stylish 60′s-70′s vibe shit and you’ll be the man. I can’t believe you do that shit in public dude..heavy. Can you imagine how many guys are now gonna be tryin to do tryhard breakdance style shit. fukkkkkkk haha at least it’ll get them out of their head i spose.
Hy guys i would like to point the attention of the community on one aspect of seductive process you may encounter when you start to practice the game.
I am from Italy and I understand it could be a cultural problem more than somewhere else but not only I guess.
When I started to practice the tecniques i have learned here even if in a subtle or indirect way it was pretty clear for girls that i was tryng to pick them up. At this point many of them (especially the cutest ones) flattered by my attentions they started doing anything (even the most esplicit things) to make me believe that i could have succes so that they could keep me going after them as long as possible. Of course I was always rejected in the key moment but always in a way that kept my hope alive, so that i could think it was a fake resistance and I could have been successful if I insisted.
I think the definition for this girls is coquette or cockteases.I have not found enough material about this problem on the web but I think it is a big problem you can face especially in the beginning.So my question is: how do you recognize real interest signals from fake signals and eventually how is it possible to seduce this kind of girl when you meet one without necessarly givig up after you found out she’s this kind of girl? Any contribute or link to web pages considering this issue wiil be very appreciate.
@t Alessio
I see wiman testing me all the time, its in their nature. Probably you dont believe enough in the stuff your doiing. They will go along with you, and trey to get the leading role back after initial contact. Then your their toy. Just believe in yourself have fun and dont take bullshit from them. Just pretend to walk away, or maybe even walk away. you will see that this will make a big difference. Your the man!
This has so far been the most useful thing that I’ve watched.
In the clubs in my place music are so loud that verbal pick up would be so difficult and almost impossible considering everyone’s dancing.
Tbh, I have tried out the dance floor game as there’s no way i can do verbal pick ups in the clubs here. But i turned out to be the “Dance Floor Robot” as described by stephen.. I was depressed.
This video is to the point that it’s literally solving that problem I have been facing.
Thank you so much for putting this up!
This is good stuff. For a long time I could never figure out how to dance or why certian body movements worked while others didn’t work. I have been all the guys. The guy in the back holding the drink to the super dancer at rock bands when other guys would for the most part just sit back and watch me as everybody would give me attention cause I was the only the guy dancing to rock band. The rules to hip hop are different from rock but the dynamics are the same. I can practice this stuff in my free time and will now hold myself in a hip hop setting. But rock is great cause you will be the only guy dancing to it and chicks give you so much value compared to the guys who can dance to hip hop but fall apart when Aerosmith comes on. I’ve gotta practice at hip hop too and then be more flexible with everything.
@ somechilledcat
Be cool dude.
Attitudes like yours doesn’t get girls either.
This is good stuff thanks Stephen
Thanks stephen so much for this video it helped me a lot to know the basic steps
Please upload other parts and if u can do partner dance too
Hey guys, thanks for all your comments.
Alessio, I think Thoms04 gave you some great advice. Certainty is an extremely influential tool, if you believe 100% that you are a high value guy then that is your reality, you will likely not even notice women testing you as you will automatically give a high value response and women will follow that lead. Think of it like this, if you knew 100% that you could jump out of a plane from 10,000 feet and that your parachute will work fine, and you will land perfectly, if you are absolutely certain that everything will be ok, then skydiving would be no scarier/different than walking to work. It is the same with women, if you are sure of your actions, people will naturally assume that you are right.
Roster, I’m glad you found the video useful, being a natural introvert, it also took me a lot longer than some to improve my verbal club game and still lean heavily towards non-verbal methods, the great thing is that now you know exactly what to do, you can make huge progress very quickly! Keep me updated as to how you get on.
Tristan, you hit on a very good point, calibration is a key factor in dance floor game, it is essential to be socially intelligent, and part of that is being flexible with how you dance, it seems that you have a great understanding of the need for different styles for different music. Generic steps like the ones in the video are a great starting point and work well during ‘typical clubbing tracks’ but yes I would definitely recommend people pay attention to how the high value people dance to different music and learn to adapt, thanks for making such a great point!
Ariet, thanks for the comment and I hope it really helps you get out and enjoy being on the dance floor, let me know how it works out for you
And I’m sure I can find a partner to help show you guys the rest of the phases
Stephen
It might work but such bad quality and difficult to understand.
this is the most rediculous stuff i ever watched… i laughed so hard! omg…
i dont think this dude has been to big city clubs a lot… cause thats the way u can spot a needy moron from far away: watch him dance like this dude in this video.
if u want to know about dance game watch the dance advise in “hitch” (the only good thing in this movie)and learn about escalating kino. but do yourself a favour and dont do idiotic crap like this unless u do it just for fun while ur wasted and being a mess with ur guyfriends and ripping up the club anyways.
Nice video thanks for that
One question i saw some people in the club dancing Techtonik (It looks so funny) but they got so much attention from women. What do you think are these dance moves social dance moves?
Hi Marius, I personally love tecktonik style as it is great at expressing your personality as you dance, (even if it does look a little strange
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I am sure that the guys doing it were thoroughly enjoying themselves and dancing primarily for their own amusement (not seeking a reaction from anyone), and this is the key to social proofing steps. The ones that I show in the video are just some examples of what guys can try that will help them feel the rhythm of the music rather than worry about what everyone thinks of their dance skills.
It’s great that you pointed this out, as it highlights the idea that any type of dance can ‘work’ if it means that you’re the most fun/comfortable guy on the dance floor, whether its breaking, tecktonik or the foxtrot. This is what girls pick up on much more than how technically correct the moves are and your vibe is what will get the great reactions.
Thanks for the comment
Ok nice
Is tecktonik the Type 3 who is dancing to show how good he is and who is trying to show his cool dance steps?
It would depend entirely on if they were doing it for their own amusement, or to impress other people. You can see which it is by whether they are present in the moment, or whether their eyes were constantly scanning the club to see who was looking/validation seeking.
The easiest way to think about it is ‘would they still be doing the exact same thing if no-one was looking?’
Do you have a email adress stephen?
My PUATraining email isn’t working right now, just check for Stephen Dalchow on facebook though