Make a girl laugh

httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BFOW5Kwe62M

Comments

  1. yes says:

    I did my first PUA bootcamp 4 years ago and various workshops inbetween.

    In 4 years I got no lays (except with hookers), k-closes or relationships. I put alot of effort into trying to get this sorted and makes me think that most f-closes are probably fakes or exaggerations or twists of the truth. I dont get how some guys claim to get laid with over 30 women who arent prostitutes. In 4 years I havent got close and women seem wary of men who just want them for sex and not love.

    I went to a hypnotherapist and he was ridiculous. He wanted to me to point outside my head where my memories were inside my head when memories are really just vague electrical processes. He did a 5 year appeenticeship with richard bandler. Which basically means all he does is go to all the workshops and seminars he does. Richard bandler isnt even a psychiatrist or psychotherapist he just makes endless rambling books.

    To be honest this only works for people who get action in the first place and arent really that messed up but make up a story of how bad they were. Since even professional models say ‘OMG I was like SOOO bad OMG I WAS LIKE SO SHY’. Literally everyone says this.

    My life is boring as f”k and like torture. I dont want to live yet i dont want to die either so Im stuck with a dull life. and I get no pleasure from social interactions or life in generally. i got a ‘flattened effect’ and speak in a dull sort of way. and im not really animated.

    meh.

  2. yes says:

    an idea for a blog post is more lifestyle related posts. Like thoughts on Zen and the 80/20 principle in related to doing things that only make you happy etc.

  3. yes says:

    in terms of the 80/20 principle one of things i notice is that there are subjects that im naturally quite good at and some that im good but with even endless practice im probably not going to get that much better in. Even with practice your probably only going to improve so much in certain subject areas.

    meh. I feel like im wasting my life and i dont really fit in anywhere.

  4. yes says:

    and also

    In NLP books/DVD. There is ENDLESS OMG talks on how with the power of ‘mind’ people overcome cancer. But the thing is most people who get cancer dont die from it anyway.

  5. lucass life says:

    That is a very good hand game. Yesterday i try it.
    I have up this video in http://videotecaseduccion.blogspot.com
    good work AFC Adams!

  6. Knight says:

    I field tested this one four times this weekend with a great (75%) success rate. One girl was embarrassed and didn’t initiate contact, but I was probably too far into rapport building at that point. But the others reacted the same way as the video shows – physical contact and a lot of laughing. Try it out!

  7. billy says:

    she already looks like a happy girl..easy target. Afc adam only approaches really easy targets in my opinion. This would never work on a good looking stand offish girl

    you loose, again!

  8. Adam Lyons says:

    Great work knight!

    I feel bad for you Billy, you’re aware this isn’t a cold approach right? Seeing as how it’s in my house, (i dont store random girls i havent met in my home) It’s a demonstration of something to do in field which works very well, as you can tell by the comments from the people who have used it.

    And if a girl looks friendly when I open them, it’s because I open them well.

    If a girl is being rude or upset when you open then you’re probably just not doing it right.

    This girl or any other will be rude and not friendly if you speak badly to them.

    That is all.

    :0)

    Adam

  9. billy says:

    dont feel sorry for me adam..feel sorry for your self…your wife fu*ked a club promoter from Austin behind ur back and you still married her, why the f*ck would anyone want to learn from someone like that dude?

  10. Adam Lyons says:

    Aw man, now I really do feel for you.

    This kind of hostility in your replies really does show that you can’t be happy with your current situation.

    Lets put it this way, I definitely wouldn’t bother reading a post on dating advice by someone I didn’t believe in or was connected to in some way. Yet you not only watch the advice, but you feel the need to write about it, and even miss the point that obviously I know this girl and that it’s not a cold demonstration, rather an example of a technique to use.

    Personally I love this bit. “she already looks like a happy girl..easy target.” – Because what you’re seeing is how happy she is hanging around me. We’ve spend the entire day together putting a collection of these techniques down to help people who actually want to use them. Yet your desire to be negative is so strong you can only think of how to try and see it as looking bad.

    The desire to write negative things about others like this almost always stems from your own unhappy situation and a need to try to cause others pain due to the frustration you feel about your own lack of control.

    You would be a lot happier in life if you actually went out there trying to help people, even if you only start with yourself rather than just posting negative things online, especially when they’re not true merely based on hearsay from other misinformed people.

    People who’re happy just don’t have the time to waste time posting negative things about other people. It just isn’t worth the energy.

    I really do hope you take something from this and try to improve.

    Though I’m guessing you’re more likely to react to the fact you’re actually getting attention from me which will cause you to want to prove your point and keep posting things that won’t make sense or once again are mis-read, you may even try to back it up by posting links to items online that also have no solid foundation.

    Of course doing this is only going to increase the interactivity on this page and that will help us drive traffic to our blog and the technique, ultimately helping us find new people who will see that what you’re saying is incorrect and then to see if you’re right or wrong they’ll test out the technique and see that it works as the others have who have posted here and we’ll find some new customers.

    Really do try to take this to heart and improve yourself, I promise you’ll be a lot happier.

    Chat soon :D

  11. billy says:

    Adam, did your wife suck his dick behind your back or just sleep with him? If she just gave him a blow job its not so bad right? lol

  12. illuminati says:

    I am being tortured by the illuminati. yep.

    Thats lame Billy. Even though to be honest I dont get how some guys dont care if their girlfriends have had sexual experiences with other lovers. It would drive me crazy meeting their exs. I wouldnt take them as seriously if they have. Get them young is what I say but legal X-D

  13. Adam Lyons says:

    My wife has only been with me since we started dating exclusively. Before then we both saw other people. Just so you know this is kind of normal amongst people who go on dates in the world.

    Seriously billy, I’d strongly suggest you try to stop venting out your issues on others and start to help yourself. You’re obviously overcompensating for something, just a shame you feel the need to make up stories and try and stir, I’d have happily helped you.

    Pushing others away from you who are capable of helping really doesn’t benefit you.

    Illuminati, my personal belief is that the inexperienced ones just aren’t that good and with the average girl already having some sexual experiences by the age of 16 you’re really not going to be getting something no-one else has had anyway.

    Personally I think there is more to a relationship than just “I got here first rights” Compatibility, support, loyalty, beauty, friendliness, sexual desire and a bunch of other qualities besides are (in my opinion) all worth a lot more than the ability to say “She’s only ever dated me”

  14. illuminati says:

    Ah yes I guess you are right!

  15. Awake. says:

    Well said Adam keep doing what your doing. Thank you for all your stuff, as your making a massive difference not just to my life but to others. Respect :)

  16. billy says:

    Adam, we all know about her and that club promoter from Texas. It’s sad that you have to lie to people in order to veil your miserable life. If you had just admitted that she had sucked off someone behind your back and that you forgave her ( well, lets face it, a USA passport is an important item to have)
    Instead you have chosen the road to continue to deceive people. You continue to lie to people, rather than admit the truth. I gave you a chance to come clean, to admit that you got her hurt when she screwed around behind your back, and that you had forgiven her for the sake of a USA passport, er..sorry ..marriage .

  17. Adam Lyons says:

    Awake, thanks for the kind words bro! To be honest it’s people like you that make this job a pleasure. We really work our assess off this end so you probably don’t realise it but those words of encouragement mean a hell of a lot!

    Billy I’m afraid that you’ve caught yourself out in your desire to try and make me look bad.

    So lets begin here.

    “we all know about her and that club promoter from Texas.”

    I’m afraid that simple saying “we all know” doesn’t make something a fact. Unless you’ve got some hard evidence then you’re just making up stories, and seeing as how this didn’t happen it’s going to be impossible for you to find any evidence of her doing anything behind my back while we were dating.

    But here’s were you really show yourself up as trying too hard to spread fasle-hood.

    “well, lets face it, a USA passport is an important item to have” and “that you had forgiven her for the sake of a USA passport, er..sorry ..marriage .”

    Firstly you don’t get a USA passport when you get married. You get one if you become a citizen, marriage doesn’t automatically make you a citizen.

    Secondly If I needed to get married to get my visa then I wouldn’t have been able to live here before we were married. I had my visa before we were married so I could do business in the USA.

    Now I could bring up photographs of my visa to prove this, I could also prove to you the day I moved to the US (which is the day my wife and I started dating) by showing my original tickets and I guarantee you wouldn’t be able to find a single piece of evidence showing my wife being unfaithful to me, because she hasn’t been. In fact I personally love the fact that since I moved to the US I’ve spent every single night with my wife sleeping next to me. So it would literally be impossible.

    You’re clutching at straws, and obviously don’t actually know what you’re talking about. Also it’s apparent you don’t really have anything new to say and so are having to make up facts which are obviously wrong to try and spread false stories and more importantly it appears you don’t have anything better to do.

    I really do feel for you, the worst part is that you couldn’t even deny the fact that:

    a) you’re unhappy with your own situation
    b) your lack of social skills meant you misread the entire video you originally commented on

    and based on the fact you even know about this blog that means your own relationship life is struggling.

    I’d guess that by your fixation on me with cheating that you have probably had someone cheat on you on a number of occasions and it hurt you bad. After all wasn’t it Sigmund Freud who said “Psychological projection is a psychological defense mechanism whereby one “projects” one’s own undesirable thoughts, motivations, desires, and feelings onto someone else.

    You ignore the fact that you completely misunderstood the premise of the video (based on your first comment) because you struggle to see your own flaws. So rather than attempt to defend a point that you know you can’t win you instead opted to lash out your frustrations on the person who corrected you. Using your own fears and experiences you attempted to try and make me feel bad so that you could at least have some small victory after being so incorrect on the original statement.

    Unfortunately for you, I’m incredibly happy and I trust my wife completely, I’m aware of all of the rumors people try and spread and to be honest we laugh at some of the more ridiculous ones. However no matter how many people spread a lie, it is still a lie.

    Try not to be too offended if I stop replying here, it’s just that you’re beginning to sound like a broken record and i would rather concentrate on people that can admit they need help.

    Though I am up for continuing the conversation on my next video if you like. it should be up sometime in the next 48 hours :D

    In fact Billy I’d like to take a moment to thank you, the video is now up to 8,000 views which is over 4000 more than my last technique video. The boost in traffic is truly appreciated. Nothing brings traffic more than a little controversy eh? :D

  18. Adam Lyons says:

    Just realised i made a bunch of spelling errors in that last post LOL! I really should learn to spell check.

  19. Fat-Albert says:

    Cool video Adam,
    I’ve tried it a couple of nights out now – on cold approaches, in comfort = it was received positively and got the desired effect. The first time after running it, I reached out to her (then realised that she must chase rapport), then from then, I let her chase her. It was great. I’m dying to see this one of the girl chasing after you lol.

    I’ve got to say that I really admire your work Adam, it always gets good results, adds real value to any interaction and makes ‘game’ much more fun and rewarding (translate that to successful and getting positive results). I admire your generosity in sharing your knowledge and experience mate, cheers.

    All the best

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