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Hello GUYS. Hey yo, blahhh. OK, I have a cold and it’s sort of nearly gone but I’m also in a jolly mood and been awake long time..
This post is about having an exprimental mentality, thus makin you experi mental. Very mental indeed. Right then, look, the reason I was able to formulate all my technologies was because I had an experimental mentality + I also studied shit.
I’ve got a game I like to play lately where I fall in love with girls for fun to see how it affects the outcome of my approach. So for instance if I’m in a venue I will ask myself ‘who am I in love with?’ and I will pick a girl and then just tell myself I am deeply in love with her and go and approach her, it has a tremendous impact on the outcome of the approaches because it changes the energy that you’re gonna come in with. Funny thing is, if you know anything about seduction you will know that the greatest seducers of all time fell deeply in love with all of their victims, if only for a short time. There is scene in the new movie ‘the spirit’ where the doctor of the spirit tells him that he loves every woman he seduces and means everything he says – to each and every one of them. This is quite blatantly aluding to the psychology of the world’s famous seducers in history.
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On a planet of the lower triad, you will have many more evil things happening than on a planet of the upper triad. Earth is a lower triad planet. I’m hearing a lot of people talk about the credit crunch, the New World Order, the orchestrating of events designed to create panic like a mathmatical equation, and I think it’s bad yes but at the same time I know that there will always be bad things taking place on a lower triad planet.
I use a system called the six umbrellas, each umbrella is an emotion that can encompass all forms of emotion related to it. There is the pleasure triad, which is the upper triad, then there is the pain triad, which is the lower triad.
This planet and the people on it operate from the lower triad. The whole planet and its consciousness on the whole is massively lower triad. It’s all very well complaining and all that stuff but at the end of the day, people think that they are powerless against all this politics stuff, but there is billions of people on this planet and only a very small fraction of those people are calling the shots, and they are managing to control by eliciting the lower triad in the rest of the population.
Living in the lower triad makes you stupid, angry, sad, and afraid. That’s what makes you powerless. The human brain is extremely powerful and everyone has one given to them for free by mother nature, and to surpress its power the owner is being forced to live in the lower triad where the brain doesn’t work so well.
In the upper triad things are very different. I wish I was born on an upper triad planet, oh well maybe next time. Or perhaps people will realize within my lifetime what is going on and start intercepting the lower triad elicitations and counter elicit with upper triad elicitations.
You’re gonna hear people talk about how we are controlled by the banks, and by all kinds of blah blah blah, but actually, really, we are controlled by elicitations. Most of the hard work is done by us, you see once we are habitually living in the lower triad we ourselves with our own elicitations will keep us there. It’s a very efficient system, don’t be thinking for one second that it takes gallons of energy and up keep, it really doesn’t. Similarly, the upper triad wouldn’t require gallons of energy either, if we were habitually in the upper triad it would maintain itself just like the lower triad is maintaining itself now.
I heard that only 0.01% of people are truly evil, like genetically evil, the rest have just been lead astray by the 0.01%. Man that 0.01% is doing well but I don’t know how long it can go on for because 99.9% of the evil people aren’t actually evil and when they realize this and snap out of it, that puny little 0.01% is gonna be in deep shit.
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It’s now time to award some prestigious titles to the people commenting who I have taken note of. Every now and again I shall post the latest awardees and their new titles. It’s sort of like cub scouts where you collect badges, there are no badges but the titles are officially awarded by me. My decisions as to who gets a title and why has to do with how well they are responding to my teachings. I can tell how well they are developing by their subcommunication and energy.
Here are the titles:
1. Stuff, who through dilligent reading of blog posts, commenting on those posts, thinking, and postulating, has earned the title of ‘genius’. Title awarded by Alistair of PUA Training, 27 December 2008.
2. Mike, who through sheer determination practicing the art of thinking intelligently, has earned the title of ‘intellectual’. Title awarded by Alistair of PUA Training, 27 December 2008.
3. Craig, who through being highly motivated and motivational, has earned himself the proud title of ‘leading expert on the science of motivation’. Title awarded by Alistair of PUA Training, 27 December 2008.
4. Joker, who cracked the hidden codes and messages contained in my posts, has earned the title of ‘extremely talented individual’. Title awarded by Alistair of PUA Training, 27 December 2008.
Well done to all of you, and have fun using your titles as often as you like, you’ve earned it, and if anyone takes issue with you about your title simply print out your certificate which is basically this post.
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OK dudes, this post is about how game naturally progesses for a serious pickup artist. The game starts out macroscopic and then gradually becomes smaller and smaller until it becomes infinitely microscopic. It can be frustrating for the experienced seducer to have to teach a complete beginner, because has to teach the macroscopics as the beginner just isn’t ready for the small details yet and can’t even appreciate them.
The experienced seducer does all of the macroscopic stuff instinctively, and is beginning to do the microscopic stuff instinctively as well, and is still looking to refine and tighten his game up even more by looking for even smaller details to fine tune, practice, and internalize to the instinctive level.
Learn to discern between the macroscopic and the microscopic, for instance being ‘well groomed’ is a macroscopic change. Ollie is someone who has internalized the macroscopic aspect of fashion and is functioning in the realm of microscopic details, this seperates him from the crowd, but sometimes people can’t see or appreciate this. If you’re a complete mess and you haven’t even got the macroscopic aspect of grooming down, going and seeing Ollie, who operates right down to the microscopic level, can be a bewildering experience. The same goes when a beginner takes training from a seducer who operates at these deeper levels.
So many students can’t even open, let alone do all the advanced stuff, not being able to open has to do with not having self control and not understanding oneself. Knowing yourself leads to being able to control yourself, being able to control yourself leads to being able to control others. Make no mistake, game is about control, seduction is when you bend someone to your will. Get out of this game if you can’t face up to that fact, because it seriously isn’t for you if that is the case.
Some of the best seducers of all time have no fame in the seduction community, but they have a lot of fame in the spiritual development community, that they routinely seduced women using their highly advanced degrees of self control and self understanding, was simply brushed under the rug. While I won’t name names, I certainly won’t brush it under the rug, I’ll openly state it, spiritual development leads to the ability to seduce to the highest levels possible, if you choose to use it for that.
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In the high jump you have a set of rules, for instance you’re not allowed to saw off some of the bar, wear stilts, use springy shoes, wear roller blades and use a ramp, use a pole to volt over it (different sport), use a step ladder, etc. It’s a sport with rules, but those rules are made up for the sake of the game to make it more interesting, challenging, competitive, and fair.
If you take out the rules, you have 2 good options, option number 1 is to think of tricky ways around the problem, such as the ones described above. In my opinion though, nothing would be better than simply being 5 times bigger and stepping over it. That’s what improving yourself does, it makes you bigger, then the women just become a joke, whereas before you needed all tricks and BS to seduce them. Working on yourself and making yourself less susceptible to injuries to your self esteem, amongst other things, gives you ‘the aura’. It ain’t a trick when you have ‘the aura’, it’s like being 5 times the size and just stepping over the stupid bar that you once thought was a big deal.
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By the way, the art of making up words (10% of words in my vocab are of my own coining, when people get to know me they also get to learn new words, sometimes we discover quirky things in our lives and it’s more humanitarian if you name those things so that you can use them casually in conversation with others who may not know) is called vocabularizing.
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In vocabularizing what you basically do is make up words and definitions for things that either a) you don’t know the actual word for, b) there isn’t a word for it, or c) there is a word for it but it doesn’t exist in the tense that you’d like it to so you use a prefix or sufix from another existing word that does exist to make it have the tense you want.
Back to rationalitay, or lack thereof.
You may have already heard the thing about how if the earth were just a bit further away or a bit closer to the sun that life on earth would not be able to exist. You may also know that when a dart player throws a dart, that it is fractions of a millimeters difference between whether he hits the bullseye or not (triple 20 is good too but bullseye is more poetic), the further he is away from the board, the more accurate he needs to be with his throw. Your life is similar, if you’re being inaccurate in your being, you may not be able to notice the effect this is having in a week, or a month, but the more inaccurate you are being, the further off target your dart will be when it lands, say, in 10 years from now. You see the closer you are to the board, the less those fractions of a mm are gonna make much difference, but when you’re very far away, they add up to quite a lot over the space of the distance they travel.
The human body has many rational things about it that are quite astonishing in their complexity and beauty, but at the same time there are many irrational things about it as well. This is because it is in the nature of the Universe to be part rational, part irrational. And so if in your daily life you are being overly rational, you are imbalanced, and if you can’t think about the irrational side of life without getting frustrated, it may be that you weren’t as conscious as you could have been in regards to this delicate subject matter. Be like the Earth in your rationality and irattionality, not so much of one, and not too much of the other, aim to strike a balance between the 2, and learn to accept the irrational side of life. Like the dart players throw naturally micro-adjusts, provided his eyes can see how close or far away he was from what he wants to achieve, you too will adjust.
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I’m wrestling with the idea that pickup artists could become more powerful than movie stars in terms of ‘attraction power’, if you can call it that.
The way I see it, when you go to see a movie because you’re attracted to one of the actors in it, you’ve more or less been passively seduced.
I’ve had to game girls that know what I do for a living in the past, and even now a girl I gamed recently knew what I did because I told her. I still managed to seduce! In those situations what I did was not passive seduction where the person doesn’t even know they are being seduced by an expert until it’s too late.
Seduction is a blend of subtle and overt qualities, addings, and subtractions, + a whole myriad of things present and not present give or take. I’m not ever suggesting you go overt when you should be subtle, or go subtle when you should be overt. Your seduction should stay the same – artful, clever, practical, real.
If your victim knows you are a master seducer, because it’s your title, like movie star is the title of a hollywood lead player, but is still seduced… You are damn good. If you can go on television as a seducer and have the audience captivated, even the skeptic hater who’s jealous on you, you’ve got mad skills!!!
How attracted would you be to Nicole Scherzinger if she outright said she was seducing you to buy her merchandise and what you gonna do about it biatch? A lot of you would give her the middle finger.
The media is passively seducing us like a coward.
When you are good enough, and you hold title of seducer, you are no longer a passive seducer coward, you are a respectable player in a much bigger and more intricate game, and have much more power – because you deserve it.
You can’t overtly question the star about his charisma, because it’s passive charisma, it’s charisma and it’s powerful, yes, but it’s coward’s charisma lol. He won’t openly discuss it the knob lol what a wuss.
I’ve gone on a bit, but the reason why I’ve written this is because the PUAs received criticism that they were not as attractive as hollywood stars. It’s a silly debate but I think of hollywood stars as supremely seductive and attractive, but passively so. When you hold the title of seducer, trust me, the game is much harder.
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OK dudes this is something I haven’t previously mentioned in the blog posts of mine.
First you got to understand what a ’sedushion’ is (pronounced: seh doo shee on - it’s a term I coined a while back), now there’s a few different variations of meaning depending on context but the main definition of it is that it’s a barometer for attractiveness based on relativity. Whoever is the most attractive within the parameters of the judgement will hold the title of sedushion at that point in time and space. A sedushion can be a relatively subjective thing at times.
Bare with me people, we’ll get there.
OK so a related term I also coined, that will help you to understand better the theory of the sedushion, is: ‘Facebook Mountain’. Now what facebook mountain basically is, is when you have a load of girls on your facebook, some of whom you know well, some not so well, and you begin to notice which one you think is the most attractive, not just based on looks but based on everything about them that you can perceive at the time.
Now the most important sedushion is ‘the sedushion of your social circle’. There are world sedushions such as popstars, actresses, and the like, but this post is not concerned with those sedushions.
Because of facebook it has become easier to keep a track of all the women in your life so that you can hold them all in mind and juggle them about trying to figure out which is the best one in your opinion based on your personal tastes and preferences.
One of the most incredible things is when you double your social circle, and you see the current sedushion get knocked off the top spot by a brand new one that is much better.
Right now the sedushion of my social circle is in the palm of my hands and it’s because I’ve been on so many dates and seduced so many girls and I even made a point of always gaming the sedushion no matter what and so totally wasn’t phased by the fact I was playing for the jackpot cos I’ve played for the jackpot so many times already and lost so there was nothing left to do but win.
The funny thing is though, if you do loads and loads of cold approaches and are good at game, you end up with a new sedushion – always. There is always a higher mountain, I swear it. What this says about having a comitted relationship I don’t know. But then again I am a bad bad bad mofo. Not everyone is like me.
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