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‘If you can conceive it you can attain it. If you believe it you can receive.’

Some powerful and inspiring words from a great man T.D Jakes.

You are all here in this world, for many different reasons but the fact that you are here, trying, allowing yourself to grow and develop means, that it can all happen. If you haven’t made a choice then don’t expect anything different but if you have then expect everything and anything.

Sometimes people are afraid of showing their true selves in many different situations and circumstances because of what unconstructive criticism they may receive from others. Let me tell you this guys if it is destructive and without love, then it is not for you to receive. You have to understand guys there is only one reason why someone would want to cut you down because they have a problem with you being up. There maybe many different motives, intentions etc because of jealousy, fear, envy, insecurity of their own etc. But at the end of the day it is their problem which they are trying to make yours. Don’t accept it!

Instead let yourself shine, be all that you can be and more. Why not? Try it, see how it goes for you. One of the best ways I have found for you to do this is to let yourself go…be free and tap into those divine powers you have within you; from God, universe or what other name you may choose.

So how do you tap into those divine powers? By understanding the vital function of them all; LOVE. Love gives all and requires nothing. So love yourself to the max and whatever you don’t need or are not happy about accept it or change it and then brush it off. From my experience when you love yourself your able to spread and give it to everyone’s lives you touch. Hence leaving someone better than you found them, adding some form of value to them.

Loving yourself what does that mean exactly? it can mean whatever you want it to mean. Everyone is different but we all understand and feel that love comprises of care, compassion and patience. It also means for me to enjoy life to the fullest. Believing in myself, having faith, being focused, being resilient and so much more and so much less because at the end of the day it is all love. We sometimes seem to have it for others but not ourselves. And when you don’t for yourself, you make it very difficult for others.

So what do you love about yourself?

Ashley Shaw

Peace, Love and Joy

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Hey guys,

New Year, New Experiences, New Accomplishments. Lets make it happen!

Do you ever get that little itch sometimes which makes you just wanna go dance? I get it quite a bit and was wondering why that was…Then it clicked!

It’s because when we dance we have no restrictions and no rules; and what better feeling than just being free? It sounds so simple and it should be but sometimes we put so much pressure on ourselves that it makes us back out. What I’ve found is when you go out just to have a good time and fun with no specific expectations that is when you generally attract the most attention.

With that said, here is a really cool move that can help you kill it on the dance floor. Me and my friends like to do it just for fun and we call it the ‘Chris Tucker’. This usually helps get the party started, ENJOY!

Chris Tucker Dancing

Why not be free?

Ashley Shaw

Peace, Love and Joy

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Hey guys, hope all is well! Something I just wanted to chat about real quick is your being. Its something I have been real interested in because its about who you are. If you always choose to be 2^nd best, then that’s what you’ll be.

See guys there is a lot of power we possess within ourselves. Deep down we understand this but for some reason choose to deny it and generally fear can be the catalyst for this. Whether it is fear of failing, fear of rejection or even fear of success! As humans we sometimes like to look for something to place the blame on for example “women are all ‘b**ches because one approach didn’t go well”. Trust me when I say, I am not trying to take away any important relevance to experiences that we go through in life because some experiences can be really tough and crappy at times. Though as individuals we have to take the responsibility on how we are going to react to that given experience. A good way for example maybe during a real tough and crappy time I like to try and find that nugget of gold in that given experience because for me that keeps me grounded and positive. Again it may sound easy but if you actually try doing it, it is another story but is not unattainable.

You know I feel that the lives that we live we have a massive say in how it goes and I choose to believe certain things happen for reasons, reasons that we may never discover for long periods of time but it is not so much the reason that is important in that given moment but how we choose to react to the process of that important experience. And that is where I believe the inner power lies, CHOICE and what we do with it. Its like in the Matrix where Neo is given the choice to take the red or blue pill; an experience that has been added to his life for a reason and where his next choice will significantly change the course, the process of where his life will go next. Or where in the train station where he chooses to not run but stay and fight Agent Smith because that was the beginning of where he started to believe he was the ‘One‘. He began to accept who he truly was a powerful being and nothing less. Its like George Bernard Shaw said:

Now I’m ask you, what are you waiting for?

Ashley Shaw

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Hey guys, hope everyone is well!

Just a quick one here. I’ve noticed that as the holidays are fast approaching, everyone’s mood seems to be up lifted. People seem to be doing things they don’t usually do, you know, like always smiling at people, greeting one another, basically just freely expressing themselves more. It‘s brilliant! Everyone is just (vibeing) off each other. If your going out during the holidays and hitting the clubs try to bring your own unique vibe to that atmosphere and definitely to the dance floor J , if you get a chance. The dance floor is full of different vibes; and having a great and unique vibe can be vital when attracting girls because it sets you apart. As opposed to them catching your eye it will be the other way round, you’ll be stroking their curiosity to the point where they’ll force ioi’s and open you.

People often think they have to have a thing in order to be a thing and so sit still and wait until that time comes, which sometimes doesn’t happen. For a second lets try it the other way around. If you had a great and unique vibe what would it be like? Is it smooth, sexy, confident, true etc. Have a think about it, what would it be like? And then what would you do, what would be your actions, your image because of that vibe? Once you’ve visualised it and then allowed yourself to experience it, then you’ll be it. Then there you will have it, you own great and unique vibe.

Why not display it?

Ashley Shaw

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‘defeat is a state of mind. No one is ever defeated until defeat has been accepted as a reality. To me, defeat in anything is merely temporary and its punishment is but an urge for me to greater effort to achieve my goal. Defeat simply tells me that something is wrong in my doing; it is a path leading to success and truth.’ Bruce Lee

A state of mind that I have been applying to my life recently is be the flame not the moth. Now what I mean by that is whatever it is you desire, attract it you to. Be the blaze, be the glow, be the radiance. Always assume ATTRACTION. Some of the traits to this power are as follows:

Love – have love for yourself. Keep filling yourself with this one simple but magnificent energy. Because when you have love for yourself your also able to offer it to others.

“To be loved you have to be worth loving’  Casanova

Acceptance – be true and honest with yourself. We all have our own unique qualities that make us who we are. Don’t get stuck on what you don’t have, instead be aware of what you do have and use those qualities as a tool to your advantage. If your shy be shy, if your outgoing be outgoing.

Imagine who you want to become – why?, what are those new qualities? I desire to be someone who inspires, provokes, heals, protects, has no regrets. The list goes on and on simply because I evolve. Now understand guys you can become that man anytime you want in this instance, you just have to make the choice. What are you waiting for?

Believe – if you don’t believe your enough, if you cant believe you can be enough, you never will.

Positive thinking – positivity breeds positivity. Simple as that. Always find the good in a situation. Turn the obstacles you may face into opportunities to show your true power and strength.

Abundance – there is always enough! If it doesn’t work out with one girl, there is another coming around the corner. (possibly reason it didn’t work out, the timing wasn’t right e.g. she may have just broken up with bf, been hit on 10 times already etc)

FUN - speaks for itself, enjoy everything.

Now I believe this can be applied to all areas of life, try it out and see what happens. Now in terms of women think of who and how you would like to be with them. For me I remember I wanted to come across as smooth, honest, and unexpected.

How about you?

Ashley Shaw

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Dancing has been around from the beginning of time and is one of the most used arts for one to express themselves.

Hey Guys!

Me and a friend were out last week and again it was another memorable and humorous experience. Its so important to be around people who you are going to have fun with. As a guy who loves to dance I gotta say how good it feels to feel free and express yourself. Guys when you hit the club try jump on the dance floor and enjoy yourself whether you can dance or not because as you know, it will show you are comfortable to let yourself go and have fun. And nothing is more attractive then making people feel they can be free too, right?

Heres just a few more suggestion that may help for when your next at the club and if you choose to bust those moves :-p

Have fun- enjoy your own company or whoever your with!

Smile – if you don’t see someone smile give them yours

Bring a playful and positive vibe – it attracts and makes girls want to be around you.

Lead – if there is a girl you want to dance with go for it, you have nothing to lose. But take the lead as women want and desire this, because to them, it shows strength of character.

Dance- now believe it or not, not many guys do this, and to be fair that’s what the dance floor is made for. If you feel uncomfortable maybe try taking lessons like salsa for example, street or even ballroom; whatever’s good for you. You could also check out youtube or even music videos, anything that you feel will be good for you. We all have a heart, which beats to a rhythm, you just have to be in tune with it.

Do what you want by following your feelings (however within reason. I knew a guy who went around the dance floor forcing girls to kiss him. Some found it funny, others…well need I say anymore; be calibrated)

Try not to stare at women or hover around them, I’m sure you guys know this already as it kind of creeps women out and makes you come across needy.

If you’re a dancer avoid spending the whole night on the middle of the dance floor trying to show off your moves and if you know you are not a very good dancer then definitely DO NOT do this. It appears as if you are trying to hard which can portray a lack of confidence and a need for attention which after a while just becomes annoying.

Either way the most important thing to do as you know is have fun no matter what!

And Remember

Women love to go out partying either to have fun with their girlfriends, meet new and exciting people, (you) and most importantly to DANCE!

Why not join them?

Ashley Shaw

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