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‘If you can conceive it you can attain it. If you believe it you can receive.’

Some powerful and inspiring words from a great man T.D Jakes.

You are all here in this world, for many different reasons but the fact that you are here, trying, allowing yourself to grow and develop means, that it can all happen. If you haven’t made a choice then don’t expect anything different but if you have then expect everything and anything.

Sometimes people are afraid of showing their true selves in many different situations and circumstances because of what unconstructive criticism they may receive from others. Let me tell you this guys if it is destructive and without love, then it is not for you to receive. You have to understand guys there is only one reason why someone would want to cut you down because they have a problem with you being up. There maybe many different motives, intentions etc because of jealousy, fear, envy, insecurity of their own etc. But at the end of the day it is their problem which they are trying to make yours. Don’t accept it!

Instead let yourself shine, be all that you can be and more. Why not? Try it, see how it goes for you. One of the best ways I have found for you to do this is to let yourself go…be free and tap into those divine powers you have within you; from God, universe or what other name you may choose.

So how do you tap into those divine powers? By understanding the vital function of them all; LOVE. Love gives all and requires nothing. So love yourself to the max and whatever you don’t need or are not happy about accept it or change it and then brush it off. From my experience when you love yourself your able to spread and give it to everyone’s lives you touch. Hence leaving someone better than you found them, adding some form of value to them.

Loving yourself what does that mean exactly? it can mean whatever you want it to mean. Everyone is different but we all understand and feel that love comprises of care, compassion and patience. It also means for me to enjoy life to the fullest. Believing in myself, having faith, being focused, being resilient and so much more and so much less because at the end of the day it is all love. We sometimes seem to have it for others but not ourselves. And when you don’t for yourself, you make it very difficult for others.

So what do you love about yourself?

Ashley Shaw

Peace, Love and Joy

Hey guys,

New Year, New Experiences, New Accomplishments. Lets make it happen!

Do you ever get that little itch sometimes which makes you just wanna go dance? I get it quite a bit and was wondering why that was…Then it clicked!

It’s because when we dance we have no restrictions and no rules; and what better feeling than just being free? It sounds so simple and it should be but sometimes we put so much pressure on ourselves that it makes us back out. What I’ve found is when you go out just to have a good time and fun with no specific expectations that is when you generally attract the most attention.

With that said, here is a really cool move that can help you kill it on the dance floor. Me and my friends like to do it just for fun and we call it the ‘Chris Tucker’. This usually helps get the party started, ENJOY!

Chris Tucker Dancing

Why not be free?

Ashley Shaw

Peace, Love and Joy

Hey guys, hope all is well! Something I just wanted to chat about real quick is your being. Its something I have been real interested in because its about who you are. If you always choose to be 2^nd best, then that’s what you’ll be.

See guys there is a lot of power we possess within ourselves. Deep down we understand this but for some reason choose to deny it and generally fear can be the catalyst for this. Whether it is fear of failing, fear of rejection or even fear of success! As humans we sometimes like to look for something to place the blame on for example “women are all ‘b**ches because one approach didn’t go well”. Trust me when I say, I am not trying to take away any important relevance to experiences that we go through in life because some experiences can be really tough and crappy at times. Though as individuals we have to take the responsibility on how we are going to react to that given experience. A good way for example maybe during a real tough and crappy time I like to try and find that nugget of gold in that given experience because for me that keeps me grounded and positive. Again it may sound easy but if you actually try doing it, it is another story but is not unattainable.

You know I feel that the lives that we live we have a massive say in how it goes and I choose to believe certain things happen for reasons, reasons that we may never discover for long periods of time but it is not so much the reason that is important in that given moment but how we choose to react to the process of that important experience. And that is where I believe the inner power lies, CHOICE and what we do with it. Its like in the Matrix where Neo is given the choice to take the red or blue pill; an experience that has been added to his life for a reason and where his next choice will significantly change the course, the process of where his life will go next. Or where in the train station where he chooses to not run but stay and fight Agent Smith because that was the beginning of where he started to believe he was the ‘One‘. He began to accept who he truly was a powerful being and nothing less. Its like George Bernard Shaw said:

‘There are those who see the world as it is, and ask why? And there are those who see the world as it could be and ask why not? Today as you and I have shared ourselves with one another on this amazing journey I finish with asking you to see and accept your greatest potential of you, life and the world and to ask, why not?

Now I’m ask you, what are you waiting for?

Ashley Shaw

Peace, Love and Joy