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So here I am in Thailand. Last night I was in the process of engineering a threesome with 2 Thai girls. They were both attracted etc, comfort, well not too much I guess but it was pretty much on I think…Anyway, later on we were in a club and they were both dancing with me and I started to get tired, and bored…It occured to me that I would have to do some kind of strategising and work to extract them both, one of the girls had broken her shoe so we had to walk back to the bar to get a replacement, etc etc. On the way there, I was getting zillions of genuine IOI’s, which from experience here I could’ve turned into an f close within like 2 minutes (and not paying any money either). It’s ridiculously easy to pull here, almsot absurdly so.

That being said, I see, subcommunicated or otherwise, a lot of chodes who couldn’t do it as easily (or as cheaply, ha ha), as I can. A bunch of things give it away, there is no point in listing them but you can just tell from the guys actions that it’s not a part of their reality to suddently have 2 extra points on the value scale added to their attractivenss. Now for me, I can modestly declare that I am more well adjusted to it because of all this gaming stuff, my experience, plus I have been here over 2 weeks now so I am more used to it.

Anyway, so the threesome was on. But I couldn’t be arsed to pursue it as it would’ve required effort, I eventually ended up pulling another girl and doing the deed, whatever.

Point 1 :. question of value & my own personal preferences: I think this mindset comes about for 2 reasons

(i) I am not really bothered about f%&king loads of girls, I remember my newbie introduction 18 months ago (or thereabouts) where I stated I wasn’t in it to f^&k loads of girls..Well that stands more than ever. Things like threesomes, gorup s£x, whatver..that doesn’t impress me in the slightest, I just see little point in it, no big deal.
However..In this place Thailand where my value is inherently much higher than the UK : The level of commitment I place on any given interaction which may lead to f close is I think LOWER than it used to be for me (in the UK).

Now, I think this is probably due to my inherently higher value and ABUNDANCE MENTALITY..It’s much easier to hold an abundance mentality when you walk around and you have girls literally throwing themselves at you, and you know that you don’t have to work much to get them.

Leading me onto point 2…

I met a girl who I fell for quite hard (about 6 months ago, she is from Belarus, it’s over now due to my inability to commit, an important point)….But whilsit I was away travelling, or upset, or whatever frame I was in, I would always think of her fondly and invest a lot of emotion in my memories…This is key. I invested the emotion, in the MEMORIES!! I convinced MYSELF of this level of connection, and that I was in love etc etc.

When I was with her, for sure we got on but it was nowhere near the insane levels of emotion that I had created in my mind when I was away from her..When I was with her I STILL wanted to go out and f&*k other girls (I even told her this)

So putting the two together :

(i)
We convince ourselves we are in love (a hackneyed concept but it’s now internalised..It’s true)

We invest emotions and perhaps even create qualities in the other person when we are not with them..they become a SYMBOL, almost, of what we want..When we are not with them. The REALITY is more prosaic and far less intense.

Your inherent value and the availability of HBs is inverseley proportional to the level of commitment you are prepared to make to get any one particular girl..

Now, putting them all together, especially bearing in mind that any particular girl may STILL not create that mindset where you will be exclusive (sad but true)…Because that is why I was in the game..now that I realise that really it may never happen, that I will legitamately FEEL that feeling of complete and total love, of connection, closeness and exclusivity….

It’s GAME OVER. If you can internalise and FEEL at a gut level that when you are with an HB, regardles of how hot, if you can KNOW that in reality she is not some goddess or queen and that her value is MANUFACTURED in your own mind..then you’ve cracked it. You will no longer have those wibbly moments, you will never be nervous, you will never feel the need to impress, you will never be needy, you will never change or adopt your behaviour ONE IOTA in order to win her over…

And finally I think it’s sad, this realisation. Maybe there is no such thing as an incredible girl that you can fall in love with and stay exclusivly with her for the rest of your life. And maybe the combination of factors, the knowledge of game and the fact that you know you can pull lots of girls..maybe that prevents it from happening..

Vertex

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“just to say, Cardenas, that your “pornstar” article got me laid last night….i was shitting escalating….and i was worried “oh what if i blow it?”

“this mindset will increase people’s success SO much“

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I recollected this, when I was at my desk supposedly devising a strategy to revolutionise the Corporate Finance Headhunting market.

The dynamics of owning the club on Friday:

We entered with two fairly decent girls, so straight way we weren

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I dedicate this to my homie MIA, Vertex the king of club escalation.

*pours beer on floor and throws a westside finger sign.

Day 1- Hed Kandy with Lord Mega, Juan-tanomo Bay, Cigar and a few of my friends at Pasha two weeks ago.

Saw HB Bollywood 7 and her friend getting harassed by a gurning mess of a man. Initially I found it hilarious to watch then I realised it was a perfect opportunity to play He-Man and get in with two girls who had been blowing guys out all night.

I stepped in and brutally AMOGed the chump and literally sent him off with a wave. They thanked me and we shared a few jokes at his expense. It was nothing ladies. We started dancing; I kept turning away from them. Saw a girl I had already f$%ked and her friends- got them to come over and dance. She was cracking onto me big time, giving me massive social proof to my target.

Danced around with Bollywood 7 for 5 minutes. I tell her I am going to sit down as I am very hot, she comes.

We sit and fluff talk but the whole time I am mirroring her responses and eliciting values. Kino starts, more chat. I lean into her, kiss her cheek slowly and she turns into the kiss.

Take her on a mission around the club, holding her hand and leading her. Introduce her to the guys and a few other people I know that I have bumped into.

Time to go, so I ask

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Although I believe game is game, I think this kind of stuff is more suited to bars / clubs…Daytime is more about fast closes or longer insta dates (in my experince tho I am no day game specialist)

See my blog for the club game and sexual escalation techniques….

So…

(i)

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So i’ve been thinking about my mindset in terms of PU. Why is MY mindset valuable?

(i) Because it’s f$%king me, that’s why. Let me tell y’all a little secret. I have met maybe 2 people in my life that I think are better with women, fundamentally better with women than me i.e they deserve better success. And it isn’t anyone on here.

(ii) It follows therefore that something is going on…I’ve re read some of my old posts and what screams out is a deep vein of insecurity that has plagued me my whole file. Plagued is a word I used advisedly, i.e it’s something OUTSIDE of me that’s f$^king with my head. Up until about 2 years ago I had a bunch of issues that were not resolved…i.e despite success with women and in some other areas, I never felt 100% WORTHY. But, at core, I ALWAYS felt that I was better than this, that I could achieve whatever I wanted in life, with women, career whatever. I felt that fundamentally that I could be great, I could achieve things that would literally make the world SIT THE F%&K UP AND NOTICE. If I saw a guy with an SHB, I thought that I deserved it (and I had pulled some very hot women by this point, though not with the same conviction or sureness that I can now)

(iii) So. In the past 18 months the Game has forced me to confront any INNER GAME issues. And hang them the f^&k out to dry. I have realised what that little core knew all along, that little bit of me that was always there, diamond hard and incorruptible:

1:/ I am superior to other men. I deserve the best in life.
2:/ I beilive, right down to my core that I am superior. And that perjhaps as much of 96 % of the worlds population are INERT. They are just pieces of meat that you need to get past. They are just…side issues
3:/ This doesn’t make me a c$%t. I have a deep vein of compassion, but if it came down to it..If the world was gonna be blown up and someone had to be saved…It would have to be me
4:/ I deserve the best in terms of women. You may know more about IT than me. You may be a big fat cat and have more money than me. But You DO NOT deserve better quality women than me, no f&%king way hose, no contest, no argument. That little core beleived this all those years ago and now that I have shelved a lot of my issues, it’s right out there now…Confront me with this and think you deserve better than me in terms of women and you’re gonna get a glass in you’re face!)
5:/ I have f£^ked some pretty damn hot women in my time. i’ve attracted a squillion hot women that most men would be damn proud of. Tony Robbins talks about references, well now that the insecurities have been shelved I have a f^%king LIBRARY of references to draw upon..So you can’t waffle all you like about technique, negs etc when faced with an SHB…What do I have? The knowledge that I have probably f^&ked a hotter girl so I really dont giuve a f£^k about her..And it shows
6:/ TRAVEL…F$&king key..DO IT. You quickly realise that..boys..it’s f%&ked up in our country. A bunch of lounging sows with no right to any quality dick, complacently marking off their choices..This is not to say that you cant pull hotties (I can and have , repeatedly), it’s just that your actual CORE VALUE is MUCH LOWER. Dont’ f%&king argue, it is. Don’t believe me? Go out 1 night in London, to a hard ass bitchy club in west end (where we have all been). Next day, get on a plane, go to a place where you are different, where you think your value may be higher that hasnt been choded out by easyjet AFC stage party f$&kwits..Compare and contrast (i) the quality of the women (you will be amazed) and (ii) your intrinsic VALUE. You will see what I am talking about.

Conclusion: I am that. I am FULLY WORTHY of 9’s and 10’s (if I ever see one, the talk on here of 10’s is f£^king laughable, I suspect VERY FEW of anyone on here has even SEEN a 9, let alone a 10!))
This is based on experience, references, things that have happened to me. And realisation that in our country it’s all f$%ked up in favour of the girls. And whatever else I said, I cannot be arsed to re-read.

p.s If you don’t realise it…Let me tell you up front…There are a lot of jokers in the PUA world. Read this, get it into your f$&king head. Don’t do what I did and doubt yourself, even for a second!
p.p.s You may think of Mystery as some high up, unnatainable goal..Well of all the PUA’s I do actually think Mystery and perhaps Juggler are the real deal..But I am pretty f^*king good when I want to be (modestly I can say as good as those guys on a good night, all being equal), so LISTEN to what I am writing here…It’s true and based on EXPERIENCE!!

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I am so ashamed that I am posting an FR as opposed to an LR. Slap me if I do this again.
This is more a dairy of the events of the day with some game thrown in.

Friday I ordered Chinese and spent the evening and Saturday morning having s$x with an attractive young lady who has the most perfectly formed Double D breasts I have ever seen. I am certain they are implants.

I relaxed during the day to catch up with the sleep I didn

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A classic post of mine taken from another seduction board, where it is the most read and highly rated Inner Game piece.

This is an inner game mindset but also explores the importance of being the dominant s£xual force and leading from the first moment. Basically I have cut and pasted a few things of mine together so it may not read perfectly but you

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Hi I am Dirty Cardenas and I am an evil PUA, I will bum your mother.

I am a natural and have pretty much always been good with girls.

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