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Hey guys hows it going.

I am going to put some videos up closer to xmas/new years as little present from me to you so watch out.

However, I am going to write this blog as a diary entry.

Time: 21:14

Date: 13/11/2008

Location: My Apartment

I am here with a very close female friend of mine, she is profoundly attractive, not because she models for Lee Stafford, Tony & Guy and Tesco, but because she has a childish sense of humour, a warm heart and she is ambitious in her legal career. These are some of the qualities that I find attractive as after gaming for a long time now, I have continuously found myself constantly coming to the same conclusion: ‘as important as looks are, the qualities that I now value above all are those that one can only portray once getting to know the person’.

Who is this person I am with right now, well she is an ex-gf pre-any game I had, who opened me. We broke up and lost contact. Recently, I bumped in to her and I made it my intention to form a relationship, starting from square one as friends….Why? because she was fun to hangout with and that is what is most important to me; leading a healthy lifestyle, adding value to people’s life who I care for.

As well as gaming, I can’t stress this enough, start adding value to people and expecting nothing in return – be the high value guy who isn’t in gaming mode 24/7.

Stay kool and keep gaming.

Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam

Hey guys!

Firstly thanks for the response on my last blog post where you all challenge me with openers. I will be going out in field sometime this week, please keep adding openers I am interested to hear what you can challenge me with. Be sure to look out for it.

Now, my blog post today has a video again for you guys to enjoy, as I feel anyone can write posts and they are immensely useful, but sometimes it is nice to see it in action.

I had a 1on1 client last week and he told me that one of the major factors in booking me was the filmed day game approach. He really enjoyed it and said that he wanted to be taught by someone who he has seen do this stuff, and then he asked me a question – Was this your first approach of the day? And I think it is important everyone knows that it is impossible to get 100% close rate on approaches for reasons outside of your control eg. Woman is getting married tomorrow, she just got divorced, she just had an abortion, etc. The approach you guys saw was my third approach of the day. In my second approach I got a number but my camera man missed part of the opener as I jumped in really quick as I liked the look of the girl, but I didn’t think missing part of the opener was good enough to show you guys. And my first approach, the women didn’t speak English and it was tough and I could have ran non-verbally game and got a close but again not good enough to show to you guys as I wanted to demonstrate to you Gambler’s day game blueprint.

Well I just thought you guys may find it interesting to see more approaches and learn what you can from these. Comments welcome - Enjoy guys.

Stay kool and keep gaming.

Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam

HEY GUYS, GIVE ME AN OPENER AS CRAZY AND WACKY AS YOU LIKE!!!

I am going to go in field with the best, video the approach and show you it can work.

Stay kool and keep gaming.

Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA, Dharam

Every year in my community we hold an annual function that involves music, dancing and socialising. I saw an amazingly gorgeous woman last year, lets call her ‘V’ for now, I thought she was very attractive, but this time last year my game wasn’t as strong and I don’t think I even managed to open.

Now you might think you know where this is going but no I didn’t run game and win the girl. What I did, was be myself and have fun as always, and eventually I happen to be sitting on a seat next to her and just because I was on a high from having fun, I opened her as a friendly guy. I did everything a PUA shouldn’t, e.g. I told her I remembered her from last year. I was just being the guy I was before I had game, a nice friendly guy. Then something happened, I got to know her as a person in a relaxed interaction with no game, just two people being themselves and that allowed me to see she how truly beautiful she was inside and out. Now I ran a little bit of game on her to stay out of the friends zone, apart form that I know did everything wrong on the night, but the reaction I got from her was like I was running game and it was working.

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Hey guys quick question………………..who lies more men or women?

Only kidding, love getting people’s attention and saying that

Come on, it would kill if it I was standing in front of you saying it right now.

Anyway, moving on to my blog topic. I have decided to write this one on interruptions when in set, as ‘Reset’ left a comment on my last blog, which was a video approach, as to how I dealt with the woman receiving a phone call when I was in set with her and how they should be dealt with.

I am going to start by saying that each situation is different and there is no universal method for dealing with such interruptions. You must assess each set, at what stage of the pick up you are in and how important the interruption is for the woman.

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Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA, Dharam

This is a follow up to Gambler’s Daygame Blueprint

Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA, Dharam

Hey guys, I am the latest addition to the PUA team and I’m starting my own posts on the PUA Blog. I would like to start by telling you that everything I post will be taken directly from the field - performed, tried and tested by yours truly.

I went to a popular nightclub in London last weekend, totally last minute with a student of mine and I made an astounding discovery new to myself.

Now, we all know that walking in to a club with an abundance of women will give you instant social proof and make you more attractive, I often take my female friends with me, I enjoy there company and it gives me an immediate edge against all the AFCs standing at the bar with a bottle of beer, looking intently at all the HBs as they walk pass. BUT, what if you don’t have an abundance of women yet, just like my student who is starting out in the game. Well I have come up with a great way around this obstacle, and it all comes down to asking yourself where does club game really start???

Does it start inside when you make your entrance? Does it start when you force an IOI and act within three seconds? Or does it start once you begin your PUA dance floor game? Well, truth is guys, I’ve found its none of these. Club game starts outside in the queue…That’s right, lining up in the freezing cold outside. Now my student made his first approach inside the nightclub, and as I wanted to debrief and the club was extremely loud, we got our hands stamped and walked outside. Now whilst debriefing, two HB9s join the queue, immediately we join the queue behind them. Now seeing as this is my first post, I’m going to give you guys something special, my super solid, top secret 1 line opener in a nightclub queue that has not failed me yet – ‘Hey guys, Have you been to this club before?’

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