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Guys, if you are not on our mailing list, you would have missed this.  Check it out:

This is it.

After 15 months of working tirelessly on my new book,
“The Natural: How To Effortlessly Attract The Women
You Want”.

..it’s now ready for pre-order.

In just a moment, I’m going to tell you how reserve your
copy, so that you get it the moment it’s released…

And you get access to THOUSANDS of dollars in bonuses,
including never-before-seen videos, tickets to my brand-new
live seminar, and the chance to win a bootcamp and/or a residential…

But before we do that,  I just want to say…

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THANK YOU!
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You are the reason why this book has become a reality.

It’s you, my students, that drive me day in and day out
to keep innovating, refining, and redefining the way the
game is played.

Its you who are responsible for “The Natural.”

A book that I consider to be my magnum opus.

A book that ties every method, technique, and tactic I’ve
ever developed into one radically trans-formative work.

A book that will change everything for you.

After reading The Natural, you won’t have to spend time
thinking about how to approach…

It will just happen.

You won’t have to memorize scripts and routines…

The right words will just come out.

And for the first time in your life, you’ll be able to just
“be yourself”…

But in a way that women simply can’t resist.

I know this book is going to have a profound impact
on your life and I can’t wait to get it in your hands.

Now, because this release is such an important moment
in my life, I want to do something special for you guys
who have been a part of this all.

Which is why when you pre-order your copy of the book
today on Amazon, through the link I’m about to give you,
you’re going to be receiving the following…

1.) A ticket to my brand new 5-hour LIVE seminar
“Breakthroughs in Seduction: An Evening With Gambler”
where I’m going to be sharing you with you all of the
new material I developed while writing the book…

And personally answer any questions you might have.

These events will be in New York, LA, and London.

And for those of you who won’t be able to make it..

No worries, we’ll be live streaming it to you over the
web, and you’ll be able to communicate with me
through an interactive Q and A box.

2.) Video of a seminar that I put on a little while
back that  I personally consider to be the most important
material that I’ve ever shared.

I explain exactly what I did to get to that next level of game..

The “master” level where I knew I had complete and total
control with women…and knew that I’d never be alone again.

Only a few people in the world have seen this…

But you get access, when you pre-order your copy of the
book today.

3.) A brand new video program I’ve developed with Adam
Lyons that shows you an insanely effective way to take a
girl who “just wants to be friends” with you…

And turn her into a girl you’re sleeping with.

We’ve never shared this program…or the method contained
within it…but when you order “The Natural”..

It’s yours..

And finally, when you order today, you’re being entered
into a drawing to win one of 3 free residential programs
that we’re going to be given a way…along with 10 free
bootcamps.

When you order the book, you’re entered into the drawing.

So if you’ve been wanting to attend one of our live programs,
then this might be your lucky day.

Ok, so here we go…

To make sure you receive all your bonuses, the first thing
you’re going to want to do is click this link:

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And place your order.

When you finish placing your order, you’ll be given an “Order
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That number will be shown to you on the confirmation page
and it will also be emailed to you by amazon in your receipt.

Take that number…

And head to THIS page:

http://www.puatraining.com/naturalbonus/

And enter the number, along with a few additional details,
so that we can manually verify your order.

Ok, that’s it..

The two page you need to know are:

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Thank you so much for taking part in this, and I can’t wait
to get you your copy of the book…along with all of the
incredible bonuses.

-Rich (Gambler)

It’s been a LONG time since I’ve written something on my very own blog right here.  I think this is important enough, and if I can convey my ideas on this subject well enough, I might be able to help a lot of guys along their path.  Over the years I’ve seen a lot of people get stuck .  Maybe they make it part of the way to a happy love life and then stall out or regress.  I’ve even seen guys who never really get off the starting blocks despite years of effort.  As a coach, it’s very important for me to understand what they are doing wrong, and now for the first time I can give you my take, and I hope it’ll help you either to avoid a similar fate or confirm that you are on the right track.

What are the 3 major mistakes that the guys who don’t win the game make?

1.  Wrong role models.

Sometimes I watch videos by other “gurus” or meet them face to face.  There are lots of guys that I respect, some are good teachers, some have a lot of great theoretical knowledge, and some have good game.  However there are a ton of guys who are buddies with the right people, are good marketers, and are basically guys who should NOT be listened to.  Sometimes on these videos you can see the guys in the audience furiously taking down notes.  Big mistake.  If you choose the wrong role model, the best you can hope for is to be as good as them.  In some cases these “gurus” have no skill at all with women and are total losers.

When I first started, my role models were the gurus who had qualities that I lacked and respected, not the ones who had the coolest stories, were the most famous, or who bragged the most.  Which ones could I imagine girls being attracted to?  Which ones had some charisma, presence, or other quality that I valued?  When I started getting better, my role models became guys like Steve and Alex. Guys who I noticed because they had amazing strengths in areas that I had weakness.

So the lesson?  Tune your radar correctly, find role models who are guys that have qualities that you don’t, guys you respect.  Not just guys that brag about bagging HB10s on message boards, or who do the circuit of PUA talks but have no real world skill.

Of course an average role model is better than a bad one.  Too many guys only hang around with guys on the same level as them and think that they can all get better together.  While that is possible, in most cases they will fail.  Being friends with someone 10x better than you is a surefire way to get better in that area of life, whether business, pick up, or anything else.  My role models are accountable for over 50% of my success.

Alex and I soon after we met in 2007.

2.  Wrong approach to feedback.

“What she says doesn’t matter”, “just do what you want and if people don’t like it it’s their problem”.  NO!  Feedback is the only way we get better.  Yes you shouldn’t take everything a girl says to heart, or take each rejection personally, but you should objectively look at all feedback and take on board lessons from every failed interaction/relationship.   If you keep telling stories and people get bored, or keep making certain types of jokes and people don’t laugh, or keep failing at the same points in a seduction, then you need to pay attention to the external feedback and make changes.   If you have someone who can harshly critique you, fantastic.  This could be a wing man, your natural friend, or a particularly honest girl who you try to seduce.

A lot of guys work on their inner game so much that they delude themselves into thinking they are good BEFORE they actually are.  Then if someone doesn’t like anything about them it’s obviously the other person’s fault.  This is a real limiter to making progress.  Don’t let your ego get in the way. Each time you either step up the difficulty of the girls you are going for, or try a new environment, you should expect to be bad to begin with.  Feedback and adjusting is the only way to improve.  Plowing through with a “what she says doesn’t matter” attitude is a recipe for disaster.

90% of the time this means you are doing something wrong and you need to figure out what it is and change it, 10% of the time she is having a bad day etc.  We can’t get better without negative feedback.

3.  Focusing on “game” and being a PUA.  The wrong goal.

Being a PUA is lame.  I said it.  Generally you are hanging around with guys who either are bad with women or were bad with women recently, you won’t have many “normal” friends and generally no female friends.  You are WEIRD…but it’s all for a purpose.  You have your wingman, you do your approaches, and you are going to be this weird guy for a short amount of time while you learn all the skills and catch up on all those years you missed out on.  Years when other guys were getting laid and talking to lots of girls.  You get the skills and then you get out.  You make normal friends – cool guys and (importantly) girls, your “game” becomes natural, just who you are.  You learn skills, travel, and do interesting things, become a man who women should be attracted to naturally.  Guys that think it’s cool to always be a PUA are never going to be in the places where all the hot girls are, are not going to be accepted by her friends and family, and are not going to have the huge benefits that being socially connected brings.

4. …and the obvious ones

Not taking action, not trying new things, not pushing yourself, not leaving the house, and all the things you already know.

I hope that helps guys, it took me a few years of watching guys succeed and fail to find the common threads.  Please comment below, I’ll be reading them all.

….Just for grabbing a copy of my insanely cheap…and insanely awesome book

Rich here….

And I’ve got a deal for you:

I scratch your back…you scratch mine…

(See? I’m kino’ing you already…lol)

But in all seriousness…

Cracking the Amazon Bestseller list has been a dream of mine, ever since I first decided to write a book.

And with your help, it’s totally possible.

So if you liked the material I shared with Jordan, then I want to give you a collection of FREE gifts for you (Over $397 in value) when you order a copy of my new book “The Natural.”

Why should you take action on this?

The first reason is simple: The book kicks ass. I’ve put my heart and soul into it and it contains the best methods, techniques, and tactics I’ve developed over my nearly 5 year “career” as a pickup artist and instructor.

The second is that I’m basically bribing you.

The bonuses you are going to be getting are just downright awesome.

Here’s what you’ll be getting:

60 minute video: Unstoppable Attraction
This video was shot at a closed-door seminar where I had one hour to teach all my best techniques.  Watch me demonstrate advanced kino techniques on Natalia.  I’ll teach everything from basic kino – how to touch girls right away in the correct way, to kino openers – opening with a touch, to advanced kino and “sleazy funny” kino where I touch a girls…erm…private parts within minutes.  Later on you’ll even see my “instant kiss close” technique

80 minute video: The Sweden Files
Stockholm is one of my favourite cities, full of beautiful girls who are actually pretty easy to talk to ;-)  Last time I took a break from the girls to give one of my best ever talks.  I talk about non-verbal game and give you a step-by-step process to go from seeing a girl you like to getting a result with her, with no chance of rejection.  You’ll love it.  Later I demonstrate my seduction technique, how to go for the kiss in a way that you’ll never be rejected.  Watch out for where I reveal how I “stole” a girl from a celebrity.  The second half goes into my conversation skills, if you ever run out of things to say or worry about boring conversation, this will give you the answers you need  ;-)

50 minute video: The Seduction Blueprint
If you’d like to watch something that is under an hour but will give you exactly what you need to go out to a club, find a girl, take her home and have sex with her, this is the video for you.  It shows a stripped down, streamlined version of my “model” for seduction, everything from every type of opener you can use to how to close, all demonstrated on sexy redhead Meg.  Check it out and use it next time you go out to get killer results.

60 minute MP3: Social Circle Game
In this MP3 I discuss with Greg Greenway how to integrate into a high end social circle, how to game the girls, and how to use your social circle to get laid consistently.  This was one of the biggest keys to my success and this MP3 breaks down exactly how I went from the loser that was too scared to go to a nightclub to the guy that went to the hottest parties and scored with the hottest girls…all without cold approaches and rejection.

Pretty awesome bonuses, wouldn’t you agree?

Again, all free….when you grab a copy of my book on amazon.

So here’s how it’s going to work, go here to buy your book on Amazon:

CLICK HERE TO GO TO AMAZON

Then, just enter your amazon order ID on this page and get immediate access to all of the bonuses:

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Super easy.

Simple simple.

And your game is going to go to the next level.

Ok…

That’s it, so enjoy the book, enjoy the bonuses, and thank you SO MUCH for your support with my book.

Again, the link to go grab the book is here:

GO TO AMAZON

Thanks again for listening to my interview, reading my long-winded letter here, and getting the book.

Richard “Gambler” La Ruina