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Last Saturday in London we held Ultimate Natural Game Live – it was the seminar event for people who purchased the Ultimate Natural Game DVD set.

We had an awesome day with speeches, workshops and crisp new material.  It was great to see so many people getting such benefit from the product months after it was launched.

So guys, here’s an opportunity to share with each other your favourite part – and this is open to everyone who managed to get a copy of Ultimate Natural Game regardless if you could make it to the weekend event.

Let’s hear what you’ve found the most useful. We love to hear what you guys think.

Also – team captains from the weekend – looking forward to getting your results.

I’m going to start 2009 by saying something controversial

Rating girls from 1 to 10 is stupid.

Let me tell you my reasons for thinking this.

Looks are personal – something I’ve noticed is that the more choice guys have with women, the more varied their tastes.  When I’m out with the other PUATraining instructors, rarely do we agree on who the hottest girl is in the room.  We’re all confident enough to express our own preferences – some like tall girls, some like short – some like cute looking rock chicks – others like ice cold Russians. But what we all agree on is that we want to spend out time approaching the girls that we find most attractive.  I don’t think I’d enjoy the time we spend together half as much if we were all chasing the same girls!

Rating women on their looks reinforces a load of the bad stuff that probably stopped you from having choice with good looking women in the first place.  So she’s a 9 by her looks? Are you a 9? What about all the other things that makes you a great guy?  How about if she can’t even be bothered to get a job and would rather sit at home all day – is she still a 9?  What if she’s a 7 but you get on amazingly and she has the best personality that you’ve ever met – are you somehow not aiming highly enough – should you chuck her and date a 9 who bores you?  

Come on guys – this is about CHOICE with women. Pick up should be about broadening your horizons, giving you options that you didn’t have before. And this is about as limiting as you can get. 

We need to start viewing women as the complete package – you spend time bettering yourself right?  You want to make yourself a better person and grow and develop. Does she?  So factor that into the equation – and the result of that equation shouldn’t be a number from 1 to 10 – it should be either you like her or you don’t.

It doesn’t matter what your friends think.  It doesn’t matter what people on the internet think.   All that matters is that you’re approaching the woman that you want to approach and that you’re giving yourself the greatest opportunity to meet someone who’s going to rock your world.

Happy New Year Everyone

I’d be really happy to hear your thoughts on this.

I was recently talking with a student and he said something very common that we hear.- “I’m successful in all the other parts of my life; I don’t understand why success with women isn’t the same.”

In fact, before I first encountered PUA Training, I said the same thing myself.

Just to make things even more complicated there are a whole bunch of guys who aren’t successful in life, perhaps unemployed or moving from low value job to low value job who don’t seem to have any problems with women.

If you’ve been successful in life then chances are that you’ve focused your efforts on what you wanted, took some action. You saw whether the action had the desired effect and changed your approach if you didn’t get what you wanted. Repeating this cycle until you got what you wanted.

An analogy to this would be trying to open a safe. You try one number, if it doesn’t work, then you try another, when you find a number that works then you move onto the next.

In almost every part of life, keeping trying, paying attention to the results and adjusting your response is the recipe to eventual success. You’re trying to find the solution for that problem.

Why doesn’t this work with women?

Women don’t want to feel like they’re a problem that needs to be solved.

You don’t need to search for her code, number by number – that won’t work. You need to enter your own code – and you need to do it in such a way that you expect it to work. That what you do is done with confidence and belief is more important than it’s the perfect solution.

I’ve got a friend who’s rarely in work, he’s a pain in the a$%e as a friend, he’s always broke, gets in arguments with people easily, yet always pulls. He’s not successful in work because although he has great confidence in what he does, that’s not enough to convince his employers that there’s actually more than just talk. He’s entering his own code into every safe that he comes across – the only safe that opens is the one that’s not looking to be solved.

So what is YOUR code? Perhaps it’s wanting to find out more about her?(comfort) Perhaps it’s what you’re looking for in a woman? (qualification) Perhaps it’s having a laugh and joking around? (attraction/playfulness) Perhaps it’s sexual escalation? (seduction)

I’ve been working recently on some new products and ideas that I’m very excited about – more to come