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I understand routines. I understand why you would want to harvest phone numbers. I understand why you would spend hours and hours learning how to manipulate any interaction. These aren’t things I do personally. One thing I also never do is lie. I recently told a girl that what I wanted from a relationship was for me to have multiple girlfriends and for the girls, in turn, to have multiple boyfriends, keeping everything light and fun with no possibility of jealousy. This lead to me being in a new situation. I am so very happy and excited that I decided to share with you my findings. The situation I am currently in has involved me experiencing the following things.

1.Falling in love with a girl who I consider my main girlfriend.
2.Sleeping with another girl who I see infrequently who is in full knowledge of my main girlfriend’s existence and vice-versa.
3.I assisted in the getting together of my main girlfriend and a self confessed ‘PUA’, who she is with right now which is why I’m online
4.My primary girlfriend asked me yesterday in awe at how I made her feel “How do you exist?” and told me that I had given back her faith in MANkind, and that she has never felt as attached to anyone on such a deep level as does with me. She, after having made one of the biggest womanizers (and by womanizers I mean selfish *@?!) that I know, wait for 5 months before a physical relationship, had blessed me by opening up to me in considerably less time and she feels no regret. She is also aware of my other girlfriends.
5.I have never felt so happy and free from jealousy, I just want to run round the world making people feel good about themselves.

The scariest thing is expecting a ‘No way!’ when suggesting it. Sometimes you’ll get that and they will warm to it. They may then leave but why would you want to be with someone if the only way you could be with them was by settling or lying? If you continue to talk to them but make it clear that you aren’t going to change what you want to suit them it can turn out quite nicely.

Two days ago I was telling a girl the way I manage relationships and what she said went a bit like this.

“No way, I would never do that. Never. I could never do that. Never ever. Maybe for one night, but never longer than one night. Maybe a few but I wouldn’t call it a relationship”

At this point she started rubbing her leg against mine. I was quite taken aback.

Honesty IS the best policy.

-MD

I would probably say my Approach anxiety was much worse than average, my fear was paralysing and I just couldn’t get past it. Now I have found a way to get past it slowly but surely. Taking small small steps. I’m all for faking it til you make it, but for some people they just cant get past that. So Ive created a list after much experimenting to see what set off my AA the least. After I do each one of these things for a certain time I got bored doing it all the time, that was my cue to move it up a notch.

1.Go to a Starbucks, or any coffee shop when it isn’t too busy. You’ll notice people seem to hug the windows and walls, noone wants to be the guy sitting right in the middle on their own. Sit down and notice how many people don’t actually care that you feel uncomfortable.

FRAME: Anyone looking at you is envious of your confidence.

2.Walk down the street, you can do this with your headphones in or whatever, and hold the eye contact of every girl until they look away. You can do this in bars and restaurants too.

FRAME: Remember if they hold it they are interested, if they don’t then they are still interested but don’t have the confidence to approach you.

3.Walk down the street, hold the eye contact of every girl and then say “Hi”, if they hold your eye contact pull a stupid face, stick your tongue out or something. When I started doing this the buzz was similar to what I got from approaching.

FRAME: If they don’t laugh they are shy or aren’t interesting enough for you to be socialising with, think about it.

4.After they have laughed or reacted at all to your silly face or whatever, go over/stop them and start talking to them.

FRAME: they already have a good opinion of you, you have nothing to lose, its very difficult to change a girls first impression of you.

5.Buy the PUAtraining e-book and Approach confidence CD, the book will tell you what to do next and the Approach confidence CD should be listened to on repeat at night, every other night. It strips the layers of anxiety away like an onion until you are left with a little quivering blob which you can ignore.

“This is the number one product of its kind” “You havent seen anything like this yet” “This is going to change the game forever”, how many times have you heard that but been handed the same generic, moderately useful products? Puatraining.com are guilty of claiming these things but unlike various other companies they mean them and live upto them. Amazingly, yet to the same extent expected, PuaTraining.com’s Approach Confidence CD is one of the best Ive heard. Ive listened to quite alot of hypnosis, NLP mp3′s/CDs including things from some really highly respected Hypnotists, and I still wasn’t satisfied, Approach Confidence is superb.

As soon as it starts its very relaxing, the embedded commands effect you quite well, the music in the background helps relax you very quickly. Once it starts doing sending you different messages in both ears at once it really starts to take over your mind. Easy to listen to, and you can feel it working almost immediately. I approached two HB8s withn a few hours in Day Game, and they were the only two I saw, and normally I wouldn’t have. I used to have two voices in my head one saying “Look, check her out, approach her all you have to say is [Opener]” then a second saying “Yeah but you’re really tired, and its late, shes probably in a rush, she probably has a boyfriend” then id usually let her walk past and then say “Damnit why the hell didn’t I say anything” but after listening to the CD just a couple of times I have a new 3rd voice that tells my second voice to “shut the f%&k up and stop being a p^$$y” and you do it a few times and you begin to not understand why it was hard in the first place.

Overall I was really pleased with the results, and Ive only been using it for 3 days, considering its about a fifth of the price of some of the other really high quality things its a must buy.

MD