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Recently I had a bootcamp up in Atlanta and was able to meet up with my ex girlfriend.  This is the same ex who used to go out with me to pick up women and I gave her the name Cyren.  Even though we’ve broken up there are still, and always will be, strong feelings between us as well as massive attraction.  What followed was inevitable…

Cyren picks me up from the airport and immediately the flirting begins even though she trys to act distant and puts a stop to any of my sexual advances…it was pretty much always a love/hate relationship so this was nothing new.  Over the course of the day though we naturally began building comfort again, since it’s been months since I saw her last, and gradually the sexual tension began to rise.  After I introduced her to the other instructors I brought her back to my room and finally kissed her again.  After the first night of the bootcamp I had her come by my place and then I sealed the deal and we were back to normal again.

Now the second night I invited her to come out to the club where the bootcamp was being held after it ended.  I obviously didn’t want her there during because my attention had to be totally focused on my students and not on her.  When she arrived she had brought her friend who I’ve seen around before, and tried gaming in the past, but nothing ever came of it.  That entire night I constantly lead the two around the club building compliance not so much from Cyren but from her friend.  The three of us danced building up some sexual tension and finally I felt it was time for the bounce.  We head over to another club where Cyren’s friend used to work at and immediately guys begin hitting on Cyren and her friend.  I dragged Cyren away to be with me but left her friend there for a very specific purpose, the more her buying temperature got spiked by other guys the more recpetive she’d be to me later that night.  I already knew I was her ride so no matter what happened I’d be with her in the end.

While Cyren’s friend flirted I did some other half hearted pick up attempts with Cyren but it was more for fun then anything.  We all begin having some drinks and finally the club closes down.  Now it’s time for end game and handling logistics.  The girls want to go swimming so I figure there’s a pool in my hotel.  When I get there though there’s no such luck, with some quick improvising I decide we can just go to my room…I told the girls I had a jacuzzi in there which was bullshit but whatever.  Once we get there though I find two of the other instructors in bed and realize this wont work.  Made for a funny scene though stumbling into the room laughing and waking them up but now I had to handle logistics fast.  I find out that Cyren’s friend has a pool so we head over to her place.

Once there the girls begin changing and I make sure to sit in front of them while they do.  Cyren’s friend removes her panties in front of me giving me an eyeful of vag%^a which was a very good sign.  However the pool turned out to be closed!  Cyren’s friend gets all mad and storms into the living room and Cyren pulls me into the bedroom…guess no threesome was gonna happen.  After my round with Cyren though we join her friend and she comments how she heard us going at it.  I bring up squ$%^ting and Cyren begins to tell her friend how she should try.  I get some objections at first but immediately reframe it saying how it’s not like we’re gonna have s&x or anything I’m just gonna teach you, plus Cyren can help out.  With some help from Cyren I get her to agree but before we start I tell her she needs to get turned on so I let Cyren and her play around, after watching a bit I join in “to help”.  Then the fingering starts and truth be told she was the first girl I couldn’t make sq%^&t!  However after she was that aroused the three of us just began to fool around and I began banging Cyren.  Quickly I switched though and started with her friend which was a surprise to both but after a bit I could tell Cyren was getting jealous so had to end that.  Finshed up with Cyren then called it a night and had her drive me back to my room.

Here’s a pic of us outside my hotel room before going in…

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For those that don’t know the 4th of July is when us yanks celebrate our independance day from ::cough:: England ::cough:: by blowing up a small portion of our country with fireworks.  Since it’s a national holiday I knew it’d be a fun night…

This really starts however on July 3.  I’m out doing an Anxiety Removal Course and one of my friends “The 305″ introduces me to these two girls he met outside the club.  We bring them into our group and just party and work the rest of the night.  After the Anxiety Removal Course I figure it’s time to run my own game and I open my target for real now.

Since we’ve already been introduced (the best opener by far) it’s fairly easy to start off with.  I simply sit down and join them then begin joking around a bit.  I basically just find any ways to add value and continually leave and re-enter the set to build comfort and familiarity (a tactic taught to me by AFC Adam).  Once this is done I begin finding out the logistics and realize they’re here visiting from texas and will be in my hometown of Ft Lauderdale tomorrow.  However I want to really justify the number close to make it solid and also want to make sure I’m not just a ”club guy” and bounce them out of the club that night.  Here’s how it went down…

Psych: You do realize that once you come to south beach you never leave right?  There’s to many great things here!

HB: Hahaha I know!! We don’t want to go but we have to leave monday! (makes a sad face)

Psych:   So much you haven’t seen though!  I bet you guys haven’t even checked out our famous Jerry’s diner…

HB: What’s that?

Psych:  OMG see this is what I mean…I’m going to have to be your south beach guide now there’s no way around it.  Jerry’s diner is one of south beach’s most famous places.  It has incredible food and is open all night…also there’s a surprise there that makes it famous.

HB: What’s the surprise?!?!

Psych: You’ll have to wait and find out…I’m gonna head over there with some friends soon, come and join us.

HB: Yea we’re down!

Psych: Cool I have to say hi to some more people here but in case we get seperated what’s the best way to contact you?

HB: (gives me her number)

Later on we bounce to Jerry’s diner along with 3 of my wings.  The whole time we all just joke around constantly, keep things fun, and make tons of inside jokes.  There was nothing “gamey” about anything we did there.  It literally just showed the girls that my friends and I are cool, fun, and most important…normal.

The next day I give my girl a text…

Psych: Hey cutie great meeting you! You always so friendly to strangers? (credit AFC Adam)

HB: Hey! It was great meeting you as well! I am friendly to people who are friendly back :) give us a call if you are out in fort lauderdale!!

Psych: Good answer! Gonna be out tonight so we’ll meet up for sure

HB: You better! Haha

Psych: Lets pregame first though, I’ll pick you guys up.

HB: What time?

From here I just handled the logistics.  Thing is though another girl I’ve been debating to hook up with also invited me out for the fourth.  Apparantly she had a hook up to a good club, we’ll call her HB2.  I decided to change the pregame plans into after party plans (helps logistics even more lol) since we had to get to the club early.  I pick up HB along with her two friends and then meet up with HB2 and her friend.

While waiting for HB2 and her friend though I spot two model looking guys.  One is off talking to another girl and one is left alone.  HB’s friend goes up to talk to him “because he’s lonely” and my spidey sense begins tingling sensing danger.  I leave it alone for now though but then the other friend leaves his girl and comes over to join us.  They introduce themselves to the girls and totally ignore me…big no no.  Time to destroy some more naturals :).  This was fairly easy enough I just whispered to my target “looks like he struck out with his girl and is ready for round 2, try and be nice though.”  She giggled and when HB2 came around I told HB’s friend (the one with the bf) that we had to go to get in…which consists leaving the guys.  I knew she’d be the most down to leave the guys since she has a bf and like a champ c%^k blocked her friends.  Sometimes the mother hens turn into your best friend!!!  The guys tried to argue but just ended up looking needy and we ditched them at the door.

Once inside we begin taking advantage of the open bar.  HB keeps feeding me drinks (IOI) and I bounce back and forth between HB’s group and HB2′s.  This starts to subtly create competition between the two girls which was amazing, no longer did I have to adopt a “be the prize mindset” I literally was the prize now.  Using women’s catty and competitive nature is an extremely powerful tool.  I began taking silly pictures with HB and also got her kissing my cheek to introduce a sexual frame.

Eventually though the music begins playing and HB2 begins grinding on me to steal me away.  Game on ladies!!! The next 20 minutes consisted of dividing my attention between the two and seeing what clever ways they’d try and get it back.  Usually it consisted of grinding on me when the other looked away, taking me to the bar for drinks, taking pictures with them, or random little games they came up with.  I truly feel the highest level of game is where you make it to be that the women game you.  However HB2 lives here and HB only has one more night…I choose HB!  I finally give her my full attention and we begin going to town on the dance floor (my dance floor game has become SICK now and I didn’t pull any punches).  Eventually enough sexual tension is built for the kiss and I go in.  Later I learn this was the moment she knew she’d be sleeping with me!

After this her friend with the BF began getting p^ssy but I quickly disarmed her and got it to where she’d leave and go back to her bf while I stay with the girls.  Don’t know how to break that part of game down just yet but I suppose it’s “Quick Logistical Management Game?” lol.  Then I bounced the two remaining girls to another room (at this point I ditched HB2 and her friend).  However a serious problem occured…I needed a wing!  Luckily one of the skilled guys from the miami lair was in the place “Hwood” so I texted him and he came through.  After bringing him into the set we literally went to town on both our girls.  When it comes to bouncing a girl from the club to my place for s&x I don’t like there to be any confusion at all.  At one point I had my girls leg wrapped around me while grabbing her ass and Hwood was feeling over his girls skirt.

Finally I just say “lets head out to that after party” and we all begin going to our cars.  Hwood takes his girl and I take mine.  However there’s some MORE logistical problems with my girl not wanting to go to her place because of the friend with the bf so I just say we’ll go to mine.  I call Hwood to let him know then head to my place.  Once there I literally throw the girl on my bed and begin escalating however I begin getting some weird form of LMR!!!

Now I’ve NEVER had LMR once it was this on so I was really shocked.  She even said something like “it’s not gonna be that easy…”  I’m almost lost for words here but I continue to escalate and keep getting the LMR.  Then I get “you have to earn it…”  Now most community guys here would royally mess up, hell a year ago I probably would have as well.  Now I know better though then to enter a dumb frame battle especially this late in the game so I just say “and how do I do that?”  She giggles and admits she doesn’t know.  This is when I figure out that it’s not so much LMR but that she wants it done a CERTAIN WAY.  Basically not just rushing into it but doing more foreplay.  So we begin to just fool around a bit and then she gets a phone call.  While on the phone I begin fingering her and making her squirm while not letting up.  Finally she tells her friend “I have to go!” and then I close the deal.

The next day we have the following text convo:

HB: Hey thanks for the ride home.  Sucks we had to say goodbye :(

Psych: No prob hun, just make sure we get to say hello again ;)

HB: Of course! I had a great time with you :) come to Austin soon

Psych: Will do!

HB: Can you do me a huge favor and I’ll make it up to you? Find me a number to a cab :)

Psych: lol and how will you make it up to me?…

HB: I will do whatever you want haha (within reason) :)

Psych: hmmm naughty teacher outfit?

HB: Done! Let me know when you head to Texas and I’ll have it ready!

Psych: Deal (give her number)

HB: Thanks so much babe! What kind of teacher outfit would you like?

Psych: hmmm hair in bun, button down shirt with push up bra, glasses, and skirt…

HB: Ok done.  It will be waiting on you!

Hope this helps,

Psych

(To read more about me visit my web page at www.puatraining.com/psych and to contact me for any one on one work or bootcamps email me at psych@puatraining.com)

In my last LR I talked about the benefits of social circle game which I truly feel is the best way to go about things.  However I wanted to cover the other end of the spectrum namely being SNL (same night lays).  While there’s nothing wrong with it I’ve never been a huge fan for a few reasons.  The quality of girls you get are usually not as good, there’s no real connection which makes the s*x kind of meaningless (at least to me), and if this is what the majority of your game consists of you’ll need to go out hunting every night and busting your ass to make it happen no matter how good you get.

This night started with me doing a one on one with my student.  While doing a bootcamp I always demo of course but never long enough or seriously enough to get a girl all the way into bed because it’d take too much time away from helping my student’s game.  However once the bootcamp work is officially done it becomes another matter and then Psych can go to town.  I decided to stay out with my student this night and just wing him to see what would happen.  We go out to a popular lounge in the area where I meet up with a good friend of mine who’s actually an instructor for another company and specializes in SNL game.  I figure “when in rome” and the hunt begins for which girl I’ll be taking home with me tonight.

Now the first thing to realize when it comes to SNL game is that it kind of takes a “PUA radar”.  The thing is that not every girl, regardless of how good your game is, will be the kind to sleep with you that night.  Even if she is often times logistics wont allow it.  What this means is that you need a radar to quickly determine which girl seems like a SNL girl and then quickly figuring out logistics to see if they can be handled in set otherwise you waste your time.  At first it didn’t seem like there were any real possibilities, it was a small bar lounge with only about 50 people and only half being women.  However when the other guys began giving up it only motivated me more to make something happen.  As I’m making my rounds I’m keeping an eye out for two things, somewhat buzzed and sexual.  I see a large set with giggling girls who are slightly high energy, probably buzzed so one out of two is there.  I go open the set and immediately one of the girls touches my chest and gets close to my face when talking to me…bingo on the sexuality.

Once you spot your SNL girl there’s a few things that always need to happen.  The sexual tension must be built really high, strong frame control needs to take place, you MUST know exactly how to lead the set and handle all obstacles and logistics to get her to your place, and also have the ability to handle any shit/congruence tests she throws at you.

As soon as she touches my chest and gets close my hands go around her waist and I bring her in close to show dominance.  I begin using AFC Adam’s formula of comfort and breaking rapport while keeping my nonverbals (such as eye contact) extremely sexual.  What resulted was fluff talk with slight sexual innuendos to break rapport and physical take aways and turns.  However my hands never left her side.  I then began leading the pick up by isolating her to get a drink of water with me.  This is what I call a visual isolation since the group can still see where you both are, from here I told her we should sit somewhere to drink since my feet hurt and brought her into full isolation away from the friends.

Once seated the qualification and sexual escalation begins.  The kino is massively turned up with my arm wrapped around her while I stroke her leg and thigh qualifying her on topics that are either sexual in nature or lead to sexual frames (for example being fun and wild).  From here I go for the kiss and get it and from experience I’m pretty sure that I can close as long as logistics can be handled.  However it’s always around this point that the shit tests begin to come.  With this particular set I handled the logistics by being completely unnreactive and extremely ballsy/confident with my sexuality.  For example at one point the girl said “I think I’m going to have to go back with my friends tonight” which implies she IS thinking of a SNL so I respond “And I think that you’re going to have to come home with me so I can ravage that body of yours”.  The shit tests comes again with “Hahahaha no I don’t think so…”  which I reply “We’ll see…before this night is done I’m going to be f@%king the s%&t out of you.”  Her face was priceless here and she was literally speechless but eventually just settled for a disbelieving smile.

As the night progressed I’d amp up sexuality in more ways by grabbing her breasts, kissing her neck, and anything else that went with the moment.  It became to much for her though and she went to the bathroom.  While doing that I opened her group of friends and began winning them over so that when she came back she saw me in set with them.  Not knowing what to do she eventually grabbed one of her girlfriends and went over to the bar.  Eventually her other friends joined her and I was left chilling with my student.  What then took place was a huge test…who would break first me or her?  Often a massive hidden test that needs to be placed is the girl seeing that you have the ability to walk away and when this test is given it’s usually the last one.  I remained with my student until finally the girls friend came over to tell me my girl wanted me to come over there.  Many community guys I know would mess up here as well and refuse in order to stay “alpha” but the act of her sending her friend over already means I won…I just need to accept her invitation.

I go over and join her and flirt some more.  She brings up the fact that she has to leave with her friends so I tell her that she’s an adult and can do whatever she’d like.  I flat out refused to be needy or try and manipulate her into coming with me.  I knew she wanted me and all I had to do was make sure I didn’t chase in the slightest, just keep her being aroused and let it be her choice what she wants to do.  I saw the raging battle inside her head and figured she might need SOME plausible deniability to not feel like a slut.  Because of this I suggested we instead just go get something to eat and her friends could even come to (if they don’t perfect and if they do I can always bounce her to my place after).  Her friends weren’t hungry so this was a no go.  Sometimes things don’t work out though and that’s when you need a plan B.  I tell her that my friend’s place (the student’s) has an amazing view and she should come see which she agrees to along with her cousin.  I pull up my car and take her, her cousin, and my student to the student’s apartment.  Once we get in there sex is just implied.  Everyone gets some water, I tell the girl “hey come check out my room”, and then throw her on the bed.  I always tell people this but just like some PUAs assume attraction I assume sex.  The clothes come off easily and she begins giving me head.  From there I put on a condom and get on top of her to close the deal.  I was told later that my student was talking to the cousin and heard the banging of the bed against the wall.  When the cousin asked what it was he replied…must be construction work.

Hope this helps,

Psych

(To read more about me visit my web page at www.puatraining.com/psych and to contact me for any one on one work or bootcamps email me at psych@puatraining.com)