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This week I am going to introduce a core aspect of my dancefloor game which is push and pull.I know you most probably have encountered this concept before in conversational skills, however I’m going to discuss how this permeates into the world of dancefloor game and how it can lead to solid results on the dancefloor.

Let us for a moment consider the following scenario: Guy is dancing in a nightclub, seems confident, is enjoying himself and is getting a considerable amount of attention from the opposite s&x (so far so good). At some point he is approached by a HB at which point he immediately begins grinding with her, after a few moments she stops dancing with him and a) leaves the dancefloor or b) goes back to dancing alone or with her friends.

I have seen this scenario played out over and over again in club situations and I’m sure you’ve seen it yourselves or have actually been involved in this type of interaction. Occassionaly this can work, but mostly it’s just luck of the draw and must be avoided like the plague! Rule number 1: If you ever see a friend acting in this way, slap him immediately – if you are doing this then I reccommend that your friends slaps you and if I’m in the vicinity I’d be happy to oblige! I constantly get students asking me how to grind, and in my opinion the grind is overrated and when performed too soon or too often, can be downright sleazy… Now don’t get me wrong there is an appropriate point at which to grind if you really want to, however DO NOT BEGIN TO GRIND AS SOON AS YOU ARE SHOWN AN IOI.

The Push and Pull on the dancefloor works in the following fashion: once you are dancing with the girl maintain a little more than half an arm’s-length distance between you and make sure that there is a playful/cheeky vibe about the whole interaction. You can do this by poking her (not too hard) in the ribs, dancing around her (you get the picture). Occasionally pull her in close (if you want grind BRIEFLY, then do so) and as you feel things heating up, push her away again and continue with the playful vibe. Repeat this several times and you will literally feel the sexual tension building-up in the air – at this point you can go for the kiss close, move to another quiet area of the club (instant date) or whatever ‘feels right’ to you at the time. I’ve used this technique a lot and have had girls literally wrestle me into a corner and begin making-out with me!

Experiment, enjoy and let me know how this works for you…

-P-

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My number 1 rule when it comes to dancing is “Dance to express, not to impress”.

On nights-out I’ve seen many dancers who are dancing for others and not themselves, I can pick these guys/girls out from a mile-off. They have this “look at me” kind of attitude and eventhough they may be dancing quite well, they tend to generally annoy others – I’m sure you’ve encountered these types before.

On the other hand you have the guy that’s just out to have a good time and is having great fun dancing and not caring about what others think. You’ll notice that he naturally attracts attention from fellow clubbers. This guy will often dance with more than one partner throughout the night and is extremely popular.

Always bear this rule in mind and it will take your dancefloor game up a notch, you’ll also have a lot more fun and meet a lot more people when you’re out clubbing…

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Above is a step -by-step run through of my basic spin, it’s a very simple but effective move wich can be used as a transition move or simply on it’s own. Simple as it seems, when it’s executed well it can become a strong part of your repertoire, setting you apart from the ‘one-size-fits-all’ guys who a)don’t dance or b) do that same swaying/swinging arms movement.

Step 1: Point the toes of your dominant foot (in this case my right foot) into the direction which you intend to spin

Step 2: Step into the spin on your toes, angling your foot as far into the direction that you intend to spin as possible (notice the build of tension in your hips)

STEPS 3 THROUGH 5 MUST BE CARRIED OUT SEAMLESSY TO ENSURE A SMOOTH SPIN

Step 3: Release the tension in your hips and step down hard on to the heel of your dominant foot (right foot) whilst simultaneously stepping onto the toes of your left foot – causing you to begin spinning.

Step 4: You will now reach the point at which yur legs are ’scissored’ with your dominant foot at the rear

Step 5: Quickly whip your dominant foot forward and place it parallell to your left foot to end the move. It’s very mportant to step firmly at this point because this movement will kill the momentum of the spin and allow you to stop.

When executed correctly this looks super-smooth and will definitely set you apart from the bunch. I suggest that you practice a few times daily and you should be able to get it down within a few days… Good luck!

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