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Matthias was one of my very frist students and one of the most fun guys to train. He is always willing to listen to what you have to say and he was determined to overcome his AA and learn the art of Approaching Beautiful Women.

Some students request to be filmed so they can watch over their approaches and see themselves in action from another point of view, it is very healpful and i would recommend you have some of your approaches filmed! It’s the kind of thing you can look back at when you are older and settled down… will remind you of the good times ;)

Matt stayed with me in central London for 3 weeks and we did nothing but Approach women! We also did a bit of traveling and went and stayed down at Bournemouth beach which is always a good time :)

If you want to get good you need to approach loads! This is the best thing for you, just get out there and do it. i have given a few tips in videos and will continue to give more

richardm@puatraining.com

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I’m not one for spending lots of time writting stuff to help you improve your game, i prefer doing what i’m good at and that just happens to be approaching beautiful women (which i can teach you to do live infield). One of the best ways for you to learn from me is to watch and listen to what i do and say.

You’ll notice i hardly use anything impressive, i don’t really say anything smart but i do manage to telegraph the right things to make Jill feel comfortable and attracted to me. What i would say to you guys is “KEEP APPROACHING AND BE PERSISTENT!”

Don’t give up if she doesn’t smile and give you massive ioi’s… she wont! Just keep talking and be interested in her as a person rather than being selfish and talking all the time. Give her a chance to talk! If she is a little hesitent you might need to help her but conversation is like tennis, it takes 2 to play.

Develop the habit of friendly persistence, girls like a guy who knows what he wants and knows how to get it… girls are not attracted to guys who give up at the first sign of lack of her interest. Be more persuasive

Good luck, but like i said, i’m not great at writting so probably best if you learn by watching

you can email me richardmacilwaine@gmail.com to find out about 121’s and other such things ;)

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Hi guys,

Opening is the most important part of the game that you need to be able to do, comfortably and confidently. I have created this video to give you some ideas on how to be able to approach more successfully. Hope you enjoy it

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Hi guys,

Just wanted to talk about “Attitude,”  as the way you think about people and the women you are approaching will affect the way you feel and the energy you project towards the girls and your overall performance. This is important because if you can make people around you feel good… they will love your company and want you  around more.

Here are a few thoughts i have about women and people and these are the thoughts that enable me to attract women quickly and easily…

1. Think of the target you are about to approach as if she is your best friend and you have known here for ages.

If you do this and you are able to trick yourslef into thinking/pretending that she is a friend, you will feel more relaxed and comfortable… why? Because you feel relaxed and comfortable around your girl friends don’t you.

2. You are making her day better! The point of every approach is to make her smile, make her enjoy her day just a little more and make her like being approached by guys.

3. Remember that she is just trying to find happiness and love just like everyone else so don’t judge her! Be nice towards her and treat her with respect but don’t treat her like a porcelain dole! Treat her like you treat your friends and talk to her the same way.

4. Be interested in who she is, what she enjoys doing and reward her for being nice and talking to you. When she tells you something, repeat it back to her (so she knows you are listening to her)

5. Treat her the way you would like to be treated, imagine you were in her shoes… how would you like to be approached by someone?

6. Talk to all the girls even if they don’t look like models, talk to every single person you have an opportunity to talk to and watch your people skills grow. Talk to the girl at the counter, have a laugh with the bus driver, get into the habit of being a guy who overflows with positive thoughts towards others.

You will be happier for it… when was the last time you did a nice thing for a complete stranger? Make it a habit every day to do at least one nice thing for a random stranger and watch how it make you feel good about yourself.

Keep approaching and I’m always here if you want some personalised help. 121’s are the best way to improve your game and there are lots of trainers on the site to pick from ;)

Seriously, if you want to make massive progress today and not in the months to come, get some personalised help and ask your coach exactly what you want to learn and get him to demo!

Keep approaching!

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One of the basic elements to meeting hot girls and attracting them is to find them!

It sounds simple but whenever I am out with a student, I am completely suprised at his inability to find targets… or maybe he sees them and doesn’t feel like approaching them, this is more like it.

You are a hunter and you have to go out find these women. When you go into a bar, quickly move around and work out if there are any potential targets, if not… go somewhere else where they might be found.

Keep looking until you find them and when you do… you guessed it, you APPROACH them in a friendly and attractive way.

If you’re in a busy shopping mall, walk around and before you go into a particular room, stand at the door and have a quick look around to save yourself time. If there are one or two potential targets then go into that room. If not… turn around and find another room.

Confidently Approaching women is just about choosing to and then sticking to it.It’s like crossing the road when a car is coming… if you’re like me you don’t like waiting, you have a look to see if you think you can get across safely even if a bit risky, and once you deside to cross the road YOU GO FOR IT AND YOU DON’T LOOK BACK!!! You don’t stop half way and look to see if you still think you can make it across the road do you? NO! If you did guess what would happen… you would get run over.

Once you decide to do it… GO FOR IT UNTIL COMPLETION OF THE TASK.

I know what it’s like having fear but i tell you that i will NEVER experience any Approach Anxiety ever again in my life and i demonstrate this in my videos and in real life on boot camps and other live events.

It’s a choice I made 3 years ago. I said, i will never wait for the right time again, I will Always Approach Women I am Attracted to and that is how i roll.

Students I train also get over their AA in a matter of minutes because of the Energy and attitude they pick up from me… it’s addictive, it’s powerful and once you know how it feels you will be able to replicate this feeling and it’s this feeling that enables me to consistently attract Beautiful women in a natural, smooth and affectionate way.

Women love to be around me because I know how to make them feel sooooo good. In fact I know how to make people feel good and I know how to make them feel confident.

Alright, thats a bit for today, hope your enjoying the videos. The Approaching HB’s Day Game DVD that i have been working on for a while is almost ready for ya. ;)

Richard Macilwaine

click here to watch a few clips from the DVD coming soon

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Approaching HB’s Day Game DVD is on it’s way. It has been nearly 6 months in the making and here are a few videos that are included in the DVD and there is sooooo much more to it ;)

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The main thing that 90% of guys need to get over and start doing more is simply Approaching!!!

Before you will have the confidence to Approach a stunning girl surrounded by her friends, try talking to people you meet every day. Did you smile and make a connection with the girl who served you dinner, coffee or anything else.

Are you talking to people who aren’t HB’s? This is the easiest way to get over the fear of Approaching.

Start small and gradually improve. That is the way forward.

If you become a more friendly and talkative person in your every day life you will be able to game SHB’s like I do every day!

I am currently creating a DVD where I approach and close SHB’s… becasue I can. If you make the effort to speak to people every day, you will one day game and close SHB’s in the most natural and smooth way possible.

Watch out for my “Approaching SHB’s DVD coming soon.”

I have many Approaches on the Vault that are worth watching… they are about 2 years old now (October 2008). Watch these videos, watch how I interact with these girls and try to copy the smooth and natural vibe i have going on.

I am uploading videos to youtube right now, check them out…

All the best

Richard Macilwaine

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Hey guys, here is an old video I used to have on youtube… I am currently working on creating an “Approaching HB’s Day Game DVD!” which will be ready by November. I am just going through the old videos I have made in the past and thought you might like to see them.

Optimal Seduction State

Click on the link above to see the short video

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Communication is Everything!

The way you are able to communicate affects your ability to get ahead in life.

Communication with yourself and with other people are both key ingredients to being happy and to exceling in life, especially if you plan on being around people. A previous student of mine seemed to be a little to relaxed for his own good, until I saw him interacting with people, especially when it came to networking. He set up an amazing partnership between a friend of his and myself where I would receive a very valuable and costly service in exchange for coaching.

My friend who was a previous client left school at the age of 14 and now at the age of 30, runs 4 or 5 businesses around the world including a few in Asia and Europe. He made his money in the stock market and he even told me how little he knew about investing. “What? You don’t know much about investing yet you made a lot of money doing it?” I was astonished and he smiled and said “Oh no, I’m not smart enough for that,” (or something to that effect) At this stage I had to ask how he made all his money?

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Approaching

Day game, Night Game, Friendly, Direct, Subtle, Drunk, DHV, Social Proof, Confident, Telegraphing interest, shy, introverted, personal, impersonal, work related, comforting, helping, complimenting and the list goes on…

Bars, clubs, streets, shopping malls, cafe’s, busses, trains, parks, grocery stores… There are billions of places and ways to approach and have great interactions with women that lead to bonding and relationships.

This is my way of meeting people… I walk up to them wherever they may be and I say or do a few things that causes them to respond to me in a positive way. They like me instantly, if they don’t then I keep changing my strategy until i do something that  they do like or if I have calculated that the subject is not worth my time or that the subject is no longer worth pursuing I simply abandon that particular Approach.

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