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Hey guys,

As you will have seen, i spend A LOT of time out in the streets and in shopping malls amongst other places walking up to Attractive women, making them laugh and enjoy themselves then finding out what they enjoy doing and finally exchanging numbers with them.

This is a simple process and it WORKS!

You see, i have done over 50 thousand approaches in the last 5 years and less than 2% of the girls i meet flake, if they can’t answer because they are in class or a meeting they text me to say they can’t speak to me right now but they will call me later.

How do i manage to get hot women to want to see me again?

Just by projecting positivity and connecting on an emotional level! Yes, you have to find things in common by asking questions that give her a chance to express her interests and then you connect on that topic.

On Sunday i number closed 2 models!

I met the first one on a train (I am drawn to attractive women and I spend many hours every week finding them). I asked her if we were on the train to London which was also the train she wanted and it turned out that we were on the wrong train.

We got on the right train and connected on a very deep level. I really enjoyed talking to her but she had a boyfriend and she was a few years older than me so no biggie, i still got her number and I have just got off the phone with her. She knows what i do and things it’s really cool… most girls do.

The second girl was a German model and i met her in the same place i meet a majority of models. After soooo many approaches i can tell where people are from by the way they dress and if they’re girls by the way they look. So i walked up to this model and said “Hey, are you from Germany.”

We carried on chatting for about 10 minutes and she was on her way to meet some friends so i thought i would say good bye to her but she insisted that i meet her friends…

I meet her friends and it’s like she is parading me around like her boyfried lol

I thought shame, the poor girl is quite desperate lol

We are meeting up tonight to go salsa dancing which is my standard day 2 activity. I get to escalate touch and show her that i am a fun guy and then i will get her back to my apartment to see some photographs and then i will F close her, shower, walk her to the train station and see what my other girls are up to.

So, being friendly and connecting on some of her interests and then having some interests of your own that you are passionate about is the key to getting women to want to meet up with you.

Getting girls to want to be with you

Enjoy and keep approaching.

Richard Macilwaine

Hi guys,

Just wanted to talk about “Attitude,”  as the way you think about people and the women you are approaching will affect the way you feel and the energy you project towards the girls and your overall performance. This is important because if you can make people around you feel good… they will love your company and want you  around more.

Here are a few thoughts i have about women and people and these are the thoughts that enable me to attract women quickly and easily…

1. Think of the target you are about to approach as if she is your best friend and you have known here for ages.

If you do this and you are able to trick yourslef into thinking/pretending that she is a friend, you will feel more relaxed and comfortable… why? Because you feel relaxed and comfortable around your girl friends don’t you.

2. You are making her day better! The point of every approach is to make her smile, make her enjoy her day just a little more and make her like being approached by guys.

3. Remember that she is just trying to find happiness and love just like everyone else so don’t judge her! Be nice towards her and treat her with respect but don’t treat her like a porcelain dole! Treat her like you treat your friends and talk to her the same way.

4. Be interested in who she is, what she enjoys doing and reward her for being nice and talking to you. When she tells you something, repeat it back to her (so she knows you are listening to her)

5. Treat her the way you would like to be treated, imagine you were in her shoes… how would you like to be approached by someone?

6. Talk to all the girls even if they don’t look like models, talk to every single person you have an opportunity to talk to and watch your people skills grow. Talk to the girl at the counter, have a laugh with the bus driver, get into the habit of being a guy who overflows with positive thoughts towards others.

You will be happier for it… when was the last time you did a nice thing for a complete stranger? Make it a habit every day to do at least one nice thing for a random stranger and watch how it make you feel good about yourself.

Keep approaching and I’m always here if you want some personalised help. 121’s are the best way to improve your game and there are lots of trainers on the site to pick from

Seriously, if you want to make massive progress today and not in the months to come, get some personalised help and ask your coach exactly what you want to learn and get him to demo!

Keep approaching!

One of the basic elements to meeting hot girls and attracting them is to find them!

It sounds simple but whenever I am out with a student, I am completely suprised at his inability to find targets… or maybe he sees them and doesn’t feel like approaching them, this is more like it.

You are a hunter and you have to go out find these women. When you go into a bar, quickly move around and work out if there are any potential targets, if not… go somewhere else where they might be found.

Keep looking until you find them and when you do… you guessed it, you APPROACH them in a friendly and attractive way.

If you’re in a busy shopping mall, walk around and before you go into a particular room, stand at the door and have a quick look around to save yourself time. If there are one or two potential targets then go into that room. If not… turn around and find another room.

Confidently Approaching women is just about choosing to and then sticking to it.It’s like crossing the road when a car is coming… if you’re like me you don’t like waiting, you have a look to see if you think you can get across safely even if a bit risky, and once you deside to cross the road YOU GO FOR IT AND YOU DON’T LOOK BACK!!! You don’t stop half way and look to see if you still think you can make it across the road do you? NO! If you did guess what would happen… you would get run over.

Once you decide to do it… GO FOR IT UNTIL COMPLETION OF THE TASK.

I know what it’s like having fear but i tell you that i will NEVER experience any Approach Anxiety ever again in my life and i demonstrate this in my videos and in real life on boot camps and other live events.

It’s a choice I made 3 years ago. I said, i will never wait for the right time again, I will Always Approach Women I am Attracted to and that is how i roll.

Students I train also get over their AA in a matter of minutes because of the Energy and attitude they pick up from me… it’s addictive, it’s powerful and once you know how it feels you will be able to replicate this feeling and it’s this feeling that enables me to consistently attract Beautiful women in a natural, smooth and affectionate way.

Women love to be around me because I know how to make them feel sooooo good. In fact I know how to make people feel good and I know how to make them feel confident.

Alright, thats a bit for today, hope your enjoying the videos. The Approaching HB’s Day Game DVD that i have been working on for a while is almost ready for ya.

Richard Macilwaine

click here to watch a few clips from the DVD coming soon

Approaching HB’s Day Game DVD is on it’s way. It has been nearly 6 months in the making and here are a few videos that are included in the DVD and there is sooooo much more to it

Click here to watch the video

The main thing that 90% of guys need to get over and start doing more is simply Approaching!!!

Before you will have the confidence to Approach a stunning girl surrounded by her friends, try talking to people you meet every day. Did you smile and make a connection with the girl who served you dinner, coffee or anything else.

Are you talking to people who aren’t HB’s? This is the easiest way to get over the fear of Approaching.

Start small and gradually improve. That is the way forward.

If you become a more friendly and talkative person in your every day life you will be able to game SHB’s like I do every day!

I am currently creating a DVD where I approach and close SHB’s… becasue I can. If you make the effort to speak to people every day, you will one day game and close SHB’s in the most natural and smooth way possible.

Watch out for my “Approaching SHB’s DVD coming soon.”

I have many Approaches on the Vault that are worth watching… they are about 2 years old now (October 2008). Watch these videos, watch how I interact with these girls and try to copy the smooth and natural vibe i have going on.

I am uploading videos to youtube right now, check them out…

All the best

Richard Macilwaine

Hey guys, here is an old video I used to have on youtube… I am currently working on creating an “Approaching HB’s Day Game DVD!” which will be ready by November. I am just going through the old videos I have made in the past and thought you might like to see them.

Optimal Seduction State

Click on the link above to see the short video

Communication is Everything!

The way you are able to communicate affects your ability to get ahead in life.

Communication with yourself and with other people are both key ingredients to being happy and to exceling in life, especially if you plan on being around people. A previous student of mine seemed to be a little to relaxed for his own good, until I saw him interacting with people, especially when it came to networking. He set up an amazing partnership between a friend of his and myself where I would receive a very valuable and costly service in exchange for coaching.

My friend who was a previous client left school at the age of 14 and now at the age of 30, runs 4 or 5 businesses around the world including a few in Asia and Europe. He made his money in the stock market and he even told me how little he knew about investing. “What? You don’t know much about investing yet you made a lot of money doing it?” I was astonished and he smiled and said “Oh no, I’m not smart enough for that,” (or something to that effect) At this stage I had to ask how he made all his money?

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Approaching

Day game, Night Game, Friendly, Direct, Subtle, Drunk, DHV, Social Proof, Confident, Telegraphing interest, shy, introverted, personal, impersonal, work related, comforting, helping, complimenting and the list goes on…

Bars, clubs, streets, shopping malls, cafe’s, busses, trains, parks, grocery stores… There are billions of places and ways to approach and have great interactions with women that lead to bonding and relationships.

This is my way of meeting people… I walk up to them wherever they may be and I say or do a few things that causes them to respond to me in a positive way. They like me instantly, if they don’t then I keep changing my strategy until i do something that  they do like or if I have calculated that the subject is not worth my time or that the subject is no longer worth pursuing I simply abandon that particular Approach.

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Learn the art of small talk

Yes, it is a wonderful skill to have, to be able to talk to absolutely anyone and make a connection with them. Not only is it nice for other people but it is a nice experience for yourself. Being able to have rapport with people quickly and to be able to have a laugh is in invaluable skill to have.

Becoming a guy who can meet any girl he wants to and begin a relationship with her is a journey that has many stages and one of those stages happens to be where you become a more outgoing and talkative person. What i mean specifically is talking to random people you come across in your day to day life. Not only is this the best way to improve your conversation so you will be equipped to talk to HB’s but it will help you understand the different ways that people respond to your approaches.

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What is Rapport?

Rapport is what will get you laid!

You need to be a master of rapport if you want to get anywhere with girls. If you click, it’s on, if you don’t click… GAME OVER! How are you able to bond quickly with a girl so she feels really nice and comfortable around you?

Your intentions are the underlying factor which govern your behaviour, what you say, how you move, when you kino her etc. It’s all about what you think about yourself and what your intensions are.

Women are all different and they are all looking for different things, some are looking for an adventurous bad boy while others are looking for a friendly chilled out guy and some… in fact most are looking for a guy who is a combination of the two. You have to be able to understand the feedback she gives you when you approach and then keep changing your approach untill you do or say something that she likes. If you approach with a direct opener and see that she is slightly shy the you will need to change your strategy  QIUCKLY or she will be gone and you will have to find a new target.

Rapport is the main ingredient for girls to want to hang out with you and be nice around you. If you are uncalebrated… ie, you say something that isn’t true She WILL PICK IT UP… GAME OVER. Be honest at all times and try to tell stories from your own life and most importantly be interested in who she is and what she says to you. Far to many guys out there are caught up in thinking about what they are going to say next… This is no good.

When you’re hanging out with your guy  friends chatting about sport or whatever else you chat about, do you think of what to say to your friends next so they think you are a cool guy? I DOUBT IT. If so then you definitly need to get out and do about 100 approaches every day for a few months. Aim to make those approaches last as long as 5 minutes.

Rapport happens when people share similar thoughts, similar beliefs, similar style of dressing, similar music, similar places they live in… basically when people have things in common there will be rapport and thats it! Having things in common with a hot girl will make her feel more comfortable arond you.

So what you have to do is become agreeable with hot babes, become more understanding, be more agreeable and show them that somehow you understand them and you sympithise with them and watch how they like you a lot more. They will give their time to you and let you escalate the relationship… they will alow themselves to be taken by you!

For example, if you were on holiday in a totaly different country where there werent many people from your country ever and you just happended to meet someone else from your country maybe down at a beach or maybe in a bar. So you get talking to this person from your country and they tell yoy a story about their city… WHAT? They actually live in your city… the rapport deepens, you feel more conected with this person. So you ask where about in the City are they from… WOW they are from the same area as you. Which street do they live on they ask you. They live at the top of your road. They know all the same places as you do and they even know some of the same people you know. THIS IS RAPPORT. You are so deeply connected now. You will feel comfortable with this person because they are so much like yourself.

Isn’t that interesting… we like people who are like ourselves. To some up how you can build rapport with anyone from anywhere in the world you need to listen closely to what they say and try to connect on some of the words they use. Try to bond somehow or show that you know a little about their world and their experience.

In my live Approaching videos I demonstrate how to get rapport with really Attractive girls. I hope you have time to check them out as they will really help your game. You will be able to see exactly what I’m talking about when i say build rapport by having things in common and sometimes the things I have in common are really simple things but they are enough to make a connection with a girl. I get phone numbers and go on dates all the time with beautiful women who like me because I learnt how to connect with them emotionally using the techniques of rapport.

all the best

Richard Macilwaine