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Learn the art of small talk

Yes, it is a wonderful skill to have, to be able to talk to absolutely anyone and make a connection with them. Not only is it nice for other people but it is a nice experience for yourself. Being able to have rapport with people quickly and to be able to have a laugh is in invaluable skill to have.

Becoming a guy who can meet any girl he wants to and begin a relationship with her is a journey that has many stages and one of those stages happens to be where you become a more outgoing and talkative person. What i mean specifically is talking to random people you come across in your day to day life. Not only is this the best way to improve your conversation so you will be equipped to talk to HB’s but it will help you understand the different ways that people respond to your approaches.

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What is Rapport?

Rapport is what will get you laid!

You need to be a master of rapport if you want to get anywhere with girls. If you click, it’s on, if you don’t click… GAME OVER! How are you able to bond quickly with a girl so she feels really nice and comfortable around you?

Your intentions are the underlying factor which govern your behaviour, what you say, how you move, when you kino her etc. It’s all about what you think about yourself and what your intensions are.

Women are all different and they are all looking for different things, some are looking for an adventurous bad boy while others are looking for a friendly chilled out guy and some… in fact most are looking for a guy who is a combination of the two. You have to be able to understand the feedback she gives you when you approach and then keep changing your approach untill you do or say something that she likes. If you approach with a direct opener and see that she is slightly shy the you will need to change your strategy  QIUCKLY or she will be gone and you will have to find a new target.

Rapport is the main ingredient for girls to want to hang out with you and be nice around you. If you are uncalebrated… ie, you say something that isn’t true She WILL PICK IT UP… GAME OVER. Be honest at all times and try to tell stories from your own life and most importantly be interested in who she is and what she says to you. Far to many guys out there are caught up in thinking about what they are going to say next… This is no good.

When you’re hanging out with your guy  friends chatting about sport or whatever else you chat about, do you think of what to say to your friends next so they think you are a cool guy? I DOUBT IT. If so then you definitly need to get out and do about 100 approaches every day for a few months. Aim to make those approaches last as long as 5 minutes.

Rapport happens when people share similar thoughts, similar beliefs, similar style of dressing, similar music, similar places they live in… basically when people have things in common there will be rapport and thats it! Having things in common with a hot girl will make her feel more comfortable arond you.

So what you have to do is become agreeable with hot babes, become more understanding, be more agreeable and show them that somehow you understand them and you sympithise with them and watch how they like you a lot more. They will give their time to you and let you escalate the relationship… they will alow themselves to be taken by you!

For example, if you were on holiday in a totaly different country where there werent many people from your country ever and you just happended to meet someone else from your country maybe down at a beach or maybe in a bar. So you get talking to this person from your country and they tell yoy a story about their city… WHAT? They actually live in your city… the rapport deepens, you feel more conected with this person. So you ask where about in the City are they from… WOW they are from the same area as you. Which street do they live on they ask you. They live at the top of your road. They know all the same places as you do and they even know some of the same people you know. THIS IS RAPPORT. You are so deeply connected now. You will feel comfortable with this person because they are so much like yourself.

Isn’t that interesting… we like people who are like ourselves. To some up how you can build rapport with anyone from anywhere in the world you need to listen closely to what they say and try to connect on some of the words they use. Try to bond somehow or show that you know a little about their world and their experience.

In my live Approaching videos I demonstrate how to get rapport with really Attractive girls. I hope you have time to check them out as they will really help your game. You will be able to see exactly what I’m talking about when i say build rapport by having things in common and sometimes the things I have in common are really simple things but they are enough to make a connection with a girl. I get phone numbers and go on dates all the time with beautiful women who like me because I learnt how to connect with them emotionally using the techniques of rapport.

all the best

Richard Macilwaine

Have you been out night Gaming and found yourself walking around different venues looking for hot girls all night and not finding any that you feel are worthy of your time and energy?

Know your prey and where she likes to hang out!

You have to know what kind of girls you like meeting first of all and you have to know in which sort of way you would like to meet these hot girls. Pubs are much easier for meeting girls than bars are for example. Girls are usually dressed casually and are more themselves in pubs and quieter venues. People in pubs will be more chilled out and relaxed while girls in bars will usually be dressed up with their silly high heels on, lots of make up and bitch shields along with bad attitudes and bad breath, but this all depends on where abouts you go and on what nights you go on. If you are serious about meeting nice girls and having nice interactions that leave you feeling really good then you have to know in great detail where to go on a night out or even during the day.

I live in the center of London and i know all the top end clubs that you have to be on a guest list to get into and then the drinks are extremely over priced and the entrence fee is usually £20 per person. Yes, overpriced!!! Some of these clubs can be really cool and they can attract a lot of nice girls who also look really nice but you have to know what nights are good. If you go on the wrong night you might find yourself surounded by girls who like like prostitutes, they smoke, get really drunk and smell bad. So finding what you like and then sticking to that is very important for the success and enjoyment of your evenings out meeting hot babes who also have great personalities.

Different locations will usually attract different age groups and this is especially true for day game. Younger girls like different clothing style so it’s usually easy to find where they like hanging out. Foreigners will typically hang out in certain areas and you have to know all of the best locations all the time if you are to find your sweet heart… a girl you click with who is also really nice looking.

It’s just a matter of doing a little research and taking 10 minutes to plan your night out or at least have some ideas of where you would like to go. Make a note of those pubs, bars, clubs and maybe give them a call to find out what is happening that night at their place. Let them know you’ll be coming down and thanks for their help.

When you get to the pickup location you can have a wonder around to see what sort of girls are around and you can begin finding girls to take with you to other venues. Have a look at my article on “Social Proof” and how a night club promoter gets girls to come into clubs with him.

All the best quality girls for you all the time if you get this right

Richard Macilwaine

Ps, Have you checked out my approaching Videos where I Approach really attractive girls and I literally generate attraction and seduce women right in front of you. It’s all live and it’s all real. All the feed back has been very positive and I am convinced you will benefit a lot from watching the videos.

Here is a video where i went out for the afternoon wearing nothing but a bin bag, a pair of shoes and a little bag… The point of this exercise was to help my student become more confident at approaching. Mission acomplished!

What is confidence in approaching and dating really beautiful women and what do women mean when they say they like a guy who has confidence?

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