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Hey guys,

As you will have seen, i spend A LOT of time out in the streets and in shopping malls amongst other places walking up to Attractive women, making them laugh and enjoy themselves then finding out what they enjoy doing and finally exchanging numbers with them.

This is a simple process and it WORKS!

You see, i have done over 50 thousand approaches in the last 5 years and less than 2% of the girls i meet flake, if they can’t answer because they are in class or a meeting they text me to say they can’t speak to me right now but they will call me later.

How do i manage to get hot women to want to see me again?

Just by projecting positivity and connecting on an emotional level! Yes, you have to find things in common by asking questions that give her a chance to express her interests and then you connect on that topic.

On Sunday i number closed 2 models!

I met the first one on a train (I am drawn to attractive women and I spend many hours every week finding them). I asked her if we were on the train to London which was also the train she wanted and it turned out that we were on the wrong train.

We got on the right train and connected on a very deep level. I really enjoyed talking to her but she had a boyfriend and she was a few years older than me so no biggie, i still got her number and I have just got off the phone with her. She knows what i do and things it’s really cool… most girls do.

The second girl was a German model and i met her in the same place i meet a majority of models. After soooo many approaches i can tell where people are from by the way they dress and if they’re girls by the way they look. So i walked up to this model and said “Hey, are you from Germany.”

We carried on chatting for about 10 minutes and she was on her way to meet some friends so i thought i would say good bye to her but she insisted that i meet her friends…

I meet her friends and it’s like she is parading me around like her boyfried lol

I thought shame, the poor girl is quite desperate lol

We are meeting up tonight to go salsa dancing which is my standard day 2 activity. I get to escalate touch and show her that i am a fun guy and then i will get her back to my apartment to see some photographs and then i will F close her, shower, walk her to the train station and see what my other girls are up to.

So, being friendly and connecting on some of her interests and then having some interests of your own that you are passionate about is the key to getting women to want to meet up with you.

Getting girls to want to be with you

Enjoy and keep approaching.

Richard Macilwaine

Hi guys,

Just wanted to talk about “Attitude,”  as the way you think about people and the women you are approaching will affect the way you feel and the energy you project towards the girls and your overall performance. This is important because if you can make people around you feel good… they will love your company and want you  around more.

Here are a few thoughts i have about women and people and these are the thoughts that enable me to attract women quickly and easily…

1. Think of the target you are about to approach as if she is your best friend and you have known here for ages.

If you do this and you are able to trick yourslef into thinking/pretending that she is a friend, you will feel more relaxed and comfortable… why? Because you feel relaxed and comfortable around your girl friends don’t you.

2. You are making her day better! The point of every approach is to make her smile, make her enjoy her day just a little more and make her like being approached by guys.

3. Remember that she is just trying to find happiness and love just like everyone else so don’t judge her! Be nice towards her and treat her with respect but don’t treat her like a porcelain dole! Treat her like you treat your friends and talk to her the same way.

4. Be interested in who she is, what she enjoys doing and reward her for being nice and talking to you. When she tells you something, repeat it back to her (so she knows you are listening to her)

5. Treat her the way you would like to be treated, imagine you were in her shoes… how would you like to be approached by someone?

6. Talk to all the girls even if they don’t look like models, talk to every single person you have an opportunity to talk to and watch your people skills grow. Talk to the girl at the counter, have a laugh with the bus driver, get into the habit of being a guy who overflows with positive thoughts towards others.

You will be happier for it… when was the last time you did a nice thing for a complete stranger? Make it a habit every day to do at least one nice thing for a random stranger and watch how it make you feel good about yourself.

Keep approaching and I’m always here if you want some personalised help. 121’s are the best way to improve your game and there are lots of trainers on the site to pick from

Seriously, if you want to make massive progress today and not in the months to come, get some personalised help and ask your coach exactly what you want to learn and get him to demo!

Keep approaching!

Approaching

Day game, Night Game, Friendly, Direct, Subtle, Drunk, DHV, Social Proof, Confident, Telegraphing interest, shy, introverted, personal, impersonal, work related, comforting, helping, complimenting and the list goes on…

Bars, clubs, streets, shopping malls, cafe’s, busses, trains, parks, grocery stores… There are billions of places and ways to approach and have great interactions with women that lead to bonding and relationships.

This is my way of meeting people… I walk up to them wherever they may be and I say or do a few things that causes them to respond to me in a positive way. They like me instantly, if they don’t then I keep changing my strategy until i do something that  they do like or if I have calculated that the subject is not worth my time or that the subject is no longer worth pursuing I simply abandon that particular Approach.

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What is Rapport?

Rapport is what will get you laid!

You need to be a master of rapport if you want to get anywhere with girls. If you click, it’s on, if you don’t click… GAME OVER! How are you able to bond quickly with a girl so she feels really nice and comfortable around you?

Your intentions are the underlying factor which govern your behaviour, what you say, how you move, when you kino her etc. It’s all about what you think about yourself and what your intensions are.

Women are all different and they are all looking for different things, some are looking for an adventurous bad boy while others are looking for a friendly chilled out guy and some… in fact most are looking for a guy who is a combination of the two. You have to be able to understand the feedback she gives you when you approach and then keep changing your approach untill you do or say something that she likes. If you approach with a direct opener and see that she is slightly shy the you will need to change your strategy  QIUCKLY or she will be gone and you will have to find a new target.

Rapport is the main ingredient for girls to want to hang out with you and be nice around you. If you are uncalebrated… ie, you say something that isn’t true She WILL PICK IT UP… GAME OVER. Be honest at all times and try to tell stories from your own life and most importantly be interested in who she is and what she says to you. Far to many guys out there are caught up in thinking about what they are going to say next… This is no good.

When you’re hanging out with your guy  friends chatting about sport or whatever else you chat about, do you think of what to say to your friends next so they think you are a cool guy? I DOUBT IT. If so then you definitly need to get out and do about 100 approaches every day for a few months. Aim to make those approaches last as long as 5 minutes.

Rapport happens when people share similar thoughts, similar beliefs, similar style of dressing, similar music, similar places they live in… basically when people have things in common there will be rapport and thats it! Having things in common with a hot girl will make her feel more comfortable arond you.

So what you have to do is become agreeable with hot babes, become more understanding, be more agreeable and show them that somehow you understand them and you sympithise with them and watch how they like you a lot more. They will give their time to you and let you escalate the relationship… they will alow themselves to be taken by you!

For example, if you were on holiday in a totaly different country where there werent many people from your country ever and you just happended to meet someone else from your country maybe down at a beach or maybe in a bar. So you get talking to this person from your country and they tell yoy a story about their city… WHAT? They actually live in your city… the rapport deepens, you feel more conected with this person. So you ask where about in the City are they from… WOW they are from the same area as you. Which street do they live on they ask you. They live at the top of your road. They know all the same places as you do and they even know some of the same people you know. THIS IS RAPPORT. You are so deeply connected now. You will feel comfortable with this person because they are so much like yourself.

Isn’t that interesting… we like people who are like ourselves. To some up how you can build rapport with anyone from anywhere in the world you need to listen closely to what they say and try to connect on some of the words they use. Try to bond somehow or show that you know a little about their world and their experience.

In my live Approaching videos I demonstrate how to get rapport with really Attractive girls. I hope you have time to check them out as they will really help your game. You will be able to see exactly what I’m talking about when i say build rapport by having things in common and sometimes the things I have in common are really simple things but they are enough to make a connection with a girl. I get phone numbers and go on dates all the time with beautiful women who like me because I learnt how to connect with them emotionally using the techniques of rapport.

all the best

Richard Macilwaine