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Hey guys,

As you will have seen, i spend A LOT of time out in the streets and in shopping malls amongst other places walking up to Attractive women, making them laugh and enjoy themselves then finding out what they enjoy doing and finally exchanging numbers with them.

This is a simple process and it WORKS!

You see, i have done over 50 thousand approaches in the last 5 years and less than 2% of the girls i meet flake, if they can’t answer because they are in class or a meeting they text me to say they can’t speak to me right now but they will call me later.

How do i manage to get hot women to want to see me again?

Just by projecting positivity and connecting on an emotional level! Yes, you have to find things in common by asking questions that give her a chance to express her interests and then you connect on that topic.

On Sunday i number closed 2 models!

I met the first one on a train (I am drawn to attractive women and I spend many hours every week finding them). I asked her if we were on the train to London which was also the train she wanted and it turned out that we were on the wrong train.

We got on the right train and connected on a very deep level. I really enjoyed talking to her but she had a boyfriend and she was a few years older than me so no biggie, i still got her number and I have just got off the phone with her. She knows what i do and things it’s really cool… most girls do.

The second girl was a German model and i met her in the same place i meet a majority of models. After soooo many approaches i can tell where people are from by the way they dress and if they’re girls by the way they look. So i walked up to this model and said “Hey, are you from Germany.”

We carried on chatting for about 10 minutes and she was on her way to meet some friends so i thought i would say good bye to her but she insisted that i meet her friends…

I meet her friends and it’s like she is parading me around like her boyfried lol

I thought shame, the poor girl is quite desperate lol

We are meeting up tonight to go salsa dancing which is my standard day 2 activity. I get to escalate touch and show her that i am a fun guy and then i will get her back to my apartment to see some photographs and then i will F close her, shower, walk her to the train station and see what my other girls are up to.

So, being friendly and connecting on some of her interests and then having some interests of your own that you are passionate about is the key to getting women to want to meet up with you.

Getting girls to want to be with you

Enjoy and keep approaching.

Richard Macilwaine

Hey guys!

Firstly thanks for the response on my last blog post where you all challenge me with openers. I will be going out in field sometime this week, please keep adding openers I am interested to hear what you can challenge me with. Be sure to look out for it.

Now, my blog post today has a video again for you guys to enjoy, as I feel anyone can write posts and they are immensely useful, but sometimes it is nice to see it in action.

I had a 1on1 client last week and he told me that one of the major factors in booking me was the filmed day game approach. He really enjoyed it and said that he wanted to be taught by someone who he has seen do this stuff, and then he asked me a question – Was this your first approach of the day? And I think it is important everyone knows that it is impossible to get 100% close rate on approaches for reasons outside of your control eg. Woman is getting married tomorrow, she just got divorced, she just had an abortion, etc. The approach you guys saw was my third approach of the day. In my second approach I got a number but my camera man missed part of the opener as I jumped in really quick as I liked the look of the girl, but I didn’t think missing part of the opener was good enough to show you guys. And my first approach, the women didn’t speak English and it was tough and I could have ran non-verbally game and got a close but again not good enough to show to you guys as I wanted to demonstrate to you Gambler’s day game blueprint.

Well I just thought you guys may find it interesting to see more approaches and learn what you can from these. Comments welcome - Enjoy guys.

Stay kool and keep gaming.

Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam

hey guys

I want to touch on an important point for the starter PUAs rather than the advanced guys.

After a few hours of theory I regularly send my students out on day game. I accompany them to a bookstore, café, gallery, museum, department store, etc.

Before sending him on an approach, I remind him of the three vital elements of pick up which I would have already taught him in the theory session (a blog post for another time.) After helping him locate his target, I find my position to make sure I can not only see him but hear him too, and off he goes, beaming with high energy, high status value and a general positive frame of mind. This is a typical scenario in Waterstones bookstore, a particular store which is very large (7 floors) and where a surprisingly large amount of females seem to go to in the late afternoon.

The Student goes in to open an HB 7, who is casually browsing the “self help” section (excellent start).

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I want to look at the actual importance of an opening; the question being: is it the most important part of pick up or maybe the least?

I usually go with the latter statement but I also accept that in some situations the “opener” can be more of a major factor than in other circumstances.

However, I stick by my opinion that it is never beneficial when one is putting too much energy and emphasis into a fixed a routine, or getting hung up too much on that killer opener.

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Try this new opener that Gambler has created spontaneously:

(Motion her to take headphone out) “Hey, I wanted to ask you something, I was at home and realised that i’m bored of all my music so I wanted to try some new stuff. I decided i’d ask the next 5 people I saw with iPods what they were listening to.”

I just created a Valentine’s Day themed opener which you can use for the next few weeks! Seasonal openers are pretty thin on the ground. There are especially few for Valentine’s Day. With some slight tweaking you can make it work all year round:
“Let me ask you something…My friend had a difficult situation on Valentines Day. He basically planned to take his girlfriend for an amazing dinner, but a few days before she said she had to work. That was fine, they had a great day the day before. But, on Valentines day, he remembered he needed to cancel the table, but while his girl was at work, he had a thought. He had a friend who was single, and she was his good friend, he thought it would be a really kind thing to do to take her since she had just split up with her boyfriend and was feeling down. He tried to call his girl but she was at work and didn’t answer. He went ahead and went to dinner with this girl, when his girlfriend came home from work, she went mad! They almost split up and still might. We were talking about it and disagreed on whether he was wrong or not, what do you thinik?”

We have received this e-mail from our good friend. It’s a great opener ad you should definately try it!

“I’ve tried this one out on all sorts of HBs - including strippers - and it never fails to get them eating out of your palm.

The premise is that you (and your wing) are staying in a nearby hotel. You just arrived in town a few hours ago and as you left your room to go out you noticed that someone had pushed a note under the door. The note said (anything along the lines of): we saw you guys arrive and we think you’re really hot. Swing by room 123 later if you want to play…

So the question you put to the HB is - should we go? It doesn’t really matter what she says, you’ve already demonstrated how desirable you are. General fluff to follow-up includes asking if the HB would go if she was in your shoes. Regardless of the repsonse, follow-up with a neg about how forward she is / how you thought she would have a better sense of adventure…

Obviously, it doesn’t have to be a hotel, could be an apartment or a new neighbour.

Let me know if it gives you guys as much success as it gave us.”

“I was just sitting here thinking about taking a vacation, if you could imagine your ideal vacation spot what would it be like? (Stop and let her talk)

You know, I think its so interesting how people connect with their hopes and their desires and their daydreams, right? … I was reading this article the other day about compulsions and it got me to thinking about the difference between compulsion and anticipation.