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On February 16th, PUATraining are holding the first ever European Super Summit. We have an incredible one-day experience lined up for you. Every MPUA will put together their best stuff and pack it into their time slots. Get on board and sing up at http://www.puatraining.com/courses-prices/SuperSummit.html

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15 % of our customers are getting laid on the saturday or sunday night of the bootcamp event. We received this very interesting testimonial from one of our customers who got lucky sunday night…

On the second day of the weekend bootcamp, Beckster’s seminar was just before the field exercises.
We left to a West End bar….. dim lighting, cool vibe.. been going there for 7 years so familiar territory.
We had been in the bar for about 20 minutes and I was chatting to Beckster with my back facing the bar, discussing if I need more social proof from a pivot before I open 2 set facing towards the bar to my right. The pivot was not enthused about talking to me for game purposes so I do a mental “fuck it” and..
Hip checked HBtar immediately to my right. Then did Beckster’s eye hand cover and point routine with wide cheeky smile.
Me: “good evening girls”, in Russian
HBtar: “you’re listening to our conversation?”
Me: “I’m not going to apologise for being well travelled and recognising foreign languages.. anyway, why do you speak English with an Irish accent?”
HBtar: “Because I live in Dublin.. do I really sound Irish?”
Other comments and shit-tests followed..
Me: to HBobs “Your friend is kinda rude, we’ve been talking for about (look at watch) 3 minutes and she hasn’t even introduced herself yet”
HBtar laughs then we do introductions. Random chit-chat and then I break rapport by sending them away while I talk to Beckster.
20 mins later they come back to same area of the bar while I am talking to wing. Decide I have huge kahunas and amp up my energy with a wing in preparation for a direct kiss on HBtar. I walk obliquely to HBtar and lock eyes, but she looks away downwards at the last minute so I just approach to somewhere closer than “just friends”, say nothing, but shake my head in faked disappointment and walk away to her astonished look.
I talk with wing for 3 mins, high-5 him then repeat the approach/shake head/walk away routine (henceforth named CityKnight’s silent faked disapproval walk away routine :). This time I walk away to feel a playful slap on my bum.
I re-approached after another couple of minutes and sensed good attraction so started with gentle qualifiers about her country and progressed from there to a seated position opposite the bar next to Beckster.
Beckster assisted my kino escalation with a photo routine that encouraged her to sit on my lap and from there it was quite straightforward to kiss close. I ran Beckster’s wanted/needed and attraction/desire routine just to see the effect it would have and to build more comfort.
We escalated further, all the time with push/pull and my playful accusations of her trying to seduce me.
I was unsure how much of a threat HBobs would be, but there was a point in the conversation when HBtar was no longer looking for HBobs in the conversation pauses.
HBobs bought a round of vodka shots for us all, so I knew then that she approved of HBtar and I. HBtar offered to get more water for me from the bar but the ever-diminishing AFC in me went to the bar with her and bought a couple more vodka shots.
We sat back down and the music stopped/lights on shortly after. HBobs was trying to bounce us to Movida but I said “You’ll have fun there. Take my number so that you know who your friend will be with tonight.” She declined taking my number, but the course had been plotted.
HBtar mentioned “taxi” in something she said outside, but I said, “So you’ve probably had a tour of Central London, but this one will be different - CityKnight’s tour of London will have all the places relevant to me and cool things that have happened” So walked for about 20 mins through W1 back to the hotel.
Went in to find the room hadn’t been made up, so asked if she wanted tea, then went to the bathroom and asked her to make the lighting more romantic.
She then had a shower, came back and f-close with no lmr.
Didn’t take her number in the morning - she wasn’t very responsive and seemed remorseful about cheating on her boyfriend.
It was great to learn something during the day, then put it into practise that very evening. It’s so much better to use skill rather than relying on “getting lucky”.
Thanks to the PUAtraining.com guys and particularly Beckster for helping show a more extrovert side of my personality that I didn’t know about.
To all the guys on the course, good luck on this journey of self-evolution you have embarked on
CityKnight

The Rules of Seduction is a new Channel 4 show that I was invited, as Europe’s top seduction tutor, to appear in.
At first I was sceptical- could we change someone so quickly from starting off not being able to handle eye contact?!

But having finished filming the show and training our guy Ian I’m convinced this will be amazing viewing.

I trained your average guy from not being able to pull to being a seduction master- watch out for this programme as it’ll be very useful to see first-hand how someone can change so quickly from being an AFC to having girls he wants within minutes of meeting them: The Rules of Seduction have been re-written!

The Rules of Seduction will be aired on Channel 4 on Friday December 7th at 7:30pm.

On Thursday 15th November, we held the launch for my book The Natural Art of Seduction at the Borders store on Oxord Street.

For those of you who missed it, it was a fantastic event and we had alot of fun with the store being turned into a mini-Workshop venue!

I signed books for budding fans and gave a speech on the book, the company and how things are going to evolve.

Grab your own copy from any good bookshops or via Amazon (if you’re not based in the UK click here)

What some of you might not know is that our very own Master Trainer Kezia is also a budding musician.

She writes, edits and pretty much does everything herself to develop her music which is all about her original take on the world.

Her new video for a track called Fermez Les Yeux (that’s “Close Your Eyes”) featuring on her upcoming album, Little Bird has just been released:

You can find out more about Kezia’s artistic side at www.myspace.com/keziamusic

Booking your very own 1On1 Training session with Kezia couldn’t be easier: if you want a (real!) female opinion from a woman who’s seen it all you can book your session at http://www.puatraining.com/one-on-one-trainers.html

Mark this date…

**Thursday, September 27th at 12 PM eastern standard time, US **

That’s when the doors swing open for the new PUA Training Home Study System.

When you register, you’re immediately going to get the ebook, the inner game belief shift workbook program, and the Advanced PUA Encyclopedia to go through.

You’ll also receive all of the information you’re going to need to get in on the 6 live coaching calls.

More on all of this tomorrow

Until then…check out: The Countdown

I would probably say my Approach anxiety was much worse than average, my fear was paralysing and I just couldn’t get past it. Now I have found a way to get past it slowly but surely. Taking small small steps. I’m all for faking it til you make it, but for some people they just cant get past that. So Ive created a list after much experimenting to see what set off my AA the least. After I do each one of these things for a certain time I got bored doing it all the time, that was my cue to move it up a notch.

1.Go to a Starbucks, or any coffee shop when it isn’t too busy. You’ll notice people seem to hug the windows and walls, noone wants to be the guy sitting right in the middle on their own. Sit down and notice how many people don’t actually care that you feel uncomfortable.

FRAME: Anyone looking at you is envious of your confidence.

2.Walk down the street, you can do this with your headphones in or whatever, and hold the eye contact of every girl until they look away. You can do this in bars and restaurants too.

FRAME: Remember if they hold it they are interested, if they don’t then they are still interested but don’t have the confidence to approach you.

3.Walk down the street, hold the eye contact of every girl and then say “Hi”, if they hold your eye contact pull a stupid face, stick your tongue out or something. When I started doing this the buzz was similar to what I got from approaching.

FRAME: If they don’t laugh they are shy or aren’t interesting enough for you to be socialising with, think about it.

4.After they have laughed or reacted at all to your silly face or whatever, go over/stop them and start talking to them.

FRAME: they already have a good opinion of you, you have nothing to lose, its very difficult to change a girls first impression of you.

5.Buy the PUAtraining e-book and Approach confidence CD, the book will tell you what to do next and the Approach confidence CD should be listened to on repeat at night, every other night. It strips the layers of anxiety away like an onion until you are left with a little quivering blob which you can ignore.

A friend of mine recently pulled a very hot girl.
She is the most attractive girl he’s even number closed.
He met her in a club, saw her for a date, everything was cool. He had another date with her, and he thought he made some mistakes.
Then disaster struck, he called, she didn’t answer, she didn’t call back and hours had passed, he thought she’d gone off him and that was that.
My thoughts were this: You meet the girl and close her, that means she likes certain things about you. Maybe you were cocky and funny, maybe you were sweet, whatever. The problem is that when a guy falls for a girl or puts too much pressure on the situation, he changes. He stops doing the things that made her fall for him initially, the attraction disappears and then he’s finished.
So, the advice to anyone who finds this situation familar is this: Think about what the girl liked about you when you first met her and give her more of this.
Oh yeah, the end of the story? It’s all cool, she had a legitimate excuse and is now chasing him.

Guys, do this stuff, but there is much more you can do to keep a girl interested, without being a jerk.

The number of PUA-inspired TV shows could be counted on two (preferably middle) fingers. Now, with The Pick Up Artist on VH1 with Mystery, we have our first series about this area and can now use another of our fingers!

This is good for pick up businesses. Think about it, why should stuff like NLP, body building, or skateboarding be bigger business? 50% of the population need this stuff at some point in their life. But the number of people that have taken live events is absolutely tiny. The amount of people that know that this is an area you can work on is absolutely tiny.
However, I do understand that some people might be concerned about this, in fact the reason i’m writing this post is because I just received this message:

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Gambler,
I have to say I really enjoy reading the posts and learning from the whole community. I’m sure that you’re aware of Mystery’s show on VH1 called The Pick Up Artist and I’m a little concerned that these methods are being given away too easily to just anyone. I’m curious on your thoughts on how the commercialization of the community will affect the Game of guys such as myself who have just begun to learning the methods by reading and studying them.

Thanks,
Mike
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So, if more people know about Pickup, that means:
1. girls will be resistant to what we do.
2. There will be much more competition for the girls, it’ll be harder to have an edge. Plus if we have a girlfriend/wife, she’ll be stolen and we’ll be mercilessly rooted out of existence!

It’s a view I used to have when I was starting out. I kept my David Deangelo stuff secret. “What are you listening to?” guys would ask and i’d always say nothing. I was scared that if others got the knowledge it would spread like wildfire and all these guys would overtake me. Now, from my new position as MPUA and boss of a seduction company, my realisations are as follows:

1. The average guy reading The Game, reading this post, or watching a TV show about pick up artists will do nothing.
-A small percentage of them will look online and find some seduction sites (like this one!)
-A small percentage of this group will take the time to read these sites and not just dismiss them.
-A small percentage of this smaller group will get some free info and try it out.
-A tiny percentage will buy products that enable them to sit at home and become great with women by sitting on their ass - newsflash: it won’t happen, you need to talk to girls, that’s why our first product is all about curing Approach Anxiety.
-An infintesimal percentage will sign up for a live event or figure things out for themselves.

The final group is the group to worry about. But it is always going to be less than .01% of the male population. If 5% of the people in the country watch a TV show, and half of those are males, and a generous 20% of those males look at a site. I can tell you that by my conversion rates - visitors/sales, that you will not see many guys at all that actually do anything about it.

Lots of people reading this blog have either done a training, or thought about it. Most of you can afford it. Why haven’t you done it, or why did you take so long? Let’s see, Fear of uncertainty? Fear of making a huge change in your life? Or maybe the one I had:

Fear of trying to make yourself better. Failing, and being in the same position as before, but without even the PROSPECT of being better?

There are many people that have had entrepreneurial ideas. How many actually start a business?
There are many people that live somewhere crappy and want to move, how many actually move?

It takes balls, it takes a lot. If you want to be a Pick Up Artist, and you actually follow-through on that dream, you will be one of a select few.

This is what I now know and you’ll know it too if you walk the same road that I did! The question to ask yourself is do you want to be good with women. Great. How badly?

PS, the girls will only get wise if you are being unnatural and using canned routines that everyone else does. No one will ever think i’m a pick up artist from watching me, they’ll just think i’m damn good. The worst thing you can do is learn the most common stuff - the stuff in the game, and the stuff on this show. Learn natural game like I teach, and unique routines like Beckster teaches and you’ll be under the radar enough. For more on unnatural vs natual, see my below post.