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She writes, edits and pretty much does everything herself to develop her music which is all about her original take on the world.

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**Thursday, September 27th at 12 PM eastern standard time, US **

That’s when the doors swing open for the new PUA Training Home Study System.

When you register, you’re immediately going to get the ebook, the inner game belief shift workbook program, and the Advanced PUA Encyclopedia to go through.

You’ll also receive all of the information you’re going to need to get in on the 6 live coaching calls.

More on all of this tomorrow

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I would probably say my Approach anxiety was much worse than average, my fear was paralysing and I just couldn’t get past it. Now I have found a way to get past it slowly but surely. Taking small small steps. I’m all for faking it til you make it, but for some people they just cant get past that. So Ive created a list after much experimenting to see what set off my AA the least. After I do each one of these things for a certain time I got bored doing it all the time, that was my cue to move it up a notch.

1.Go to a Starbucks, or any coffee shop when it isn’t too busy. You’ll notice people seem to hug the windows and walls, noone wants to be the guy sitting right in the middle on their own. Sit down and notice how many people don’t actually care that you feel uncomfortable.

FRAME: Anyone looking at you is envious of your confidence.

2.Walk down the street, you can do this with your headphones in or whatever, and hold the eye contact of every girl until they look away. You can do this in bars and restaurants too.

FRAME: Remember if they hold it they are interested, if they don’t then they are still interested but don’t have the confidence to approach you.

3.Walk down the street, hold the eye contact of every girl and then say “Hi”, if they hold your eye contact pull a stupid face, stick your tongue out or something. When I started doing this the buzz was similar to what I got from approaching.

FRAME: If they don’t laugh they are shy or aren’t interesting enough for you to be socialising with, think about it.

4.After they have laughed or reacted at all to your silly face or whatever, go over/stop them and start talking to them.

FRAME: they already have a good opinion of you, you have nothing to lose, its very difficult to change a girls first impression of you.

5.Buy the PUAtraining e-book and Approach confidence CD, the book will tell you what to do next and the Approach confidence CD should be listened to on repeat at night, every other night. It strips the layers of anxiety away like an onion until you are left with a little quivering blob which you can ignore.

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A friend of mine recently pulled a very hot girl.
She is the most attractive girl he’s even number closed.
He met her in a club, saw her for a date, everything was cool. He had another date with her, and he thought he made some mistakes.
Then disaster struck, he called, she didn’t answer, she didn’t call back and hours had passed, he thought she’d gone off him and that was that.
My thoughts were this: You meet the girl and close her, that means she likes certain things about you. Maybe you were cocky and funny, maybe you were sweet, whatever. The problem is that when a guy falls for a girl or puts too much pressure on the situation, he changes. He stops doing the things that made her fall for him initially, the attraction disappears and then he’s finished.
So, the advice to anyone who finds this situation familar is this: Think about what the girl liked about you when you first met her and give her more of this.
Oh yeah, the end of the story? It’s all cool, she had a legitimate excuse and is now chasing him.

Guys, do this stuff, but there is much more you can do to keep a girl interested, without being a jerk.

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The number of PUA-inspired TV shows could be counted on two (preferably middle) fingers. Now, with The Pick Up Artist on VH1 with Mystery, we have our first series about this area and can now use another of our fingers!

This is good for pick up businesses. Think about it, why should stuff like NLP, body building, or skateboarding be bigger business? 50% of the population need this stuff at some point in their life. But the number of people that have taken live events is absolutely tiny. The amount of people that know that this is an area you can work on is absolutely tiny.
However, I do understand that some people might be concerned about this, in fact the reason i’m writing this post is because I just received this message:

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Gambler,
I have to say I really enjoy reading the posts and learning from the whole community. I’m sure that you’re aware of Mystery’s show on VH1 called The Pick Up Artist and I’m a little concerned that these methods are being given away too easily to just anyone. I’m curious on your thoughts on how the commercialization of the community will affect the Game of guys such as myself who have just begun to learning the methods by reading and studying them.

Thanks,
Mike
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So, if more people know about Pickup, that means:
1. girls will be resistant to what we do.
2. There will be much more competition for the girls, it’ll be harder to have an edge. Plus if we have a girlfriend/wife, she’ll be stolen and we’ll be mercilessly rooted out of existence!

It’s a view I used to have when I was starting out. I kept my David Deangelo stuff secret. “What are you listening to?” guys would ask and i’d always say nothing. I was scared that if others got the knowledge it would spread like wildfire and all these guys would overtake me. Now, from my new position as MPUA and boss of a seduction company, my realisations are as follows:

1. The average guy reading The Game, reading this post, or watching a TV show about pick up artists will do nothing.
-A small percentage of them will look online and find some seduction sites (like this one!)
-A small percentage of this group will take the time to read these sites and not just dismiss them.
-A small percentage of this smaller group will get some free info and try it out.
-A tiny percentage will buy products that enable them to sit at home and become great with women by sitting on their ass – newsflash: it won’t happen, you need to talk to girls, that’s why our first product is all about curing Approach Anxiety.
-An infintesimal percentage will sign up for a live event or figure things out for themselves.

The final group is the group to worry about. But it is always going to be less than .01% of the male population. If 5% of the people in the country watch a TV show, and half of those are males, and a generous 20% of those males look at a site. I can tell you that by my conversion rates – visitors/sales, that you will not see many guys at all that actually do anything about it.

Lots of people reading this blog have either done a training, or thought about it. Most of you can afford it. Why haven’t you done it, or why did you take so long? Let’s see, Fear of uncertainty? Fear of making a huge change in your life? Or maybe the one I had:

Fear of trying to make yourself better. Failing, and being in the same position as before, but without even the PROSPECT of being better?

There are many people that have had entrepreneurial ideas. How many actually start a business?
There are many people that live somewhere crappy and want to move, how many actually move?

It takes balls, it takes a lot. If you want to be a Pick Up Artist, and you actually follow-through on that dream, you will be one of a select few.

This is what I now know and you’ll know it too if you walk the same road that I did! The question to ask yourself is do you want to be good with women. Great. How badly?

PS, the girls will only get wise if you are being unnatural and using canned routines that everyone else does. No one will ever think i’m a pick up artist from watching me, they’ll just think i’m damn good. The worst thing you can do is learn the most common stuff – the stuff in the game, and the stuff on this show. Learn natural game like I teach, and unique routines like Beckster teaches and you’ll be under the radar enough. For more on unnatural vs natual, see my below post.

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Hey Guys,

I know I just sent you a special report, and that I normally only
send them about once a month when there is just a tonne of news I haven’t
told you about, but this is pretty urgent…and i’ll make it brief:

I’ve just met with a TV company who want to make a show about us!
They want to find a student, someone who will be trained by us and
all the top PUAs in the world. This is a package that would have a
value in the tens of thousands of dollars but will cost nothing.
Only one guy will be chosen. This is what we need:

-Someone who lives in or near London
-Someone who is not part of the community (you don’t post on forums much or at all)
-Someone who is between 18 and 35
-Someone who is pretty bad with girls.
-Someone who is prepared to be on a one-off documentary on TV.

You also need a valid passport and be willing to travel to the US.
If this could be you, please send an email to me: gambler@puatraining.com or by using the “contact us” page of the website.
All i need is:
-a picture
-a short paragraph with your background info (what you do, age, etc)
and your current love life situation.

If you know someone who would be good who isn’t getting this message,
please forward it to them.

The whole show is about turning this guy from a dork to a stud in an
accellerated time frame, basically it’s guaranteed that you’ll
be fantastic by the end of it.

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After meeting nearly 400 customers, it’s become possible to categorise guys into a number of sticking points. They will either have one or many, and luckily we have a method of getting over each one. The common sticking points are:

1. Fear of the approach.
2. Run out of things to say and get stuck conversationally.
3. Get into a long conversation and don’t know how to close.
4. Get numbers but they flake.
5. Get dates and girls don’t want to see them again after first one.
6. Don’t know how to escalate physically.
7. Girls just want to be friends.

And the answers to these are:

1. Desensitisation, giving content, confidence boosting, framing the
situation differently, motivation strategies.
2. Impro exercises and giving content.
3. Verbally leading into a number or kiss close.
4. Solid number closing, text game, phone game.
5. Rapport, day-2 system, status.
6. Sexual tension, verbal and non-verbal sexual escalation.
7. Sexual escalation, prizing.

Of course, every individual is different and it’s bad to categorise guys like that, but that’s basically it. I know that I had each of the 7 problems when I started out and each of them are relatively easy to overcome given focused effort.

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Recently, I’ve started going to upmarket venues. I’ve met lots of guys in there who will happily spend ?1000 on a night out, and one of the main reasons they are spending that much is to get women. They order champagne and invite women to share it with them. The funny thing is, even in these cases, the guys often don’t get anywhere. They say “I’m an investment banker at Goldman Sachs” and they think that the women will get wet over that. Fact is, most women would prefer a mountain climber who plays the electric guitar any day over just another guy with money. Think about it, these women of high value have offers of dinners and champagne every day of the week. These guys definitely lack what PUAs call game. Their game is to get the girls drunk, get drunk themselves, and see if she rejects the sleazy advances. Of course, if the guy is not too bad looking and the girl isn’t too fussy, it might work, but are these guys getting what they want? Do they feel satisfied with only the kind of girls that will sleep with them as long as they get to live a nice lifestyle. The usual problem with these guys is not running out of things to say like it is with other guys, it’s talking too much about themselves, being boring, and not being sensitive to what the woman wants. For us in these clubs, it’s pretty funny. We don’t spend money, and the girls really don’t care, they’re happy to meet guys that are attractive past the wallet, that know how to treat them, how to talk to them, and how to turn them on.

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