Most guys will become more attracted to a girl when she plays hard to get or is difficult in some way. I’ve noticed what I do. I do honest reward and punishment. Example:
Reward: increased attachment and doing more for her.
Punishment: Think of her more casually. At the extreme end look for other women.
Example: She takes a long time to get back to you, she is often late, she goes out and gets drunk with her friend, she is inconsiderate, you do things for her and she doesn’t reciprocate when she has the chance.
Each of these thigns should result in a punishment which means you think less of her and treat the relationship more casually, even to the point where you date other girls.
When she behaves perfectly you don’t need to punish her and can reward her with increased attachment.
The actions above would get on my nerves in a girl so why should I reward them with increased attachment? This seems obvious but most guys will chase more when a girl plays games or takes away her emotion a little bit. You also don’t need to go too far the other way in being a ba£$%rd all the time.
The sincere reward is just as important. It allows to have a happy relationship. The sincere punishment just shows her that she can’t start taking the piss. It’s natural that women start to get bored if you are too nice, but they get bored and misbehave, and then you punish this and then they come back. When you are in a relationship you have more “wiggle room” or margin for error so can get away with mistakes for short time before the relationship goes wrong.
Would love to know if this strikes a chord with any guys who have had relationships go wrong!
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