PUA Training Episode 4: A Womans Perspective
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Hey guys! Just a few thoughts about conversational technique.
Take License to Lead
Remember, when you first meet a woman, you have a license lead the conversation wherever you want to take it. As difficult as it can sometimes seem, being a man means taking charge and knowing what you want. Have confidence in what you’re saying; you can express this both physically and verbally.
So for example if I’m in set I might do something I like to call the Chess Pieces routine. If I’m standing in an awkward position I’ll jokingly look confused and say “No, no, this is all wrong”. Then I’ll physcically move the girls myself by putting my hands on their hips and re-positioning them around me until I’m in a position where they are all facing me and I’m leaned against the bar. Then lean back and say “ahhh, now this is much cosier for a little conversation isn’t it? Where were we?” You don’t need to make a meal out of this whole manuevre. Just do the whole thing quiet swiftly and nonchanlantly and it will powerfully convery inner confidence. (Make sure you make it clear with your facial expressions that you’re being a bit silly and having fun with them).
Embrace Being Unconventional
Don’t feel the need to be bound by social norms. Your power is in being different to every other guy. Think about it. Attractive women meet a lot of guys on any one night out. She may have three or four phone numbers by the end of the evening, so if one of them is yours, what are you going to do that makes her remember your name when it pops up on her Caller ID? I mentioned this in an earlier post, but women I have dated have always brought up the fact that I really stood out for them when we first met. Remember, there is so much more than just conventional conversation. Have fun with roleplaying, silly games, high fives, accuse her of being too forward, misinterpret what she says as being something sexual. Enjoy the experience of defying social norms!
Always be Moving Somewhere
Don’t get stuck and wallow in the early stage of an interaction. The biggest problem for newcomers is hanging on the opener for ten minutes until the topic completely runs dry. Don’t be afraid to cut off threads that are going nowhere! If you can feel the conversation growing stale don’t feel obliged to talk a subject to its death. Just cut it off and run into something else. Or completely change a girls frame by just cutting through the bullshit e.g. “Look, are you gonna be my girlfriend or not?”. This works great just to jolt her and step things up a gear, playfull of course!
See you soon, and take care guys,
Feel free to email me at matt@puatraining.com
Matthew H – Master trainer & Confidence expert
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Hi there,
You know, a lot of people think that I’ve always had success with girls, but a couple of years back I was single, depressed, and living with my Mum in Cambridge.
That’s when I made the decision to stride out of my comfort zone. I got a room in London and started going out five nights a week, met up with some great guys who helped me on my way, and the rest is history!
I started PUA Training to help other guys make the same transformation to their lives, so I wanted to share with you this video I shot a short while ago when I had a chance to go back to my old house for the day and remind myself how things have changed for me.
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Talk to you soon!
Richard (Gambler)
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Hey,
Glad you made it to the page.
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That’s about it, ok?
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ii) For those who want to get out into the field right now and get numbers, k-closes, and f-closes, why not join me on one of our special weekend bootcamps held in London and all over the United States
iii) For complete immersion in my System, come and live with me for a week at the PUA Training Mansion in the heart of London’s West End and have access to the finest in personalised training and resources on offer in the seduction world!
Talk to you soon!
Richard (Gambler)
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The video above was just a small sampling of what I shared at the 2007 ASPD Conference in Germany in front of over 600 guys. Presenting in front of so many people was great – I started this company because I wanted to help out guys who had been where I’d been -- and listening to a standing ovation from 600 people at once was very humbling….and very rewarding.
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Hope to see you soon!
Richard (Gambler)
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