Here’s a rundown of the top 5 adult dating sites as of 2013.
But before we get into that… answer this question honestly:
Are you lazy with women?
I mean REEEAALLLYY lazy? Like the kind of lazy that stops you from actually getting laid…
If you said yes, then you’re the type of guy that would greatly benefit from an adult site. You can quite honestly sit at home in your underwear… slobbing out, whilst you’re lining up another “casual sex” encounter with a stunning girl.
Don’t believe me?
Well it’s true!
You’ve more than likely heard the rumours about these free dating sites and thought to yourself… “Na, it’s probably full of guys and sluts”.
…You couldn’t be further from the truth.
The reason why most men who sign up to an adult dating site don’t get laid is because they do the following:
- Get intrigued and sign up
- Use the free trial to look around for a hottie
- Send a frack load of messages to as many cute girls as possible
- Get angry after 5 minutes because no one replied
- Cancel the account in a rage of anger and bash adult dating sites for being a waste of time
Yep I thought so.
Let me tell you something… you can get more p**sy on some of the best adult dating sites in one week than you could get by cold approaching 100 women in the street.
It comes down to 2 things:
1. Choosing from one of the top adult dating sites, to see which is right for you.
2. Understanding how to pick up women on these types of dating sites.
I’m going to show you both right now.
Top 5 adult dating sites in 2013
We’ve signed up to around 20 or so sites, tested and refined… until we found our top 5. Here’s they are…
1. Just Hookup (5/5)
Our number one choice for many reasons. It’s easy to use, great search feature and a lot of beautiful REAL girls on there. Great customer service also. We’ve written an in-depth Just Hookup Review also.
2. Erotic Love (4/5)
Tons and tons of girls on this one, over 30,000,000 in fact! Search features are pretty cool, messaging is OK, but you can have a lot of fun here if you like naughtier girls.
3. Xpress (4/5)
Much smaller user base but still worth checking out, the live webcam feature is great so you can get a little saucy with girls using this.
4. Fling (4/5)
Another HUGE site with millions of members. One of the first of it’s kind and still extremely popular. You get an older age range here, but still some top quality women.
5. Social Sex (3/5)
One of the newest sites to hit the market, but not looking that much different to the other dating sites out there. It’s OK, some of the girls seem fake to be honest but there are a lot of normal looking girls to choose from. Great search features and photo upload options though.
The lazy man’s guide to online adult dating
- Pay for a subscription – The free sites are full of scammers, time wasters and crazy folk, so don’t waste your time with them. Always opt for the pay only sites, these mean you will only get serious women, who are looking for a casual encounter.
- Use clear up to date photos – Most of the adult dating sites these days allow you to upload normal photos, explicit photos and videos. So it’s in your best interest to upload all 3 types. Be serious and don’t just show your funny bits and no face, women don’t like that. If you’re ripped, then show off your muscles! That is your advantage.
- Be original – In your bio, add something about you that is original and interesting. Yes there are women that just want sex, but they still want to know their “doing” it with a guy they are attracted to both physically and mentally.
- Don’t spam women – Never email groups of women with desperate one liners like “hey baby, you’re cute… whatsup? x”. This will never work, you need to give them a compliment and then take it away by being playful with a cheeky dig, this will intrigue them. Once you grab their attention you should start building some rapport.
- Don’t be too aggressive – Being playful and flirty is sexy, don’t ever be too aggressive or you’re going to scare women off. Save that for the bedroom dude!
Questions about adult dating sites
Here are some common questions about adult dating:
My friend told me these online dating sites are for freaks and weirdos, is that true?
No. Your friend has probably heard that from another friend. Do yourself a big favour and try one of them out, make your own opinion based on facts… not from something a “friend” said to you. Obviously there are going to be some strange folk on these types of sites, but on the paid adult sites, it’s seriously such a small percentage that it’s not even worth worrying about. Listen, if adult sites are good enough for MP’s in Parliament then they are good enough for you!
What’s the difference between adult dating sites and normal dating sites?
Adult dating sites are geared towards “casual sex” or “one night stands” as opposed to the normal kind which just focus on relationships and finding a soul mate. The casual kind are becoming very popular for a reason… because they WORK! You might want to even pick girls up on Facebook if you’re into the “normal” dating side of things.
Are the girls real? Or are they just hookers?
On the free sites, most of the girls will be hookers… on the paid sites, a very small minority will be. Almost all the girls on there are real and are there for the same reasons as you are. There will naturally be more men than women, but the guys are usually clueless as to how to hookup with a woman on there, so it’s easy pickings for you.
Why do you have to pay?
Because it’s a professional service that requires high quality customer service. You get what you pay for in this world, if you want a decent product then you need to pay good money for it.
So there you have it, our best adult dating sites for 2013.