5 Reasons Why You Can’t Get The Kiss


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I’ve spoken about how you can go in for the kiss and actually get it, with minimal failure before. But today I want to touch on a few reasons why you may not be getting the kiss each and every time you go for it.

There are some guys that go in for the kiss and get immediate rejection… some times harsh rejection.

Other guys, don’t go in for the kiss and then at the end of the date, wonder why they didn’t get one.

I want to explain why both happen and what each type of guy can do to dramatically increase his chances of getting that all important first kiss with a smoke show.

Let’s get on with it:

Reason #1: You are not building any sexual tension

Sexual tension is essential for creating a lustful attraction for both of you. If you don’t build any sexual tension, she will immediately put you into the friend zone, which can be tough to get out of.

Having the right amount of sexual tension will make kissing her so simple it will shock you, she’ll be practically setting everything up for you, so you don’t have to do any second guessing.

Reason #2: Your eye contact sucks

I’ve said a million times before that eye contact is one of the most (if not the most) powerful seduction tool you have. If you can hold eye contact, you will display confidence and intent that women want from a man.

When you have awkward silences during conversation, don’t break eye contact. Keep it steady until she breaks it, this will create a lot of trust and it will turn things sexual which is what you need.

Reason #3: You’re not taking notice of her gestures/body language

Why are so many guys so terrible at reading a woman’s body language and gestures? It truly baffles me. What you want to do is take not e of everything she does mentally throughout the evening/day.

How is she sitting next to you? Does she squeeze your hand when you hold hers? Is her eye contact strong? Does she allow you to touch her for long periods of time (i.e. arm over the shoulder, around her waist etc)?

Reason #4: You are not moving into seduction

The funny guy never gets laid… let alone kiss a girl. Kissing is part of the seductive phase, which means you need to be the seductive guy if you want to kiss her. Slower more calculated movements, a deeper voice, stronger eye contact, touching her in places that her (guy friends) wouldn’t touch her.

Taking the lead is also very seductive, so when you feel the time is right, you can simply look at her and say “Come here…” then go in for the kiss and take one hand, place it behind her head and hold it there during the kiss. This is a dominant move and will increase her attraction for you.

Reason #5: You’re not using kino from the moment you meet her

Kino is important from the very first moment you meet her. You have to learn how to touch women, without being creepy. Light, subtle touches on the arms, shoulders, stomach, hands, lower back, legs… all add up during an interaction and help with setting the right level of seduction.

You need to remind yourself, how would you touch your friends? If you treat girls like they are friends, those are the signals they will pickup and attraction will be dead, I can assure you of that.


Kissing a girl is one of the easiest things you can do, if you are still finding it hard, then I’m afraid you’re over thinking everything. Also you’re most likely placing her on a pedestal, which is incredibly common and easy to do. Treat every girl the same and remember that if you don’t get this one, there’s always another one who’s even hotter around the corner.

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  1. Will Edward says:

    Great article. All good reasons why guys won’t get the kiss and tips on how to build up to it. I remember working on each one of these in my game and saw progress along the way. Once I got all of it down, I started getting kisses and make-outs consistently. Fixing any one of these will help you, but solving all of them at once has an exponential positive effect. The sum is greater than it’s parts.

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