Building Powerful Inner Beliefs

To get your game together, you also need to  be solid inside. That means total self-confidence, no self-doubt.  How do you develop this? I recommend many books, the use of hypnosis, NLP, and even brainwave entrainment audio.  However, there is something simple which you can start doing immediately which will benefit you. That is to use affirmations. Affirmations are statements about yourself written in the present tense.  They should describe the ideal you, the person you’d like to become.  They will act on your subconscios mind, and in my experience, they work and will come true.  Read them a couple of times a day, especially before going out to meet women or a date or a  call with a girl.

Write them in the present:  “I am relaxed and comfortable”, not “I will be… Make them positive: “I am a winner” not “I’m not a loser”

Come up with your own, that are powerful for you, but here are some examples:

  • I am friendly
  • I am fun-loving
  • I am approachable
  • I am interesting
  • I am clever
  • I am a leader
  • I am challenging
  • I am a success in all that I do
  • I can attract any woman I want
  • I know my purpose
  • I am confident about who I am
  • I am an attractive man
  • I have a powerful reality
  • I am cool, calm, collected

You can also write them out as a paragraph:

My world and life are attractive and interesting. People like me, they want to meet me.  I am very interested in other people, I want to meet fun, positive and interesting people.

To see if they work, just read the above out loud and see if you feel better!  Remember we need to balance out the negativity many of us have all around us and affirmations are a great way to do that. They are also useful for state control. Over the years, I’ve developed tens of hours of great material.  But the very best of it, the stuff that will give you all the shortcuts can be found on my Special Offer page, this is where you pick up 4 of the best courses I’ve ever offered for just one dollar.  Check it out now!

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  1. @ Iain Take a look at the extra stuff I wrote for my list.

    It is possible to believe what may seem "unrealistic" beliefs even if you doubt it at first, faith and repetition is the key to grounding your beliefs in your subconscious mind. Just observe how incredibly strong the beliefs of followers of religions are. If Christians, Muslims and Hindus have beliefs such as "God impregnated a virgin then required a blood sacrifice offering by the method of the murder of his son to redeem evil humans and to prevent his wrath and vengeance bestowed upon humanity." If it is possible to believe such extraordinary beliefs then eventually programming yourself to believe
    "I am a Babe Magnet." isn't a stretch.

  2. If you don't believe in what you are saying, you will be reinforcing the belief that you can't do it.
    Affirmation work if you believe you are capable.
    If you have doubts, find a person who can give you knowledge and guidance.
    The secret is knowing how to do it, then developing the skill to be able to impliment this knowledge. Affirmations then stop you sliding back into your old habits.

  3. @Marty Precisely, you should never use negative affirmations and it should always coincide with what you have consciously chosen for your life. I have made the conscious decision to be a player. I added a few more affirmations.

    85. I am the most desirable man in the world. I am God's gift to women.

    86. I attract beautiful women on a deeply subconscious level.

    87. Beautiful women are extremely persistent with me for sex.

    88. What I believe is reality.

  4. “I’m not a loser” is one I wouldn't use. It focuses on the "loser" part. I am not something….? That's not really phrasing things in the positive. Plus, value conflict could cause some problems with affirmations. If you go around saying to yourself "I am a player" but you don't actually want to be a player then it ain't gonna work.

  5. Hi

    This is my personal affirmation list. It’s mostly to help me be successful with women but also has a lot to do with having self-esteem, confidence and a healthy psychological state of being. Feel free to use it and share it with others. It took me a long time to build this list and I have found it extremely helpful.


    Beliefs of Naturals – My Reality

    Read 3 times before bed and in the morning(do it for a for month)
    Record in the second person. Play recording on a loop continuously at a low volume(whisper).
    Play recording during the day and at night while sleeping.

    1. Being with me is the best possible choice for any woman.

    2. Women love men and especially love me.

    3. I love life!

    4. I am God. I am Perfect. This is my universe!

    5. I am fearless, courageous and bold!!!

    6. I read incredibly fast!

    7. Women love sex and want sex from me.

    8. My intelligence, creativity and potential is infinite!

    9. Women love to be hit on even if they pretend otherwise.

    10. I am completely focused, organised and use my time with the utmost efficiency.

    11. Women are nurtures and pleaser’s who want to nurture and please me.

    12. I am a self-assured, confident, sexual and dominant male.

    13. Everyday in every way I am better and better!!!

    14. I have complete control over my life, mind and psychological state of being.

    15. I am the greatest genius this world has ever seen.

    16. I heal instantly!

    17. I am successful, confident and achieve my goals. I exude confidence, sex, power and self-esteem.

    18. I can be, do and have anything I want to in this world, my possibilities are endless!!!

    19. I love myself! I am complete, fulfilled and completely happy!!!

    20. I am growing more beautiful and luminous day by day.

    21. People love me! I make friends easily.

    23. I read and meditate every day. I access all the knowledge in the universe.

    25. I am completely irresistible to women!

    26. Regardless of how she is reacting to me she is getting aroused.

    27. I see the underlying truth in all things.

    28. I am an adventurer! I travel the world!

    29. Regardless of how she is reacting to me I am the prize she is trying to win over!

    30. I am a multi-millionaire and master seducer!

    31. I love what I do and am richly rewarded, creatively and financially.

    32. I have a perfect photographic memory! I recall everything easily.

    33. Since she wants to sleep with me, the power is in my court to decide whether she lives up to my standards and expectations. I get to decide if we get to sleep together.

    34. I create my own reality!

    35. Today I love my body fully, deeply and joyfully.

    37. Today I open my mind to the endless opportunities surrounding me.

    38. Prosperity surrounds me, prosperity fills me, prosperity flows to me and through me.

    39. I have sex with super hot, confident, loving, caring and intelligent women with genius IQ’s all the time!

    40. I think positively every day, all the time.

    41. I attract amazing people.

    42. My imagination and power affirmations are now creating the reality I desire.

    43. My body is now trained to burn fat and build muscle day by day.

    44. I have a six pack of abdominal muscles.

    45. Let these commands be fulfilled!!!

    46. I am filled with the light of love, peace, happiness, power, success and joy every day, all the time.

    47. I am aggressive, direct and powerful with the women I desire. I radiate a confidence, self-control and charm that women find irresistibly attractive.

    48. My mind is focused on what I desire and I go for it congruently and powerfully.

    49. I take immediate advantage of my opportunities with women. I swiftly establish incredible rapport, gather the information I need, then close with aggression, power and finesse.

    50. I radiate a natural, easy self-acceptance that women find irresistibly attractive.

    51. I am mastering the responses, attitudes, behaviours, insights and timing that bring me irresistible power with the women I desire.

    52. I am now approaching women that I am attracted to.

    53. I am able to pick up and attract any women I desire.

    54. I am a strong, powerful, aggressive, dominant, alpha male, leader and conqueror!!!

    55. I am charming, interesting and fascinating!!!

    56. I have a perfectly sculptured muscle ripped body.

    57. I am super hot and sexy, all women want me!

    58. Abundance is my natural state of being!

    59. Money comes to me easily and continuously from multiple sources!

    61. My IQ and intelligence increases daily rapidly!!!

    62. I have clear beautiful skin!

    63. I have lucid dreams and recall all my dreams with complete clarity!

    65. All things are now working together for good in my life.

    66. I am now attuned to my higher purpose in life.

    67. I rule the world! I am brilliant and perfect in every possible way!

    68. I succeed in everything I do!

    69. I have sex with one thousand super hot women!

    70. I am now enjoying everything I do and feel happy just being alive.

    71. Sex with super hot women comes to me easily and effortlessly.

    72. The light within me creates miracles in my life here and now.

    73. All things are now working together for good in my life.

    74. I am now attuned to my higher purpose in life.

    75. I have the infinite creative power of God within me.

    76. My higher self is guiding me in everything that I do.

    77. God lives within me and manifests in the world through me.

    78. The light of God surrounds me, the love of God enfolds me, the power of God flows through me. Wherever I am, God is, and all is well!

    79. I ascend spiritually rapidly everyday all the time!

    80. I am a Natural, Ladies Man and Player!

    81. Everywhere I go women want to fuck me!

    82. I have sex with supermodels daily.

    83. Supermodels have an incredible desire to fuck me wherever I go!

    84. I attract whatever I desire.

  6. nice materrial

  7. sho!!!Gambler!!!most of your posts have been working for me,a gained a lot of confidence as was evident the past weekend. For the first time in my dating life i went out of my ordinary chick comfort zone, me and my friend went out for some day game and i did quite good and i can say so myself because the chick was almost eating outa ma for the affirmations,i always use some but never knew their are called "affirmations" and i guess i've subconsciously earned confidence from them.
    thanx man keep em coming!!!

  8. diganme por favor, algo sobre estas afirmaciones, me dijeron que un grabador las puedo escuchar,pero tengo que escucharlas cuando estoy atento y despierto o cuando estoy dormido, no son audios sublimianles, son unas afirmaciones que tengo en mi grabador. queiro saber si mi subconsciente las escucha aun dormidoteee, jaja bueno gracias,

  9. "…because I'm good enough, smart enough and, goshdarnit, people like me."

    In regards to TheFlarey's comment, I think martial arts gives you confidence because even though you do get some social interaction out of it, you're learning how to defend yourself. I don't really think it has much to do with having to touch people and be in close quarters with them, especially since most of the people who take martial arts are men, and most of the women who do them aren't young and/or attractive. In fact, there are VERY few young and/or attractive women who do martial arts. This is based on my personal experience with martial arts by the way, so I'm not just talking out of my ass.

  10. Two things I've always wondered about affirmations:

    1. Aren't they most effective when you record them on an endless-looping tape (how to do this with cd's/mp3's, I don't know), and if so, how much more effective?

    2. When recording them as above for your subconscious to listen to passively as opposed to you actively saying them, I've heard/read that you're supposed to say "YOU are confident with women" rather than "I am confident with women". Thoughts/comments on this?

  11. TheFlarey says:

    While it is important to create an inner voice that uss the above affirmations to displace the evil gremlin that tells you are no good and worthless, I think it is even better to actually pursue a hobby or activity that is a concrete confirmation of your confidence.
    I joined a martial arts club in college and it did wonders for my confidence particularly in my posture, how I walked and moved which became smoother and unhurried rather than hunched and bumping into things clumsily and particularly for my body language when I was in public places where before I became defensive when I encountered confident sociable people.
    The meditation rituals in martial arts are ideal for helping to get a person to relax in a social setting and most importantly when talking to women.
    I actually feared women and feared even touching them.
    The proximity of two people in martial arts when they must grapple and parry blows puts you in the zone when you are required to enter a person's comfort zone – usually within arms length or right in the face which is obviously required if you want to kiss a woman who you may have just met only minutes before.

  12. Hiya i purchased you book recently "The natural art of seduction" and i've gotta say its amazing cheers mate.

  13. Great, keep up the good work!

  14. THis is great thanks a bunch!

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