How To Talk To Women Confidently Without Running Out Of Things To Say (Conversation Control)

NOTE: Want to attract more women? Then you need to WATCH THIS VIDEO. It shows you how you can sleep with 6+ girls a week using stealth seduction methods.

Pity me as a teacher! Conversation is one of the things that guys always want to learn, but is the hardest to teach. Why?

First simply because each girl and each situation is different and so requires a different conversation. Second because it’s possible to pick up a girl by being very funny, and not connecting, or by connecting and not making one joke, by talking a lot, or by not saying much. [Read more…]

4 Easy Assumptions You Can Make To Keep The Conversation Going

NOTE: Want to attract more women? Then you need to WATCH THIS VIDEO. It shows you how you can sleep with 6+ girls a week using stealth seduction methods.

Drying up mid flow during a conversation with a hot lady and have NO IDEA what to say next? No worries dude, it’s a common problem.

You’ve been there… a smoke-show stands in front of you at Starbucks… you pluck up the confidence to open her, she’s instantly receptive and then you immediately start sweating because you don’t know what to say to keep the conversation going with her. [Read more…]

The 5 Secrets Of Never Running Out Of Things To Say To A Woman


Erm… she’s not interested dude.

How many times have you been in a conversation with a girl… maybe in a busy bar, coffee shop… even in the street and for whatever reason, you just freeze up mid-flow.

It’s like your mind has been wiped blank and you can’t string a simple sentence together to keep the conversation flowing.

WTF?! [Read more…]

Conversation Control: How To Build Attraction & Rapport During An Interaction With Women

If you’re still having trouble building rapport and girls are just not attracted to you, then you need to make a few conversational adjustments.

The tips below are the exact same tips I give to my students, so take note and start using them. [Read more…]

11 Surprisingly Good Second Date Ideas That Any Girl Will Go Nuts Over

Ok so you’ve been on a first date with a girl you really like and you want to see her again, now what? Well you need to setup a 2nd date also known as a day 2 and think of some good second date ideas so she won’t get bored.

Easy enough right?

Well apparently not! [Read more…]

9 Simple But Very Effective First Date Tips For Men… Never Experience A First Date Disaster Again

NOTE: Want to attract more women? Then you need to WATCH THIS VIDEO. It shows you how you can sleep with 6+ girls a week using stealth seduction methods.

I’ve got some very cool first date tips for men that will have her itching to meet you again because she’s never been on a first date like it!

I used to be terrible on first dates and made all the classic mistakes a lot of guys do… you know, running out of things to say, taking the girls to the wrong kinds of places, never really knowing how to escalate… it was a disaster. [Read more…]

Surefire Kino Escalation Tips: 6 Types Of Kino Touching That Will Turn Women On Super Fast

Kino escalation seems to be a HUGE sticking point for guys.

I mean men seriously don’t know how to touch women, without coming across as creepy and weird.

But once you understand how to touch a woman, you will be able to spark attraction, build ridiculous levels of sexual tension and basically have her ready to come back to your place. [Read more…]

Rapport Building Questions: How To Build Extremely Deep Levels Of Rapport

Asking the right questions can lead to extreme levels of trust.

In Stealth Attraction I go into detail on connecting with a woman, showing you secrets that I’ve NEVER revealed anywhere else before.

The connection techniques I teach you in that program are so advanced that some guys find it hard to apply them.

So today I want to touch on rapport building questions, which is a basic level of rapport but still incredibly powerful. [Read more…]

How To Annihilate A Girls “Bitch Shield” And Make Her Want You

It’s inevitable that you will come across a bitchy woman at some point.

She’ll be happy to tell you exactly what she thinks about you, without a second thought as to how you might be feeling afterwards.

Her main focus at that given point is to ruin you, to make you feel like an insignificant, worthless little boy who would never stand a chance of getting with her if your life depended on it. [Read more…]

Self Hypnosis – Accelerate your pick up skills PART 2

Hey Guys,

Responses to the Self-hypnosis audio have been brilliant – thanks to all of you who have emailed me or posted comments (if you want to listen you can do so here ). You can download the file here

A few of you have asked questions so I’ve decided to write some responses to answer a few of them……….


Noel asked “Does NLP / Hypnosis work with everyone?”

The thing to realise is that NLP and hypnosis use thought processes and patterns and are already part of peoples’ functioning and, in fact, most of them are modelled from people who are doing thing or being a particular way. Let me give you an example:

People sometimes say to me they don’t know if their visualisations are powerful enough and I ask “Have you ever experienced anxiety?”. The thing is, to experience anxiety a person has to imagine something happening in the future and usually make a picture of some event or situation that they wouldn’t want. So, firstly, this means they have the ability not only to make pictures internally, but also to construct pictures of things that haven’t even happened yet. And, they are able to make the pictures so vivid and lifelike that they feel real feelings (anxiety) as a result of them. So, this means a person has the ability to create pictures that are so real they feel actual feelings now. That’s quite a skill. And, of course, if they can make pictures that make them feel one way they can make them feel another way.

Regarding hypnosis, then people enter trance states all the time. A simple way to consider trance is that it is a state characterised by a narrow focus of attention, everyday examples are driving trances, have you ever been driving and absorbed in your own thougts or ‘in your own world’ and nearly missed an exit or junction? The TV trance is another, someone may not even hear their name being called because their attention is focused solely on the TV, they may even have their hand dangling in mid air holding the remote. When someone is experiencing approach anxiety, they may go into trance and literally go ‘blank’ so it seems like there’s nothing there.

So, the question isn’t really whether people can experience trance, it’s more whether the trances they are experiencing are serving them well, and, if not then hypnosis is one way to change this.

Linking to the question from Alif Aka Myth. You say you can’t seem to get the audio to work for you, my question is, How do you know it’s not working? But, more importantly, how would you know if it was?

A question to ask yourself is “Do you really want to understand how to be a great pua or do you want to BE a great pua?”

The aim of the audio is NOT that you consciously know what you’ve modelled from someone else. You can do that by observing them and analysing what they do. The aim of this is to learn unconsciously (which means you don’t know what is it you are learning, you just discover that you have) – which is how you learned as a child, you never consciously set out one day to learn to walk and analysed your progress as you went along. In fact, if you had it would probably have been the very thing that would have stopped you learning it.

I’m not suggesting that analysis and logical understanding aren’t helpful, only that this audio is about helping you find an alternative way of learning. We have been conditioned by our society that we must understand things before we can do them which is sometimes a very unhelpful way to work. Do you really want to understand how to be a great pua or do you want to be a great pua? If you actually want to understand it (which I would suggest only really has a benefit if you’re a trainer and want to teach others) then analysis will be useful, but if you just want to model someone  and be how they are then this will help you massively. Here’s one of the emails I received….

Hey Ben,

This week has been pretty interesting, friday night i applied non verbal opening / forcing a IOI – followed with a direct approach straight into a kiss – the rest was easy. Saturday was more of the same – kissed a girl i was out with some mates – after lots of strong eye contact, i walked up – took hold of her belt and gently pulled her into me – kiss kiss…. the come to bed eyes are improving haha – i wasn’t sure why this side of things is suddenly clicking – then i remembered doing your audio hypnosis! and using Gambler / Maverick as a model!

many thanks :)  Dan

Now, I’m sure there will be some cynical people out there who say, well, maybe these things would have happened anyway. And, maybe Dan would have done them without using hypnotic modelling. Only you will really know what effects it has after you’ve listened to it and, it may be that it’s only some time afterwards when you find yourself being different that you make a connection with that experience. Feel free to let me know your feedback.