Divorce Recovery: How To Get Back In The Game After Divorcing Your Wife

Don't settle, get back in the game!

Don’t settle, get back in the game!

Divorce can be brutal, especially in America. So if you’ve gone through a divorce and it was a tough one, don’t worry. Time will allow you to get over it and you will be able to live a normal life again, I promise. Not only that, you are now free to bang young hot daddy hungry chicks all day long if you wish.

Today, I’m going to show you how to get over a divorce (no matter how messy it was) and begin taking your life seriously, so that you can start meeting new women fairly quickly.

Let’s get on with it:

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Get your priorities in order

There will be certain things that you need to take care of, before you can focus on game. It’s vital that you deal with these so that your mind is not pre-occupied with nonsense.

  • Where are you living? If you’re living in the house you used to live in with your wife, you may want to consider selling. So that you can have a clean start. Nothing hinders your game more than bad memories of previous experiences with women, especially if that woman was living with you for several years.
  • Do you have money to get by? After legal fees and possible child support payments, you may not be left with much. Start managing your money correctly, so that you can pay for the necessaries and allow yourself some play money once in a while. Play money will allow you to travel, get some new clothes, go on dates etc. It’s to help blow off steam.
  • Are you legally obligated to do anything? Some divorces require you to remain in the country, take care of children on specific days of the week, meet your wife and lawyer etc. Make sure you have all of these obligations down so that you don’t have to stress about them.
  • What is most important to you right now? Take a piece of paper and list the most important things in your life right now. Then list what you want to have happen to you in the next 5 years. Do you want to meet another woman and fall in love? Do you want to travel the world? Do you want to bang a new chick every few days? Go to the core of your being and really ask yourself what will make you happy.

Don’t let yourself go

Most men will rapidly decline in health and wellbeing after divorcing. The reasons vary, but for most it’s because they don’t feel as though they need to impress anyone anymore. So they become lazy, unambitious and stagnant. The thought of going through another battle with a woman is scary after finally ending a long divorce.

I completely understand that. But listen, if you let yourself go I guarantee you… there will be no pussy coming anywhere near your bed for a very long time. Stay mentally and physically strong.

Don’t be bitter

So the woman you’ve known and “loved” for 20 years has broken your heart, by cheating on you and saying to your face that she doesn’t find you attractive anymore. Not only that, but she cleaned you out financially after paying her money and the lawyers after proceedings ended.

What’s the one thing you need to avoid becoming? BITTER. Your bitterness is repulsive to any new women that come your way. They will smell the defeat and it will dry their vagina up faster than split watermelon in the dessert. Keep your head held high, focus only on the future and never let those negative thoughts take hold.

Join a few classes

Get your arse out of the house and start going to classes at the gym, the local community centre, private lessons for learning a new subject/topic and get out of the house. By getting involved with group classes, you will become more sociable and open to meeting new people. It will help you take your mind off everything that’s happened and allow you to feel more positive about life.

Travel to clear your mind

I honestly don’t know of anything more freeing than traveling on your own around the world to clear your head and give yourself a mental fresh start. Now this may be difficult if you have children, but you owe it to yourself to take some alone time. If you can’t afford to take weeks off at a time. Start small and travel only on weekends to somewhere a couple of hours away by plane, every couple of weeks.

Improve your social circle

When you’ve been around the same woman for years, chances are you’re going to experience a social circle clash. This is when you both know the same people. It’s crucial that you get a new social circle, not really to replace the old one, but to offer you new friendships that can produce opportunities with new people.

Use dating apps

Going to group classes and meeting new people can be hard and it takes practice. Lucky for you, it’s incredibly easy to meet new women these days with a couple of swipes. Get on Tinder and Bumble, see which app works for you. Make it a point to update your photos, create a ‘to the point’ bio (no one really cares about that anyway) and remain active on them until you have a stream of dates every week.

Start approaching every day

Apps are a great way to get back in the game quickly. But you shouldn’t rely on them, because women (and men) are incredibly judgemental when it comes to online dating and looks play a big part. So play the advantage game. Start approaching women every single day, at least one.

The more women you approach, the more dates you will arrange and the more sex you will get if you just keep pushing through that comfort zone. I know it may be difficult after so many years of being married, which is why you must do it every day.

Just a simple, “Excuse me.. I just saw you and thought you looked really nice, I wanted to come over and say hello” will do, then get the number and follow up. Easy.

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