How To Get The Spark Back In Your Relationship (Even If It’s Been Years Since You Had Sex)

She wants you... take her.

She wants you… take her.

Whether you’ve been in a relationship with your girl for decades or you’ve only been seeing each other for a year. Chances are at some point during your time together, you will hit a wall of boredom.

You’ll notice that one day… the spark is gone and you’re no longer feeling the urge to rip her clothes off and smash her backdoors in.

Why is that?

Well, chance are it’s because you (like millions of others worldwide) have fallen into a boredom trap. Sex has become more of a chore, rather than an exciting and fun thing.

Now there are multiple ways in which you have become bored of sex with your girl, here are the most common:

  • You don’t have enough sex
  • Sex has become unadventurous (same positions)
  • You are always the one initiating sex
  • You or her are body conscious

So how do you get the spark back in your relationship so that you can enjoy each other sexually again?

Well, there’s a bunch of things you can do actually. However you need to be willing to try them and apply them every day, otherwise you will fall back into the same routines, ok?

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#1 Kiss her passionately

When folks get into a relationship, for some reason certain things just die. Kissing is one of those things. Instead of kissing her with a peck on the lips. When you see her next, look at her with pure lust, like it’s the first time you’ve seen each other in months. Then place your hands on her face, kiss her passionately and give her bum a little squeeze.

After you’ve kissed her, give her bum a quick pat and say to her “Damn you’re f**king sexy”. Keep infusing moments like this into the day and you will both begin to feel more sexually charged.

#2 Make her feel sexy

The problem with a lot of women is that they don’t feel sexy. The reason they don’t feel sexy is because they have self esteem issues. Now although this stems from their own thoughts and feelings towards themselves, it still makes a huge difference if YOU make an effort to tell her and show her how sexy she is.

The more sexy a woman feels… the more sexual she will be. That’s just a fact. So compliment her body, let her know how much you are attracted to her, how good she looks in the morning etc.

#3 Do something exciting together

Remember when you first started dating and you felt a rush every time you met your girl? Well that feeling was because you experienced something new together. You both had a dopamine fix and that made you like each other even more. It’s very important that you try to recreate those same feelings.

The easiest way to do that is by trying something new and exciting together. Write down a list of things you could do that would make you feel happy and excited. An impromptu trip to Spain, a weekend away learning how to dance, a trip to her favourite restaurant, etc.

#4 Share sexual fantasies (make a list)

Sit down together and write down a list of sexual things you both want to try. It can be as wild or as boring as you like. Once you have that list, you now want to fulfill those sexual fantasies every week. Don’t be embarrassed, just take it upon yourself to keep trying new things that you have never done before in the bedroom. This will make it much more exciting.

#5 Try new sex positions

If sex has become boring for you, it’s because you’re doing the same things over and over again. You need to spice the sex up with new sexual positions. Have you ever tried anal together? What about 69ing each other? Have you managed to make her cum from doing the lazy doggy? There are hundreds of positions you should be trying with every session.

#6 Roleplay!

Being able to roleplay is one of the most interesting ways to spice up your relationship in the bedroom. Obviously this could get very embarrassing if you don’t play along, so it’s vital you dive right into it 100% and take on the character. Ever wanted to be the teacher, banging his pupil in class? Make her dress up! Maybe she wants to suck off a super hero, you don’t know until you’ve asked her.

#7 Be adventurous with sex

The bedroom isn’t the only place you can have sex you know, try other areas of the house. If you’re feeling extra naughty, then have sex in public somewhere… why not? If it’s going to bring back that spark in your relationship, then give it a try!

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