The 4 Unquestionable Text Game Elements Every Text Message You Ever Send A Girl Should Have (With Examples)

It’s no surprise that text game NEEDS to be a skillset that you sharpen as you’re learning game these days.

Although you might suck at texting girls, the sad part is… most girls prefer texting than talking on the phone. Especially to a guy they’ve just met.

So you just have to work on your text game until you’re getting positive results.

To make it easier for you, I’m going to give you the 4 elements of any text message that are SOOOOO important, if you want the text to create an impact with a girl.

If your text doesn’t have at least 1 of these elements… STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING and don’t you dare send that message.

I see far too many text casualties from students that makes me feel physically sick with how damn pathetic they are.

Ok, ready? Let’s get on with the elements.

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1. Curiosity

When you’re curious about something, you naturally feel compelled to understand more about that thing. You’re fueled by interest and intrigued to quench your curiosity thirst.

Arousing curiosity within a text message is a fantastic way to pretty much guarantee a reply. So you always need to use this element.


HER: Stop what?
YOU: Thinking about me so much.

2. Humour

Women love a guy who can make them laugh, it’s infectious… it gets them turned on and induces a level of trust that most guys can only hope for.

The strange thing about humour is that it’s universal, so every girl on this planet has the ability to laugh and will be turned on by your sense of humour (I’m hoping you have one).

Don’t go overkill on the humour though, just like in real life… she’ll use you as the jester to make her laugh through text messages. This is what you don’t want.


I miss you and wanna see you, but this dumb security guard won’t let me in the zoo. Is there any way you can escape?

3. Authority

If you lead in an authoritative manner, women will follow… no question. They are wired to follow a big strong alpha man and they secretly love it (even the feminists).

Showing that you’re a dominant male through texts will convey an attractive quality and will cut through the bullshit.


YOU: Let’s meet on Tuesday at 8:30 outside the big statue in the park.. we can for a drink from there.
HER: Sounds great, see you then x

4. Confidence

The last and most crucial element is confidence. Without self-confidence, you will convey neediness, look like a wuss and not be attractive to women in the slightest.

Each message should show that you’re a confident (not cocky) man who can make fun of himself, but also stand up for himself and not let others walk over him.


I just don’t think we should do this anymore… Sometimes you make me feel like I am just a piece of meat.


So there you have it, simple text messaging elements that once mastered will allow you to create unlimited amounts of attraction with girls. Good luck!

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  1. Hey Richard, another great post!
    Man, I’ve a question. When should I stop texting a girl and give up?
    I’m trying to keep a conversation (via facebook) with a girl (I don’t like to use this, but she is a HB8.5 – HB9). We first met in a club and after 20-30 minutes we made out and we’ve stayed together for almost 3 hours and then she left with her friends. I really liked her and she seemed to like me as well. That day was impossible to have sex cause I live very far from the club and she lives with her parents and a friend of her was responsable to drive her home :/
    Now I’m texting her and she’s answering, always laughing at my jokes, but not investing in the conversation at all. I tried to ask her out twice, but she had excuses both times.
    What’s your opinion about this? What should I do? Thanks in advance Rich.

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