Self Hypnosis – Accelerate your pick up skills PART 2

Hey Guys,

Responses to the Self-hypnosis audio have been brilliant – thanks to all of you who have emailed me or posted comments (if you want to listen you can do so here ). You can download the file here

A few of you have asked questions so I’ve decided to write some responses to answer a few of them……….


Noel asked “Does NLP / Hypnosis work with everyone?”

The thing to realise is that NLP and hypnosis use thought processes and patterns and are already part of peoples’ functioning and, in fact, most of them are modelled from people who are doing thing or being a particular way. Let me give you an example:

People sometimes say to me they don’t know if their visualisations are powerful enough and I ask “Have you ever experienced anxiety?”. The thing is, to experience anxiety a person has to imagine something happening in the future and usually make a picture of some event or situation that they wouldn’t want. So, firstly, this means they have the ability not only to make pictures internally, but also to construct pictures of things that haven’t even happened yet. And, they are able to make the pictures so vivid and lifelike that they feel real feelings (anxiety) as a result of them. So, this means a person has the ability to create pictures that are so real they feel actual feelings now. That’s quite a skill. And, of course, if they can make pictures that make them feel one way they can make them feel another way.

Regarding hypnosis, then people enter trance states all the time. A simple way to consider trance is that it is a state characterised by a narrow focus of attention, everyday examples are driving trances, have you ever been driving and absorbed in your own thougts or ‘in your own world’ and nearly missed an exit or junction? The TV trance is another, someone may not even hear their name being called because their attention is focused solely on the TV, they may even have their hand dangling in mid air holding the remote. When someone is experiencing approach anxiety, they may go into trance and literally go ‘blank’ so it seems like there’s nothing there.

So, the question isn’t really whether people can experience trance, it’s more whether the trances they are experiencing are serving them well, and, if not then hypnosis is one way to change this.

Linking to the question from Alif Aka Myth. You say you can’t seem to get the audio to work for you, my question is, How do you know it’s not working? But, more importantly, how would you know if it was?

A question to ask yourself is “Do you really want to understand how to be a great pua or do you want to BE a great pua?”

The aim of the audio is NOT that you consciously know what you’ve modelled from someone else. You can do that by observing them and analysing what they do. The aim of this is to learn unconsciously (which means you don’t know what is it you are learning, you just discover that you have) – which is how you learned as a child, you never consciously set out one day to learn to walk and analysed your progress as you went along. In fact, if you had it would probably have been the very thing that would have stopped you learning it.

I’m not suggesting that analysis and logical understanding aren’t helpful, only that this audio is about helping you find an alternative way of learning. We have been conditioned by our society that we must understand things before we can do them which is sometimes a very unhelpful way to work. Do you really want to understand how to be a great pua or do you want to be a great pua? If you actually want to understand it (which I would suggest only really has a benefit if you’re a trainer and want to teach others) then analysis will be useful, but if you just want to model someone  and be how they are then this will help you massively. Here’s one of the emails I received….

Hey Ben,

This week has been pretty interesting, friday night i applied non verbal opening / forcing a IOI – followed with a direct approach straight into a kiss – the rest was easy. Saturday was more of the same – kissed a girl i was out with some mates – after lots of strong eye contact, i walked up – took hold of her belt and gently pulled her into me – kiss kiss…. the come to bed eyes are improving haha – i wasn’t sure why this side of things is suddenly clicking – then i remembered doing your audio hypnosis! and using Gambler / Maverick as a model!

many thanks :)  Dan

Now, I’m sure there will be some cynical people out there who say, well, maybe these things would have happened anyway. And, maybe Dan would have done them without using hypnotic modelling. Only you will really know what effects it has after you’ve listened to it and, it may be that it’s only some time afterwards when you find yourself being different that you make a connection with that experience. Feel free to let me know your feedback.

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  2. im having about a billion disagreeable and anxiety provoking situations. im not sure what im doing wrong to be honest!

  3. Sim, good question. I think you're doing great! The intention is that you do alter your state significantly while listening to this although actually going to sleep is less effective.

    The test is simple. Do you wake up at the end or keep sleeping? If you just keep going then you were probably asleep.

    If you wake up (even if you don't consciously remember the words) then some part of you must be listening to what is happening otherwise you wouldn't know if was time to wake up. If some part of you is listening then it means you're processing the information on some level (which for you is pretty unconsciously) so you can benefit really well from it.

    The real test will be over a period of time as you use it when you notice the effects of the person you have modelled because since the listening has been very unconscious, the learning will be to so you probably will just find yourself doing or saying certain things that might surprise you.

    Thanks for the comment. Ben

  4. This seems like a really cool idea. I have one problem though, and its one that ive had with a few hypnosis products including approaching confidence and some hypnotica stuff, i keep falling asleep! I listen and try to stay awake focusing on the audio then the next thing i know the audio has stopped and im really groggy. i only actually recall hearing the 'wake up' about 5% of the time. Any ideas how i can get around this or if i even need to?

  5. NLP i find has had some effect.

    but the process has been rather slow and tedious never the less.

    no spontaneous remissions/transformations for me nope.

    and im still stuck.

  6. Hey Ben.

    I really enjoyed this. Are there any plans for future audio? Like many I was skeptical about NLP but usung it to improve myself seems to be having some effect.

  7. sorry for the double post.. but i gotta say after relaxing for a while then going back, that was amazing!

  8. was i the only one scared shtless by the back round music?? i felt like somebody was gonna climb up from under my bed with a knife and stab me in the chest…. maybe i'm a little neurotic tonight. lol i'll try again later.

  9. ok how many people chose james bond? or james t kirk? im actualy trying captain jack sparrow at the moment which has boosted my confidence and made me more free spirited but has left me with a craving for rum lol.

  10. Ben,

    I am a very skeptical guy, turned believer. The “Approaching Confidence” track really has worked. I am a more social person to everyone and I attribute it to that.

    I do not have a question as much as a comment. Is there a way to get two versions of each piece of audio? This audio puts me in such a wonderful place and then – bam! – I’m awake. I’m sure that there are more than a fair amount of your customers that would also like the ‘straight to sleep’ option. If that is not possible – or advisable – it is understandable. Unfortunate but understandable. Maybe, you can just included a track on your upcoming product that was for sleep. That would be greatly appreciated.

    Also, will there be some “Non-game” tracks? i.e. overcoming fears, increasing motivation, etc.

    Finally, it would be nice to have a survey put out to see what the needs and wants of your customers would be. That way you can provide the most comprehensive and succinct product out there!

    Keep up the great work and I’m excited to see what’s in the works. If you need anyone to beta-test anything, I am more than available :-)


  11. Noel – glad you like it so much. New product coming out in the new year, the current 'Approaching Confidence' product is designed specifically to be confident approaching and to deal with approach anxiety, the new one will be relating to modelling and states and so is more general for all aspect of your life.

    Bruno – Yes, you can use this to model different people, Jim Hendrix one day, a pua the next!

    Hipshot – the links seem to be working, on the humyo page just scroll down to where it says download.

    Matt – I really don't know how many times you'll need to listen before you see results. It's a bit like saying how many times do I need to go to the gym before I'm fit, it woud depend where you're starting from and what your current fitness is. Some people might listen to it once and notice the benefits, others many times.

    Tony – thanks for the suggestions, I like them. Watch this space!

  12. Dude, how many times should I listen to the audio before I start seeing results? And when is the best time of day to listnen to the audio, or does it matter?

  13. The first time I listened to the audio I couldn't focus on it because I kept thinking how much my girlfriend could benefit from it. She's starting a sales based business and is being trained by a successful role model. So I sent her the link, can't wait to hear her results, not to mention what she thinks of the site, her first contact with this community. I vouched for you: "these guys seem to have integrity and honorable intentions". You better not let me down. I'll let you know how it works out.

    In the mean time I'm using it to model an ex gf's skill at opening and befriending people in bars, never met anyone who could turn a random stranger into a close friend so quickly. Seems to help, but it's too soon to tell.

    I can't figure out how to download the .mp3 file from Humyo. Any suggestions?

  14. Does this work more than one time? (eg.: can I use this one time to model Jimi Hendrix, and another one to model a pua?)

  15. Ben You have ne sold, I will def hook this up!

    When is your'e product coming out as I hear you are working on one at the moment?

    I will ef give you my feedback after man

    Another question if you have the time is what one should I listen too? The one currently offered by PUA training or the one you are soon releasing?

  16. Cool

    You are awesome!


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